Most Patani Malay Muslims are perfectly happy to live in a conservative Islamic society.
Maybe not as harsh as Afghanistan, but still in line with the original Melayu culture of the region, which is as conservative as it goes in Thailand.
FYI, I am a farang teacher living in the region and I don't care either way. I didn't come here to change the people's way of life, and I respect all cultures and all religions.
If I didn't like it, I wouldn't be here, now would I?