Been there done that

4 hours ago, tgeezer said:

 

“...in a nation where lying, thieving, corruption, racism a.o is rife. “.
If you speak from experience and object to these things perhaps you should consider taking my post more seriously.


Do you not see the irony in accusing all Thai people of racism?

“Shirtless jeeezzzz”

You reap what you sow.


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I better buy a shirt then.

42 minutes ago, Meljames said:

 

 

Well, when in ancient Greece......

At least it explains why the elderly like to retire here

23 minutes ago, totally thaied up said:

End of story

 

No, you like it, boosting it off on here but the chances the husbands are playing the game just make it believable to your mind that it is okay; do not make two wrongs a right?

 

In my younger years here I did my fair share of bars, and it wore off quick. It seems like we are the stinking raw prawn here yet, in the end, many of my friends married right after the fun part wore off. I dated maybe over 100 girls here from all different backgrounds after the bar days. It's not hard to find decent women but finding someone compatible that for me is the deal breaker.

 

Without that, all is lost and where many go wrong. Bring compatible in bed is fine but in education, talks, understanding of outside news events and even job comparability makes all the difference in being happy here with a Thai.

 

I agree with your comment, however, it seems that the exceptions are only on this forum. In day to day life i am not meeting them. Foreigners with servants and who live in denial of the REALITY, of their situation, yes, but thats it mostly. 

And so the bubble will be continued.

3 minutes ago, observer90210 said:

It is a bit like the countless farang ranters towards Thailand, but who either carry on to live here or run over to Thailand each winter for their cold season retreat !..

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If only the women were not so cheap 

1 hour ago, Dmaxdan said:

I don't think it's a case of not giving a damn, it's more down to being completely ignorant of what's right or wrong.


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If you conclude on this matter total ignorance of right and wrong, you must live here with eyes closed.

I can see monkeys voting for a monkey.

2 hours ago, malagateddy said:

My wife paid her annual life ASSURANCE money to the village treasurer last week..all above board where I live outside Chaiyaphum.
Sadly there have been a few deaths this year..every deceased's next of kin received 220000 baht I can assure you.

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Dying pays i see 

1 hour ago, Thai Ron said:

I can;t be certain cos I don't know you but, after reading your remarks about 95% of the girls you've met having no respect for anyone but their parents, I'm going to go out on a limb and say that there's no chance in hell that you and I (or the dweebs you know) are fishing in the same waters, mate. This point is no better illustrated by the fact you think I was having a conversation about salaries or stipends while barfining whores or over dinner in a restaurant. LOL! 

 

With that in mind, it's hardly surprising you think the women I spoke about in my last post didn't respect me but the fact of the matter is that, nearly 9 years later, more than half of them are still close friends and kiks - (two of them married to farangs who think the salary they pay them is a watertight exclusivity contract). Guaranteed they respect me more than they respect their dumb benefactors.

 

I don't sniff around low income, financially challenged women.

I don't rely on a woman's financial imperatives to help make the case for a relationship with me like half these dopes who turn up in Thailand thinking it's a sweet shop.

There's no doubt that my way takes a lot longer and requires more effort but a relatively aggro-free decade has been its own reward.

No one stealing my phone, rummaging through my drawers, no police mediating domestics and no "bloken haaaat" birds stalking me or bugging condo security for my whereabouts once we part ways.

 

 

 

So we can conclude that you like shagging another man's wife.

Good on ya.

2 minutes ago, BTB1977 said:

I know she is full of shit. I called her on it last year. I said it is not my problem. If she knows she has a bill to pay at the end of the year, why not save 1,500 a month and have the money???. Told her sell her motorcycle or some of her gold. She took her gold to a pawn shop. She did not look too happy when she came back.5555

It looks like your GF is a keeper 

1 hour ago, JLCrab said:

I first started coming to Thailand because I was working in China and it became easier to make flight connections in Bangkok than in Hong Kong.

With comments like this, you must be very lonely.

169 bht

9 hours ago, pgrahmm said:

Almost too many to list.....If you can't see them it's to your deficit - or you're just hanging about in the wrong places & people.....

 

Weak answer mate, just list 5. Should be no problem based on your comment above. Is it ?

One wonders what most guys on here, who are fathers of daughters, would say if their daughter would hook up with a 30 yr older, non white, coloured man.

One wonders 

23 hours ago, pgrahmm said:

Disagree completely.....

 

They possess many strengths & qualities western women feel are no longer important.....To the deficit of western "womanhood"....

Strength and qualities you wrote. Please tell me because i am interested in knowing.

1 hour ago, catman20 said:

thats western women for you.

why do you think we are all out here with Asian  women.....................go figure.

To answer your question, they are cheap. No other reason.

3 hours ago, Thaidream said:

Young or old- they don't think with their head... go ahead buy the gold or whatever.  It's your money spend it.  However, if you are looking for love- forget about it. Most Thais have no concept of love in a Western sense. Their concept is- I love you ..but how much?  After 50 years in Thailand- I am not cynical just realistic. No more advice... you won't listen anyway!!

How much did it cost you then ?

2 hours ago, dfdgfdfdgs said:

You seem to be projecting your own situation on the OP's.

 

Perhaps you should have said "in my case I didn't care what the mother thought"

 

not "And if I were the Father, I wouldnt care what the mother thought"

It seems to me that you lack a set of basic morals. You are in the right country for that though. A few will notice.

7 hours ago, FritsSikkink said:

Or he thinks the growing up abroad can be very overrated.

I agree, while many thais make/have made enough money to settle abroad, none of them do.

7 hours ago, sanemax said:

3. I could see that he was confused and didnt know what was going on and was upset , it was dark and he was crying for his mum .

   I knew that long term, it would be the right thing to do, but when he was crying for his mum and wanted to go back to his family and friends in the village , its a difficult situation . fukkin brutal

 

Out of interest, what was the reason you took him away from that environment ?

24 minutes ago, sanemax said:

The police wouldnt do anything, I just went to the village, went to the house, trespassed, removed anyone that got in the way, got my Son and ran off to a waiting car, being chased by the family .

  The Police didnt do anything

How old was your son then and did he realise that he was in a bad spot ?

6 minutes ago, dfdgfdfdgs said:

 

It wouldn't be enough if I were the mother...

Thats perhaps the problem, me myself and I first and child last. 

1 hour ago, sanemax said:

Not married and had no custody .

Even if one person had a Court order granting sole custody, the Police wont get involved .

They regard it as a civil matter and they dont really care whether the child is with its mother or father

They dont care where the child is and with who. Heard a plenty that western dads want their kids being taken away from aunt, grandparent etc, but even then police do not do anything.

2 hours ago, sanemax said:

In reality though, the Police do not get involved in family disputes, as long as the Child is with either parent .

  Its not actually illegal to kidnap your own child in Thailand , Ive done  it three times already .

Police does not get involved in family disputes at all.

2 hours ago, Danielsiam said:

That's good news..  you was married or had custody ?

 

I have a Thai daughter from a Thai woman, ( never married ) but she give me my daughter as she's not have time to take care her daughter ( she told me, she will have good life in your country, but they except to visit her every year but I have Filipina girlfriend now, and if she knew it, she will not really agree that her daughter being with a mother who is from Philippines ) but I afraid someday she gonna change her mind, and ask her daughter back ( Actually I am even in SEA / Thailand ) but only using my EU passport daughter to avoid any troubles to exit Thailand. Even her mother doesn't know I am in Thailand.

So because of your fear your daughter cannot spent time with her mother. Evil !