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I can understand your view when easy accesible young women is available "over There", trying to get a western girl can be to much work. A hand full would some say

Thats quite generlized statement, or? The very same women end up with men who doesnt give them nothing, and still have to work for almost nothing, or find a man who support them, and need to ask for money every time they need something.

Total price for 288m2 housing, balconies about 1,5 mill include almost 4 rai land We also built two water stations, dog kennel, sala and the dikes as well drive ways, electric poles and wiring 300m, so total everything hard to say. 1,8 maybe This was just right before the prices started to peak during covid

This is on the end of the land before rice field, so I wanted to be sure it would not start to sink because of the weight on the edge there. Yes the rings goes on top of each other like a manhole, but not sealed off at the bottom

Stone, and I had 15 cm under the living part, and 20 in the garage and of course wire mesh. Did not trust them with 7cm as they suggested, and 10 should be minimum. If I knew better, I would have also used a vapour barrier, which is not normal, or at least for those village workers I used. For the holding tanks, I have two, one for the "solids" and one for the overflow water, and pump it out every two years I think we have done so far. The solids doesn't build up that quick as in colder climates. If I do not remember wrong, we used 4 concrete rings instead of 3 as suggested. Many things I would had done different, but afterall thinking of what we got for the money, Im very pleased now. It was a total nightmare when we building, especially with my knownledge, and their way of changing the plans as it went. Always short cuts. Could not leave for one day, and you got a total different solution than you had agreed. But, at the end, the crew worked fast, and got things done. I always took measure for reinforcement where I saw there were lack of quality materials, or quality work. Just a few samples form the construction site, this is the garage and car port being done, inside and outside kitchen, and one of the bathroooms. Is it a pretty house, no, but it is functional and I can fine live there for the price we paid.

A 22 year old girl a milf? Suspicious,

I can asure you, the standard living we have in Isaan is decent and not alike those pics you might have or not about Isaan living. Just not any fancy high cost materials, or fancy architecture, or imported granite tiles.

I was very independent when I was young, and moved out when I was 17 and started to work fulltime. So nothing my father said or do would have helped, and I think this is the same for most independent boys at that age, whey have to leave and create their own life, do their own mistakes, and make their own experiences. Im sure this girl have something he desire strongly, and Im sure it will not be the last one in his life. Just hope she do not get pregnant

When somebody talk bad about all the women back home, I have this in my mind, this is is how I see western women! Independent and can do what ever they want, when they want it! She is just the Image of how I see it, just for illustration purpose

This is normal, you are booked for a project, and everything supposed to be in place ready to go, but very often delayed, wrong measurments, wrong parts, strikes, weather, so the best thing is to hang out, study, eat, sleep exercise, and look at the bright side. Afterall, I get paid no matter what

Im okay, got seaview western food, waiting for parts to arrive, which is delayed with another week, so Im back off duty before that time

I would think good for my trees and plants, and the grass for my animals feed from, and more bugs and worms for my chickens 😉 and the best thing, I make money while Im wasting time here Think positive

Misunderstand me correct, but you can build well for cheap money, or you can build a dissaster for expensive money! We are talking about Isaan with local workers, who know how to build houses like they have done for decades. Your choice Comparing a farm with a car? On a farm you need a Kuboto tractor not a Mercedes. A mercedes is a waste of money up there. Would I have built like that in Hua Hin? Of course not, I would build for the marked I most likely would sell it to, same in Isaan, you have to look where your buyers most likely would come from, and the price you most likely would get back on it. Soon the land will be more worth the buildings, and thats a comfort.

First I do not own the land! Second how long do I want to live there? Third building western quality in Thailand is quite hard, and expensive, especially in a remote village. To many challenges to mention, but it is a naightmare just to make sure they understand what you want, and get it how you want it. When building, everything had to go through my then gf, created alot of stress, tention and headache for both of us To me it is a small farm where to most important is the place I sleep, kitchen and outside space! Everything else, as long it is standing, keeping us dry and tempered and mosquito free, Im happy. There is no difference between building cheap or expensive, it is just the estetic and feeling about it. Nothing else. The only thing Im missing is a larger gym from 36m2 to around 60m2, then I can have my heavy bag inside in aircondition room, instead of outside. Solar power will be necessery to !

Lamlai is not to bad Always happy, no time to be anything else

Op, most likely want to know the legal aspect of this created scenario, where most likely a 22 year old boy/man would or could face legal consequences having a 16 year old girl sleeping over! We tend to look between the fingers when it comes to girls/women, but not so much when it is the opposite way. If it was my son, I could live with it, but if it was my daughter, then that man had to watch his steps carefully.

It is not ai, always been like this on forums, same as my moms tabloid weekend papers, as well mens magazines with fictional wet stories where people got money to contribute stories. Ai, just makes it easier to create click baits

Sounds good Does count on AN to? Or is this the place you give yourself freecard? This forum is toxic sometimes, and still it amazes me every time someone take the energy to give a negative emotion. Which maybe reflects their toxic negativity.

Problem with insulation in tropical climate, is proper ventilation, and avoiding moisture! Most local construction builders have no experience or knownledge how to build houses with insulation.

Again, there is no symmetry between western men, and western women? We western men do not match western women anymore? My experience from Thailand, and those who complain about western women, should take a good look at themselves. People who are fit, secured and also some social genes left, do not complain about western women. Why is it so?

Another pin in the propaganda war for Russia unfortunate!

Also to save the land house, make proper drainage to lead water away from house. At once it starts soaking under house, you get moist inside coming up from floors and walls. You dont want ponds in your driveway or garden

@Thaibeachlovers Im not going to make a big thing out of it, but to me, it sounds like you did

I would wondered what a 22 year old girls intentions was with my 16 year old son? Her background, education, family situation, Your son is half thai? Who Is popular among girls? I would maybe think she is a gold digger, all depending on all above. What if she get pregnant? Anyway, not easy to deal with, and myself started sleep overs with my gf when I was 16. My father wouldnt let me, but I got angry, and just left after a fight where he tried to take my motorbike keys. Still you should be happy he is not 22 and she 16. I understand your question is about age of consent, but the other way around, where it might be more acceptable for a older girl as in example, to be with a younger boy