I am not sure how old guys in this day and age denigrate women who enjoy life and get away with it. I get his insinuations but she may have a rich boyfriend, husband or parents. Chuwit doesn't say. Making insinuations just to hurt someone is just not on.
I admit she may be the girlfriend of a high-ranking officer but that evidence isn't given. Just taking the piss out of a woman for what she does in her private (not official) life seems unethical.