Here in Thailand it's no big deal. TV sit coms wouldn't be complete without a chubby ladyboy screaming. It's just not a big deal. In Isaan I heard a husky voice outside the bedroom window, looked down and saw a set of chubby legs with daisy dukes. ahahaa goes by the name Pancake. The teller dude at our bank wore deep red lipstick and was flirting for fun. None of this is a problem, nobody cares.
Now go to the US and see the difference, JHC. Why do the guys feel the need to dress like clowns. They're their own worst enemy. I worked in an envoronment where everyone was excepted.