Pattaya isn't the problem, it's retirement itself. Having a kid to take care of gives me purpose and keeps my mind occupied here in Thailand. In my home country I'd have my properties to keep me occupied. If it wasn't for the kid I'd probably be a part timer in Thailand. There would be jobs if I felt really bored or strapped for cash. For me the beaches is a huge plus here in Thailand.
GG, you should have stayed at some 5 star hotels in Pattaya instead of sh**ty condos. You could of gone to Koh Larn, morning beach walks, movies and restaurants in the Malls, try some go carts at the track, hire a car for a few days and explore some of the other beach towns south of Patts or over to Rayong coastal fishing villages. Just so many things to do here if you look around and get out of your funk.