What's the mother in law look like?
You need to be rewarded for your cash that you hand out, maybe some hankypankee with the mother in law.
Don't be shy, ask her husband, they freely ask you for money.
Jiggy jig, boom boom, root or maybe just a quick blowie 😎
Swings and Roundabout, what goes around, comes around.
Take care of #1