Your picking the wrong "class" or category of women. Its been my experience most rural or lower educated thai's have no ability to think spatially or about multiple issues especially if they have options to consider and decide at the same time. They are also culturally "program" not to think to far in the future and concentrate on the here and now. Do I have money for food today, do I have a place to sleep even if its on a dirt floor with a mat. can I pay the bills for today or this week (no is not uncommon and answer to that one) but the dont think about problems because then you have to try to solve them proactively and they cant. That's why they appear shallow or immature and like to "amuse" themselves . You should be looking at women with higher education, business experience and hopefully some experience being overseas and exposed to other ways of thinking.