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fredwiggy

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  1. What are your symptoms? How do you know it was the vaccine that caused them or Covid itself? I've had 4 vaccines, 2 Pfizer, and not any trouble I can see. I have had Covid at least twice and mild symptoms. As one gets older, you might get things you might think are vaccine or Covid related but they still don't know much about long term and what it does. If it's because of Covid or something a person was going to get or already had .
  2. The best bet is court, having any evidence on what she's done. Thai courts favor the mother, which of course is prejudiced and wrong , but that's where you need to go. In actuality, having a passport for the child means your wife signed it, which in effect means the child can travel with you to your country. This isn't always the case, as immigration will usually want a letter from the mother,as I had to get, and again this year will get, to leave with the child. She has a stamp showing she left last year, but I will get a new letter just in case, as I don't want any problems at the airport. I've heard of many cases where one parent left with the child and immigration wasn't a problem, but you're always dealing with people, and they have many ways of thinking, even if it isn't right. A court here will usually let the foreign parent take the child out of the country to live as they all know most other countries will give the child a better life, meaning schools and their future itself. Is there any of her family she keeps in contact with you could talk to and pass information? I'm thinking you already tried this though. Her abandoning the child doesn't look good. In my case, my ex left her first child with her boyfriend's family and went to Bangkok to work. That was the last time she lived with her. She met another man, had another child, then I met here when the child was 5. After we married and I moved here, she had her second child live with grandma a 1/2 kilo away because she didn't want the responsibility. When the child turned 10, she sent her to live with her father. After awhile, she got her back when we went to the court for the divorce, then after the court gave us joint custody, with her living with her mom during the week, she sent the second daughter to live with the first daughter. This shows a pattern that the courts won't ignore, unless you get a moron for a judge. Past history shows future history. She knows my daughter will be living in the US, just that she doesn't understand it's going to be soon, before she's 10, so she can keep up with the school curriculum in English. This is what I mean about keeping all evidence you have as the caretaker and that she prefers to be alone, or with other men, than her child. I had my daughter late last year for 9 months as she lived in Pattaya with her Thai boyfriend. She's coming back tomorrow after being with her new boyfriend in Germany. Pattern continues. Everyone knows I'm the primary caretaker and this will show if we ever had to return to court. I'm hoping she will just let her go, as she really doesn't care about children much if she isn't getting cash for them. If you need to extend the visa, you'll have to bring your child to immigration and re-do the paperwork. Not sure what they'll ask as abandonment is a touchy situation. Talk to a lawyer on this one.
  3. But you just wasted time, again, posting on AN about fake orders.
  4. If you prepay, sometimes you also don't get what you ordered and get something worthless. Either way, you open the package when it comes, and don't pay if it's not what you ordered. If you used a credit card, then you'll have to return to sender, take it up with the seller, or their seller, or your bank.
  5. Why would there ever be a negative remark about COD? It's safe, you get what you pay for, and you don't pay unless it's what you ordered. I see nothing negative or unsafe about it, but ordering with a credit card is always a risk. I also use a credit card, especially if I can somewhat trust the seller, meaning Lazada or Amazon, but I'd rather use cash because when it's paid, it's done, and never a risk taken.
  6. Failing to understand things bought with a credit card sometimes don't arrive, and you lose, or have to notify your bank so they can investigate.COD it comes you pay.It doesn't, you don't. Millions of people order COD. No reason not to.
  7. There will always be those who take advantage of others, especially the poor. Leaches are everywhere, including those with restaurants and who rent homes and apartments. Simply find another store which doesn't do this.
  8. He had to die because that's the fate of everyone. He died from prostate cancer at 76. Him and his wife were alcoholics. He experimented with psychedelics after going to Mexico and trying Psilocybin mushrooms. After this he took LSD and others and convinced others to do the same, as he felt they would help some. They do have you use your mind more, and do help some people with mental issues and anger. Many of his patients didn't return to crime after they were released. ........................... "But, I ain't toking no more. I must protect my brain from.... Who knows what, and.... For what, I know not what.................Just forgot what I was going to say next"....Maybe your short term memory isn't so good from toking?
  9. My point being COD is a guarantee you'll receive what you order, and common sense has you not paying for someone you or anyone in your home didn't. Age doesn't make you paranoid or stupid. Quite the opposite actually.
  10. If you order COD you're guaranteed to receive the package, or you don't pay if it doesn't arrive. Never had a problem with COD, never will. No one should ever be tricked into paying for anything if you didn't order anything. Easy to write down what you and anyone in your home orders and what it costs. Kannika beat me to it with this.
  11. You could cook what you want yourself instead of relying on others decisions for your diet.
  12. It's something they were supposed to keep tabs on, installing the sensors, especially after you went to their service center for any work done.
  13. As opposed to some here who eat living things. Live scorpions, octopus, crabs etc.
  14. Forget the Focus or Fiesta. I had a 2013 Fiesta and the engine caught fire a few months back, and I'm still trying to get Ford to payoff the balance, which isn't much. They tried to give me a break on repairs but it was Ford's responsibility to install a coolant sensor to monitor coolant levels, and this is what happened. The other problem was a TCM transmission module that was faulty in many, including mine. In the shop many times before they finally installed a replacement, which wasn't a problem solver because it still had trouble. .............https://www.khaosodenglish.com/news/business/2017/04/04/ford-owners-demand-24m-baht-compensation-faulty-cars/..
  15. My point being, he has mental issues, most likely from depression, because anyone who climbs a tower either is intending to take his own life, or is looking for help. Being drunk isn't an excuse unless there is already something else there. Still nothing to do with being stupid. I wouldn't think he cares much about his ego doing something like this. It's a cry for help.
  16. He said the child is with him, plus this.............. I had already gotten a Non-o based on being a parent 10 years ago and worked also a teacher This means he must have legitimized his parental rights. Without a DNA test, any child could be anyone else's in that case. In your words.....In terms of applying for a Non Imm O visa from a Thai Embassy, based on a Thai child, then the child's birth certificate with you named as the Father on the certificate is sufficient for them to issue the visa.................He's only asking to get a work permit anyway. The child's identity as far as being his is already known.
  17. All drugs, including alcohol, can change the moods and actions of those taking them. Some more than others and some are prone to violence because of them. All drugs include prescription drugs, which actually kill more people yearly than many other illegal drugs do. This is from doctors who don't really care enough about their patients to keep a close eye on them and how they affect their lives and bodies. I wouldn't think weed is considered totally "safe" to use, even among all the users worldwide like myself that use it daily or infrequently. Cigarettes, which are legal, kill people by the thousands yearly, and do affect moods in many. Alcohol of course kills thousands also, including in most of the fatal car accidents. Using weed occasionally isn't an addiction, nor is alcohol the same way. What others along with myself here are saying is that this man was obviously on something other than just the weed he admitted to,and or is already suffering from a mental illness, because being high on weed doesn't make people do such irrational things. Alcohol yes, along with just being someone already ":out there". Again, we are only talking about weed and not other more dangerous drugs. Marijuana has proven to have it's worth, especially among cancer patients and those with ongoing pain, and I know many people again, who use it almost daily and aren't having any problems either in their careers, driving or inter relational. In fact it helps some of them cope with stress, which is a lot worse for everyone than just having a doobie now and then.
  18. I meant the child definitely being his, not just the name on the birth certificate. Above explains what he needs to have, which numbers 1-5 I thought he already had, along with him saying this........... I had already gotten a Non-o based on being a parent 10 years ago and worked also a teacher............... He was just asking if he could get a work permit based on what he already had.
  19. You can't try to be empathetic. You either are or you aren't. Just like being a narcissist. if you are, there's no denying it. Feeling for someone comes naturally. Not caring is taught behavior.
  20. em·pa·thy /ˈempəTHē/ noun noun: empathy the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. It exists in those that have it.
  21. I'm not apologizing for anything or anyone. If you don't know their history, you can't judge them. Guessing doesn't cut it. Feeling sorry for, and trying to understand those suffering with depression is empathy and sympathy.
  22. I'm sure you can get joint custody here., although you did say you're taking care of her. Just having a child that's yours should give you that 1 year extension., especially if she's living with you some of the time.
  23. The average IQ here is lower than most other countries but not all are stupid because of this. Try researching depression just a bit and you'll understand why people do things like this. My best friend was a very smart man with a wife, house, job, hobbies and many friends and he took his own life. Depression back then in 1987 wasn't as well treated as it is now, although people still commit suicide daily here, as well as everywhere else. Nothing to do with intelligence as I mentioned in an earlier post of many scientists that have taken thir own lives.
  24. All Thais aren't lying, cheating dead beat scammers. Many are of course, as I was married to one, but that doesn't mean they all are. I'm telling you you should show compassion when you don't know the history of someone who's this desperate. He might be a decent man who's drinking isn't helping him in life, along with obvious depression, which isn't easy for others to understand unless you're either living it or researched it enough to understand their plight.
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