fredwiggy

I used to work for a few gyms that had pools, and you really don't want to swim in them nor use the hot tubs. many reasons including someone who doesn't know how to regulate the chemicals, hundreds of people going in the pool after exercising, mold growth from a humid, closed environment, Cryptosporidium and other germs. I have seasonal allergies in every place I live. I lived in New Jersey, the Garden State, and stayed there until I left at 28. I was allergic to some things there but was never checked. When I moved to Texas, I went to a few allergy places that did studies. I found out I was allergic to cedar (juniper), thistle, dogs, cats, deer(which I hunt), mold, some trees and others. Most were mild besides juniper, which hits thousands hard every year. Testing is the only real way to find out, and avoid, what is giving you problems. It can be simple things in your home, like mentioned, or a seasonal thing. Like spidermike mentioned, air here has been bad for a very long time, and will only get worse until some politician starts having respiratory problems and decides to enforce the burn laws. Here's a link for the gym pools............https://www.cdc.gov/healthywater/swimming/swimmers/rwi.html

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=allxx9EzoxU

Actually, it's as far from ridiculous as it could be. People need to repent of their sins, know they were wrong, and ask forgiveness, just like any other relationship. In this case, God created everything, including humans, and gave them a choice. Believe in who created you, or put false gods in front of him, or deny there is any God. Your choice, free will. Good deeds are great, but he has his rules, which makes sense because he created everything and knows us better than we do. If there is a God, what's more important? Treating others well and forgetting your creator, or treating others well, and believing in him? God, if he has indeed created everything from just his mind, surely can do much more, including knowing your heart. Hypocrites can't fool God. Believing in God and then doing whatever you want, including hurting others, isn't how he wants us to live. We all sin, but some of us have a conscience and don't like our own actions. Doesn't take much to believe that we were created and didn't just happen by chance, which means we have a creator, and if so, that entity is in charge.

Do you have proof of this? No? Then your opinion means nothing, so it's best to keep your doom thinking to yourself, because those who believe , believe otherwise.

Actually anyone having sex without some form of birth control is stupid in a way. If you don't want the girl (woman) to get pregnant, and don't want the responsibility of a baby, use birth control. If she doesn't, you do. Pretty simple, and the world's population would decrease tenfold. Teens, and some adults, have a lot of trouble saying no. Yes, the woman has the power so to speak, because stopping a man when he's charged up isn't easy, but it's in her hands as far as allowing someone all the way.

I know that would usually be the best choice but I had to live here, and do, at least until I get my daughter out of here. I couldn't leave back then with my daughter because she was too young to consider taking her. I know what she did with her two previous daughters and know it's only time before she gets to be a burden she won't want. She knows my daughter will go to the US, it's just about when, and that has to be in less than three years. I'm not afraid of someone with a knife. A gun , yes. I just told her to put it away the first time. Her sister got in between us the second and the same the third time as the first. It seems to happen alot here, them going for cutlery. You see it almost daily on the news, either knives, machetes or sticks. I didn't pick well this time but my daughters future is a priority so I'm here for now.

Many of the theories about how long ago things happened are theories, by scientists that might just be mistaken. It's possible. Only way we will know the whole truth is when we die, and you can ask God, if he lets you in, depending on if you believe in him or not.

Having money isn't changing much besides having them in a little better school. They still have to live here. Many of their peers are boys, raised without fathers or with absent dads who don't teach the main things a man needs to learn about a woman. Buddhism looks at women as inferior, hoping they will re-incarnate as a man. This starts the ball rolling with them thinking women are secondary, which they aren't. Generations of thinking men are superior, something which rings true in all Asian nations, has women thinking they deserve better, which they do, as they see from hearing what goes on in western countries. Of course there are chauvinists everywhere, but it's a little stronger in Asian culture. Thailand allows men to get away with not paying for the children they make, although it's a law, but rarely enforced. This attitude says women are the sole responsible parent. People allow children to drive scooters here at age 8, which is illegal and very dangerous, and not enforcing that they wear helmets. No one can deny this as you see it every day. Most of the people that die everyday are not wearing helmets and who lets them do this from an early age? A high percentage of teenage girls here are molested, and many of this happens in all schools, including the higher paid ones. Crimes against women are not enforced like they are in western countries like the US. If you rape there, you don't get to pay your way out of it. You go to jail, and are labeled a sex offender, something which anyone can find out about. Having the men leave after childbirth without supporting them tells the moms they need to go to work elsewhere to send money home to grandma, who's watching the kid(s). This happens here more than 35%, more than any other country by far.In other countries, the man(or woman) is held accountable or he goes to jail. Human trafficking is huge here, and no one is safe from that and forced labor. Corruption is huge and it factors into this trafficking with some officials.

A lot like I said are actors, until they get what they want. Some are feminine by nature. There are women that are feminine but can go off to protect what is theirs, meaning family. I've known a few women that acted sweet like you say, but were hiding a narcissistic personality that wanted full control, and came at me like a monster when they were angry at others but I just happened to be there. The last one here came at me with a knife three times, for the same reason,or for a minor argument when she was in a bad mood.

But not a good place to raise them.

The definition......... molecules formed by atoms consisting of antiprotons, antineutrons, and positrons. Stable antimatter does not appear to exist in our universe. "standard theories say that matter and antimatter were created in equal amounts after the Big Bang" Again, we believe God made all things happen, including the "big bang". .

Again not my intention and I'll separate from now on, seeing it bothers some.

The three wives I've had were attractive. One was feminine, although she could go off. The first wasn't feminine and I had three kids with her. Turmoil throughout, but I stayed because of the kids. Until the divorce which ended a few problems but brought out more. Another story. The next was a girlfriend I had a child with, who had depression and was hurting from her childhood. She gave me our daughter and went away. She was okay as a woman but her history had her not being feminine because of fear. Her emotions were kept inside for most of it, unless she was angry. The third wife was here. A very pretty narcissist that kidnapped our daughter until I divorced her. Strong willed, liar, sneaky, manipulator and not feminine at all. Many others I dated ran the gamut from very feminine to tom boyish to plain mean.

This is from Wikipedia. It mentions a few of the things I consider feminine behavior..https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Femininity

The best time to learn English or any language is 5-7. She speaks English well but her school only promotes Thai grammar and little English. I'm teaching her English on paper and she's learning history from me. I work with an English school here with a Thai owner that has been to the US many times, and learned there. His words."If she loves that child, she will let her go with you as soon as possible so she can keep up with other children her age". We have to leave before she is 10. She will be 8 this Fall.

I just type and post. it isn't my intentions to be rude or inconsiderate. I just want to get my ideas out and post them. I do understand what you're saying.

When I said acting like a lady, I meant being one of course, not like an actor in a movie. A lot of women aren't feminine but are gorgeous yes, but it also goes the other way. If a woman is empathetic, emotional, caring, nurturing and compassionate, she is being feminine. I changed my wording.

Scientists, about half of them, don't believe in God but have theories, such as the big bang. We believe all that happened was God's actions, and didn't just happen, as I said. Matter has to come from somewhere. Everything in the universe is matter.

Don't you understand we believe he was always there? You could say, who created God, but that wouldn't make any sense. Because who created that entity? No proof either way, although the universe couldn't have just happened, and no one has ever explained that it did.

One reason I started out as a Catholic and then just became Christian. Although Christianity is also a religion, it isn't like how Catholicism is. A lot about money and praying to people, saints so to speak. I don't believe that's necessary. People actually have come back from being declared dead, no brain activity. Some were children who said things they couldn't have possibly known, so that's some evidence that could be considered. Again it all about faith.

I don't talk nonsense. You just can't understand a large paragraph. If you actually took the time to read them, you might understand what I'm saying. If not, then it doesn't matter because people disagree, especially with some things they don't understand .

It's not rude writing things in a large paragraph. I don't write anything to be inconsiderate. I just type then post. And I've only been saying I'm going to leave this last year. It will take a little time to visit back home, find a place to live, then convince my ex that going back asap is the only way our daughter will be able to keep up with the school curriculum for her age. She knows I'm going, but my daughter is still at the cute age, at 7. She left her previous two girls with her boyfriends families at age 9 and 10, and they didn't want them but took care of them anyway. Her middle daughter is now living, at 14, with her other married daughter. Past history shows what the future brings.

I've been with about 100 women in my life and a few wives. All of them were feminine, some more than others. Some were more sexy than others also. Feminine is acting like a lady, and a lady can be strong and feminine. You aren't seeing how people really are if you're going by movies. What you see is acting, and of course Audrey Hepburn acted feminine because that's what they wanted from her. Was she that way in person? Probably, maybe, who knows. Sigourney Weaver acts tough because again, that's' what they wanted. You had one western women and you're judging all of them? You know you can't do that. I see femininity here and I see bitc*es by the score, screaming their heads off in public. Are they more feminine in private? Who knows. A woman can be strong, assertive, emotional,stand up for herself, and a black belt and still be feminine when needed. Women are the same everywhere in the world, with a few slight differences because of culture, but that doesn't mean a Thai woman won't act like a western women and a western woman can't be feminine. If a woman is empathetic, emotional, caring, nurturing and compassionate, she is acting feminine. Trust me, I do get it, and know many western women that are very feminine and also strong, and some that are quiet and can be demons.

How would something come from nothing?