smartphone plus social media making way too many think they are Rolls Royces since their pics get lots of likes.
They fail to factor in their own education level, propensity for creating income, and are now failing to provide in the ways that they (once) can in being home builders and nurturing partners within a symbiotic relationship. A failure to weigh what they put back into a relationship.
A metaphor might be that they want to be the queen with all the accolades, gifts and spoils, but without taking on the responsibilites that a true queen undertakes to continue being a queen.
But for awhile while young enough, they can replace a man in an instant from the 1000's of others promising faux heaven, gifts, and trips in their inbox.