This tale of woe brings back memories of my first wife here.
She wanted a new house and car, new bike for retard son of hers, no worries we go to bank for loan.
All papers in her name, I just transfer money each month.
Relationship goes tits up, I move to Bangkok for 1 year R and R and stop all payments.
Don't know or care as to the resulting bun fight she had after a few missed payments.
The moral is give them what they want on a monthly basis, its way cheaper.