I think you are right Jim, or is it James :)
if you can find one that lived overseas for a while, not just travelled to Korea or so. for all my years, I've yet to get even older ladies to offer an sincere emotional response to 'how are you feeling?' it's like it doesn't exist, just living in the moment, prefer to talk about food , tbh, this is also a general asian thing, otoh, maybe you won't get nagged for the same reasons as you would in the great west
What has my comment got to do with all that b0llocks?