I am sorry to break it to you, but you do not have to interact directly to a person on a public forum. They work like people read and comment on other members posts. So, all posts here becomes every member business as soon as you hit the submit button. If you can´t take that, I suggest you go back to good ole email, that is a very good tool for direct personal messages.
Just look at this for example. You are telling that something can control the uncontrollable??? So, then it isn´t uncontrollable, right? That was the thinking part I referred to. 😂