Cameroni

How is this a "disturbing" incident? The images are not real. It's FAKE. It's not like he forced the girls to do the acts depicted in the FAKE photos. Again, these are FAKE images. Not real. Are we going to send people to prison for fantasy and FAKE images now? Do me favour.

Yes it is. Of course you can never mention that it's a transactional relationship. Both parties have to talk of "love" and affection, and have to believe in the love story. But ultimately, the woman wants something from the man and the man wants something from the woman. If that's not the case, then there is no relationship.

Your quibble is that the men actually believe they're not paying. I don't buy it, I think they know they're paying. They're just pretending otherwise. I mean there are a few exceptions. Where the woman is much older and has no sexual market value, she may pay for the guy if he's half-way attractive, if that woman has resources. However, these arrangements are so marginal and so few, I don't even count them. There are instances too where say a solicitor woman will be with a guy who earns less, then the guy is paying her with other means, services, attention, gifts etc. But the man pays. Always. Even with the super rich boyfriend of Taylor swift, he's making her bracelet beads, he's paying her.

It's always a "sugar daddy" arrangement. Sugar daddy just means the man is providing gifts and money. There is almost no man alive that is not providing gifts and money to his girl, whatever the age gap. Even the youngest, fittest influencers with muscles like Schwarzenegger are buiying cup cakes for the girls, believe me. I've seen them say so. It doesn't even have to be money. Maybe the girl is interested in the social standing benefits, or in the looks, charm, or sex, or something other than money. But the man will pay her one way or the other. Because people only enter into relationships if they want something from the other. If they don't then there's no need to enter into the relationship. I wouldn't know, I've never been with a bar girl. But I've been with plenty of non-professional girls that are 20 years old. And even if you don't have to give them a salary, you don't, you still have to give them money now and then.

Everybody has to pay for his woman. "Mojo" only gets you in the door. To stay, you have to pay. All relationships are transactional. Every single one. Any guy who tells you he doesn't pay for his girl is lying to your face.

Of course he's entitled. He gave her more than 5 million of his money over 20 years. He is entitled to half of the 10 million. And then some. She just doesn't want him to have it. But I do agree that she can't read what's written in English is hard to believe.

No need. I'm legit genius. I was tested.

I don't expect gratitude. But I would expect that she views us as a team, that she does what's good for the relationship. Doing what she did with this paper, this indicates that she thinks mostly about herself, and that the team aspect is not on her mind. That she doesn't value the relationship. She must have known, or thought, that you wouldn't like it.

Imagine you pay for a woman for 20 years, put her children through school, give her a roof over her head, feed her...and then she tells you she wants you to sign something to make sure you don't get any money from her sale.of land. I have to say I would be a little disappointed in her.

Thai family law doesn't come into it. Two adults negotiate the terms of their relationship without reference to the state or family law. That's called being a wife.

We don't really know their dynamic. It seems more likely to me, that now that she has extracted as much as possible from him, he's already 70 plus and the kids are grown up, she feels she does not need to share with him anymore.

So being a husband his money is hers, but being a wife her money is hers?

It's hardly the same, he's been paying her accomodation, food, presents, raising her children. Come on. How does she even have the nerve to take money off the table?

Yah, but this is more than idle talk. She's taking active steps to deprive you of money. If you just let this slide she'll come up with something else. This is quite serious

The way I would handle this, I would say "Listen, I paid 20 years for your housing and food, I paid to raise your children, so you now trying to make sure I don't get money, is just selfish and not in the spirit ouf our relationship. I will not sign". If she finds out what's really written in that paper, she'll blow a fuse anywawy and the happy rel will blow up in your face. Which is by far the best option. I've learned my lesson. The first red flag I will also pull the trigger now.

Women are in it for the material benefits, there is absolutely no doubt about it. How mercenary they really are, I suppose it varies from girl to girl. But only the degree of intensity.

Yes, very particular. When you add the physical and character requirements, 90% aren't even candidates. Sad but true. It's been two years with this 25 year old. And even if she looks better than Ms World, there are thing she did, that were so diabolical. You would never expect it. I would not be surprised if she'd put a paper like that in front of me.

Yes, the tooth fairy says "Hello".

That makes it even more pernicious she's trying to make sure you get no money. You could need money for medical bills. And what does she do? Try to make sure you get no money. Women are unbelievable. After all you did for her.

Are you saying in 20 years she never once tried to change the terms of the relationship in her favour unilaterally? No demands that made you uncomfortable whatsoever?

But it's not perfectly happy and working. She just asked you to sign a document that you get no money. She's trying it on. If you don't stand up to this, she will make even bigger and more outrageous demands, cause she'll think she got away with it. It's a slippery slope. They only thing you can do is nip it in the bud. If you don't it will mushroom and bite you in the a$$ much worse down the line.

Again, that's true, but within the relationship you can still have a certain amount of power. The woman will always try to challenge it, by making demands which change the nature of the relationship, so you need to stand up to her and make clear it's not acceptable. If you just let it happen, then indeed, in the long term you will have no power. I mean think about it, if she's in the relationship because she wants something from you, that alone gives you power.

Whilst that's true, this move by your woman represents an attempt on her part to uni-laterally change the terms of the relationship. You would be well advised to unequivocally stand up to her and tell her "No", so she understands she can't change the terms of the relationship on her own. My Russian ex wife suddenly came up with wanting children. After great resistance I agreed, and it was the slippery slope to completely annihilation. This is how women operate, they seek to destroy by a thousand cuts, you don't even notice it and suddenly you've given up all your power.

This is why the gf was talking about doing housework equally. It's all falling into place.

This is my line of thought as well. BritmanToo would have done so much for her, paid so much for her..and this is how she repays him. The problem of doing anything for a woman is that after she's received the benefit she gives no credit for it whatsoever anymore .They're all ungrateful ingrates. You're clearly trolling here. It's very simple, I have a gf in Thailand and a Filipina wants to come see me on 10 July, it's not hard.