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  1. I'd suggest to the OP he is going to see old falangs with younger Thai women all over Thailand, so he'd better get used to it.

    My teerak is 50 and looks about 30. So the OP is probably jumping to a few false conclusions anyway.

    Cringe all you want; however, bear in mind the younger Thai women attached to the old falangs are probably having the time of their lives - comfortable bed and board, getting away from their home village where they may have been sleeping on pallets under the trees. Working their butts off in the rice fields for 100 baht a day. And no drunk, gambling, unfaithful and abusive village Thai men to cope with.

    My teerak is 55, and looks...55. How'd you get lucky. I bet she hasn't hit menopause yet, has she? Wait for the fun. Lol Mine at 50 looked like she was in her late 30s. Thai gals (and Asian gals) hold their looks for quite a while, but when they age, they age fast. Well, imho.

    I'm hoping mine has the menopause real soon. Irregular periods and PMT like you wouldn't believe. Whatever the menopause brings it can't be worse.

    Losing her looks- not a problem for me as I'll be dead before that happens.

    Just to be on topic, I see more DDG girls in a small area than anywhere else on the planet ( that I've been ).

  2. Why are people who know nothing about the country & its history, meaning this Thai company chatting criticism about nothing of which it really knows...stick to reality, not the media.

    stick to reality, not the media

    What is reality?

    If not for the "media", how would we know anything that is happening overseas, or even outside our own little area that we live in?

  3. spend 75k a month and you will die.

    it s impossible for a guy to spend so much money in himself and not have any cholesterol problem.

    if you eat and drink a lot, you will spend Maximum 20k.

    when you sleep, I doubt you spend money. maybe in your American dreams... lol

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    Another member of the mamma noodle staple diet brigade

    Is the 20k a monthly or weekly total ?

    I don't get your post. Are you saying that one can only eat unhealthy rubbish for 20,000/ month?

    How many Thais can spend 20,000 a month on food? Average pay is around 9 to 15 thousand a month.

    Ever heard of markets?

    My food budget for two of us is a basic 5,000/ month, but snacks/ restaurants are not included in that.

    Of course if one wants to eat a western diet expect to pay big money, but I didn't move to LOS to eat unhealthy expensive imported western processed food.

    Actually an imported healthy diet (excluding alcohol or cigs) is 10-15K a month, or just 10k if only fish.

    ????? How can an imported food be healthy, unless it is flown directly from picking to destination with no storage in between. That would be very unhealthy to the planet.

    Other than frozen ( and meat is very unhealthy in the amounts we eat in the west, as are dairy products ) and dehydrated, imported food has to be full of preservatives and chemicals. At least that is the imported food I see in Rimping etc.

    A healthy diet is predominately vegetarian, and LOS is just bursting with fresh veges, available very cheaply at the local markets.

    That is why Thais were always slim till recently, when they started eating western garbage food.

  4. Getting through 75K a month is easy in Bangkok if you want a few comforts like Western food,

    Western food is cheap ..............

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    35bht a plate, and an hour of my time.

    You'll have to excuse me but I simply don't dine at the end of the market from where "dishes" like that originate.

    I'm talking about imported meats, fruits, trusted brand names but I'm not sure your pension will stretch, MaeJo

    imported meats, fruits, trusted brand names

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    So you pay large to eat imported fruit when it's fresh off the tree in LOS, meat when it's fresh killed in LOS, western "brands" full of chemicals ( ever read those labels? ).

    I suppose you think Thai food is full of sprays etc, but western processed food is hardly free of chemicals, and the Thais seem to survive just as well as westerners ( and westerners are very unhealthy ).

  5. spend 75k a month and you will die.

    it s impossible for a guy to spend so much money in himself and not have any cholesterol problem.

    if you eat and drink a lot, you will spend Maximum 20k.

    when you sleep, I doubt you spend money. maybe in your American dreams... lol

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    Another member of the mamma noodle staple diet brigade

    Is the 20k a monthly or weekly total ?

    I don't get your post. Are you saying that one can only eat unhealthy rubbish for 20,000/ month?

    How many Thais can spend 20,000 a month on food? Average pay is around 9 to 15 thousand a month.

    Ever heard of markets?

    My food budget for two of us is a basic 5,000/ month, but snacks/ restaurants are not included in that.

    Of course if one wants to eat a western diet expect to pay big money, but I didn't move to LOS to eat unhealthy expensive imported western processed food.

  6. Well they cant shoot them if they dont have a gun. Its hard to run from a gun, you dont see too many mass stabbings. Id prefer my chances running from a guy with a knife instead of a gun.

    Australia has more people than in 1996. They also have very strict laws on who can have them and, just as important, how they are stored. But the US doesnt seem to want that. They prefer to just accept he constant mass shootings.

    Do you know anything about American gun laws? NO. Why talk about something you have no knowledge? I know Aussie and anti American. OK I get that. Why do you care? Are you worried about American lives? What is your motivation posting all the anti gun stuff? Do you think Americans will listen to you? I would but you have no in depth knowledge about the subject.

    You don't like Americans and are using this tragedy to spew venom about an area that you have no knowledge. The only reason I write that is so you will know how your views are perceived by an American.

    You don't help the issue you only serve to cement the pro gun lobby in America.

    A hate crime was committed in Oregon today the perp happened to use a gun. Others have used box cutters or fertilizer with far more tragic results. I am saddened by the crime. Hate crimes are such that if the perp did not have a gun he would have used a bomb or some other tool of destruction that is the nature of those who do such things.

    America has a lot of gun laws. The students were killed in a gun free zone as that is one of the laws.

    Why are posters referring to a "gun free zone"? The school was NOT a gun free zone and there was a student with a gun on campus at the time. He didn't try to take out the nutter himself as the SWAT might have mistaken him for the shooter and killed him.

    The facts are easily verified with a simple google search.

    Oregon has a law allowing guns on campus, one of 7 states that do.

  7. Has the IsraelI government made any progress in bringing to justice the Zionists who burned this infant to death? I haven't seen anything in the news about Israel capturing the murderers that burnt the infant to death. Maybe they're too busy with teenagers throwing rocks at cars to be worried about arresting the killers who burnt an infant to death.

    Crimes by settlers against local Palestinians won't end until the settlers are brought back within the 1967 borders of Israel.

    The reality of a Palestinian state has to be recognized.

    The dream of Eretz Israel will never come into existence.

    John, I have been suspended for calling Price Tag Jews "Price Tag Jews", but now that the truth has hit this forum, the term is clearly a valid descriptor and not a flame. I think you are allowed to call the Jewish terrorists, "terrorists", and in all fairness it would be incorrect to label all settlers as terrorists.
    If the murderer turns out to be a Palestinian I will take the apologies from you and other esteemed members as read. You are aware there was a feud between the family of the bereaved and another family in the village are you not? You are also aware there have been no fewer than four arson attacks in the village this year, are you not?

    If the murderer(s) was/were Palestinian(s), I'd expect that arrests would have been made long ago. The fact that no arrests have been made ( as far as I know ) leads me to believe that it was not a Palestinian.

  8. Identified as a muslim? That means you can expect this story to disappear in an instant on CNN and the other mainstream US media.

    No idea if he is muslim or not, but so far he has not been identified as one.

    The only one claiming that is in the link of lostoday, where the 'identification' is based on a blog where one of his few contacts appears to be a muslim.

    How many groups of people go around shooting Christians today?

    Chris Harper Mercer a/k/a Chris Harper-Mercer, age 26, has been identified as the mass murderer in today’s killing of 9 people at Umpqua Community College in Roseburg, Oregon. Was he Muslim? Well, he forced students to identify their religion, and he shot at those who said they were Christian. And his MySpace page, featuring a picture of him with a rifle, identifes only two friends, one of whom is an extremist Muslim (redundant phrase). His Facebook page is obsessed with Ahmed Mohamed, the bomb clock Muslim. And he said he liked to torture insects. Sicko. Also, he was a fan of a terrorist group that trained with a Palestinian Muslim terrorist group.

    Harper Mercer’s MySpace page, which identifies him as Chris Harper-Mercer, shows that he has two friends, one of whom is Mahmoud Ali Ehsani. Ehsani, who created a classy custom MySpace URL of “dick_hard_like_a_pistol” (let’s hear it for that “Islamic modesty” they keep lecturing us about), has two photos on his MySpace page–a koran and the symbol of Islam.

    http://www.debbieschlussel.com/79886/chris-harper-mercer-was-ucc-mass-murderer-muslim-obsessed-w-muslims-bomb-clock-liked-to-torture-insects/

    Chinese whispers or spin going on.

    He did not ask for Christians, he asked people to stand up and asked what their religion was.

    He did not target Christians, he shot indiscriminately.

    How many people go around shooting groups of Christians??? You have a short memory of a confederate flag waving white guy in a black CHRISTIAN church recently.

    (yet another mass shooting!)

    I daresay most of the mass shootings between blacks or between Hispanics or between each other are Christian-on-Christian.

    According to the tv news I saw, he shot those that said they were Christian in the head and those that weren't or didn't say he shot in the leg.

  9. Guns were as powerful as 100 years ago?

    Please tell me about many sub rifles machine guns they had with their muskets ?

    The answer to your last question is simple : it is easier and easier for disturbed people to get guns.. And lot of teenagers are temporarly or not.

    The question the pro guns never answer to is : why so many shooting in USA and not so much in europe? Why since Australia restricted gun there was not any mass shooting?

    Thompson sub machine gun invented 105 years ago 600 rounds per minute.

    Browning Automatic rifle invented 105 years ago 600 rounds per minute.

    Any other questions?

    Bolt action rifle 1824

    Muskets obsolete by 1860.

    Does anyone on here actually think that a law restricting guns in the US will remove guns from the criminals?

    The only people that will hand in weapons are the law abiding ones. Criminals and insane people will have no problem obtaining guns.

    There are millions of unregistered guns out there right now.

  10. His girl was different...like everyone else's.

    Yes she was so different that the property was protected with a lease. The business properties were for business and she was not entitled to sign for them. The lease was cancelled and the Directorships changed by fraud - in the company case countersigned by two separate lawyers. And then the court held he could not sue to protect the assets of the defrauded companies against those who committed the crime because as a defrauded Director who was not registered at the Company Registration papers on file at the DBD, he had no power to sue. That has ramifications for every business regardless of what assets it has. But the good people on Thai visa would rather ponder and slur the man and girl rather than see the legal ramifications of the case.

    We do so because he tried to play the Thai game with Thai rules and had no chance of winning. Then he attempts to use the legal system and throws good money after bad. Just can't tell some people.

    He lost the minute he 'invested" more money in Thailand than he could afford to lose. Had he just lived in LOS he would still be enjoying his life, with his wife and children.

    Still, there will be many more just like him following in the same footsteps, with a gleam of money in their eyes.

    Not sure that I understand this, "he tried to play the Thai game with Thai rules"..........care to explain "tbl"!

    There have been so many similar tales as this thread while I have been coming to Thailand that I couldn't count them now.

    Jet ski scams, m'bike scams and the old gem scam have been around for donkey's years. Any farang caught in them will not receive what would be considered justice. Same same for business.

    Even a cursory google search would reveal that, but still they come thrusting money into untrustworthy hands.

  11. If you 'attack' a Thai in the street, regardless of the reason, even if its in self defence, you take on the whole street as you are the foreigner (who should not be here in the first place) and attacking a Thai is interpreted as attacking all Thais.

    Its the same mentality as attacking a single soi dog that belongs to a pack. The soi dog pack will attack you as its their only defence mechanism.

    Your general Thai has never been taught to think, just react and do as they are told. This is why a Thai is perfectly capable of 'cutting off their nose to spite their face'. They react with their emotions, without anything being processed between the ears first! Its similar to the Western 'football hooligan' problem. All testosterone no brain power.

    This happens to Thais also. I saw a video not long ago of a Thai guy in a car who hit a scooter. People stopped their cars, pulled him out, and kicked him in the head until I think he was dead. Horrible mob mentality here. it's not just directed towards foreigners. Though these are the ones that typically make it into the English new reports.

    Maybe a good reason to carry a gun for protection and learn how to use it, I would hate to be a helpless victim

    You must be keen to stay in a Thai jail! Can a farang even own a gun in Thailand?

  12. If you 'attack' a Thai in the street, regardless of the reason, even if its in self defence....

    How does one get in a situation where they are attacking someone in self defense?

    If someone is being attacked in the street, do you think onlookers should just ignore it?

    Can you win against multiple Thai fighters, as it's never one on one?

    Myself, I'll call the cops to sort it as that's their job.

  13. I have zero interest in sex now that I understand it. I desire what I do not have. Once I have had it, it is the last thing I want. Very similar to excreting?

    What is sex?

    If you have to ask, you haven't had any. You might have stuck it in and shaken all about, but it's nothing till it's better than anything you ever did in your life before.

    PS. I know you know what sex is.

  14. Surely Thais living in the west are better off then Farangs living in Thailand.

    Once in and have obtained their visas, there are no restrictions on them. They get the same rights as citizens, no money required in the bank, no 90 day and yearly visa kiss A`s crap, can work, own anything and later on have the options of obtaining full citizenship, a system almost impossible for Farangs in Thailand, full access to EEC countries, including keeping their Thai citizenships, having the best of all worlds.

    Advising Thais not to move to Farangland, do me a favour, who are you trying to kid? Most Thais would jump at the offer given half a chance.

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    Precisely Cyberfarang

    My (Thai) wife is now a British citizen, works for local government, our son is being educated to a very high level, she has every type of Thai food available to her and her close knit group of Thai friends and she understands the importance of building our life ready for retirement together in Thailand.

    Not all become greedy and obsessed with western excess as suggested.

    For example: She drives her own car and a couple of weeks ago I said "I think you need a new car" she told me the 10 year old Fiesta was perfectly OK and there's no need to waste money.

    My Wife and her 2 very close Thai friends are all here because they love their English husbands. They also see the benefits of living in a Western democracy.

    So is my wife stereotypically Thai????

    I have no idea what is typical apart from my experience here in the UK & what you guys express here daily on TV.

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    I don't know if she is typically Thai, but you will know that she has become typically western if she becomes offended if you look at another woman or want a night out with the boys, starts saying "no" to sex, wants to be the boss rather than a partner, and divorces you and takes you for everything she can get the court to agree to.

  15. His girl was different...like everyone else's.

    Yes she was so different that the property was protected with a lease. The business properties were for business and she was not entitled to sign for them. The lease was cancelled and the Directorships changed by fraud - in the company case countersigned by two separate lawyers. And then the court held he could not sue to protect the assets of the defrauded companies against those who committed the crime because as a defrauded Director who was not registered at the Company Registration papers on file at the DBD, he had no power to sue. That has ramifications for every business regardless of what assets it has. But the good people on Thai visa would rather ponder and slur the man and girl rather than see the legal ramifications of the case.

    We do so because he tried to play the Thai game with Thai rules and had no chance of winning. Then he attempts to use the legal system and throws good money after bad. Just can't tell some people.

    He lost the minute he 'invested" more money in Thailand than he could afford to lose. Had he just lived in LOS he would still be enjoying his life, with his wife and children.

    Still, there will be many more just like him following in the same footsteps, with a gleam of money in their eyes.

  16. I think the tournament we are observing in this thread is far too heated. Too many spears are broken. Yet there are no victors because there can be no defeats.

    There is no way to prove to any member with his mind set that he is wrong. Examples:

    1. One says 500 "Palestinian" children were killed by IDF. Did you count each of them? Are you sure it was not 499? Or 501? "Palestinian" propaganda is the source.

    2. One says that "Everybody knows that to be true". I do not even care to know what is this sentence about. Because this is a typical slogan used by unscrupulous on unwise.

    3. Now, how do you like a piece of garbage like: - "There's anti, there's pro and there's impartial fairness" ? There is no such things! Nothing is impartial. Nothing is fair. One man's food is another man's poison.

    4. Or a desperate question of what is UN now? It does not have teeth. It does not have muscle. It does not have even a head! It is a bunch of self serving officials not knowing where they are, what for and any sense of direction.

    The majority of UN distinguished members would be eating each other and selling their captives into slavery if there was a big enough market. A Relic, an Atavism on the body of Humanity, - this is UN IMHO.

    Unlike many posters here I do not know the Truth. I do not know what is Fair. But I know the Facts.

    The fact is - there is a War in Palestine! People die in this war. Children die too. Especially when the glorious Intifada soldiers use schools and mosques as bases for their operations.

    The fact is - Israeli would like to have Peace. But they will never get it. Because the only way to achieve Peace is total removal of the opposition! And though Israelis have the strength to do this they have no guts to do it.

    The fact is - I am neither fair nor impartial. I wish Israel to be victorious. Because the whole World is getting a lot of benefits from them and nothing but troubles from Arabs. Yes, yes, this is a fact!

    The fact is - Jews had Israel two thousands years ago. They do have it now. And despite the hopes of their enemies they will have it in 500 years! Unless a total destruction of this World comes first.

    And if the "Armageddon" comes - Jews will be the last to leave. They will be the ones to put lights out.

    I would advise to all the haters of Jews, Zionists, Israelis to understand this.

    You contradict yourself. You criticize the use of the "sweeping statement" fallacy, then you yourself proceed with a series of sweeping statements presenting your opinions masquerading as "facts" ... in your imagination.
    Back to the OP.
    The way for Zionists to stop having stones thrown at them in the Occupied Territories, is to remove themselves from the land they are illegally occupying where the existing residents are resisting their invaders as best they can. Simple.

    My 'opinions masquerading as facts ... in my imagination': -

    There is War in Palestine. People die in this war. Children die too. ... Intifada soldiers use schools and mosques as bases... not facts! Just figment of my imagination!

    Israel wants peace ... Just figment of my imagination! AND in giving away the whole of Sinai for a piece of paper that can be annuled any time. They will never get it ... only in my opinion AND in 2000 year history!

    I am not impartial. I am biased. I want Israelis to win... can't you even allow me the knowledge of facts about myself?

    Jews had Israel 2000 years ago... do you call this my imagination? Or is the existence of Israel now that I imagine?

    Come on, dexterm! You can make a better argument.

    On the other hand you are a perfect example of my assertion: - "There is no way to prove to any member with his mind set that he is wrong."

    And your mind is set in stone like that of "Palestinians" - NO Israel, or bust! ... so bust they are just like you with your wishful thinking.

    What has 2000 years ago got to do with anything? Should all Euro Americans go home because the native Americans owned the north American continent 2,000 years ago?

    Should the Norman descendents leave Britain and go back to France, etc etc etc?

    Occupation of land 2,000 years ago confers nothing on present day peoples.

  17. No need to struggle if only Israel recognizes the Palestinian State. The ball is in your court israel.

    So naive it isn't even funny.

    Perhaps, but how many Jews in Israel and how many enemies outside Israel? They know that most of the world is against them, and more countries turn against them all the time. That must be a worry.

    It will only take an American president that is anti Israel to take away the shield that the US presently offers. When that happens, there will be a lot of Jewish Israelis quite sorry they didn't make good neighbours when they had the opportunity.

    The POTUS does not need to be anti-Israel, just pro-self determination for an oppressed and occupied people.

    Nothing will change as long as the US shields them in the UN and keeps sending them weapons and ammunition.

    Only if the POTUS threatens ( and means it ) to turn off the pro Israeli tap will Israel agree to the 2 state solution and withdraws from illegally occupied land.

  18. Hope they do a better job than they did with Pattaya Beach Road. Bad lighting, bad trash handling, bad pedestrian control, bad landscaping, bad retaining walls, no seating, etc. The one thing that should have been the top priority, improving the sidewalks on the shop side, was not addressed at all. What a lost opportunity to eliminate parking from Festival Mall to Walking Street and create grand sidewalks on both sides of the road--with the shop side maybe having a sun/rain awning with festive lighting in the evening. Would be so pleasant to walk from Festival Mall down to Royal Garden, walking in and out of shops, and then on to Walking Street--people watching and enjoying the ocean views. Instead it is so unpleasant walking single file and sometimes having to walk out in the traffic. Just no imagination whatsoever at work here.

    Jomtien Beach Road needs all sidewalks repaired--why not use concrete this time? The pavers don't hold up at all and need constant maintenance--which never happens. Parking needs to be eliminated on the narrow stretch of Beach Road at the southern end--the road is barely wide enough for 2 cars even without being blocked by cars parked. Either that or widen the road. Hopefully the city will do a better job with trash collection--lidded bins are needed on the beach at frequent intervals. Restroom/shower facility would be nice, too. Permanent seating and some public gathering areas with shade, make it welcoming.

    When the Beach Rd mutilation was going on, one particular individual constantly told us on TV forum that it was going to be wonderful, but mainly he liked the idea of driving his car faster down Beach Rd.

    Now that it's an epic fail, he NEVER comes out to play with us on the forum anymore cheesy.gifcheesy.gifcheesy.gif .

    Jomptien, you know it's going to be as bad as Pattaya's walkway disaster. As long as it looks good on the tourist brochures, that's all city hall cares about. Just keep the suckers coming.

  19. Now it's a case of closing the barn doors after the cows have already escaped.

    I don't know that that's a fair characterization. It may be.

    But it may also be an economic reality that you can build a road that will always be open for $100 million, by building it above grade, with catch basins and pump systems.

    Or you can build the same road for $50 million, knowing you're going to have to shut it down once or twice a year for a few hours to let your overworked pumps drain it. And it will be open 99.5% of the time for 1/2 the money.

    1 inch of rain over 1 square mile is something like 17 million gallons of water. Figure out what kind of pumps you need to keep up with a monsoon rain, then look around for a lower area nearby to pump the water to, and I suspect the planners made a conscious decision that involves "Road Closed" signs occasionally. It could have been a valid economic decision, though it's an inconvenience.

    Now if they just had some budget money left over for a few "Road Closed" signs....

    Could very well be. I don't recall much about construction of that highway (didn't really interest me at the time) but it could very well be that the authorities went with a cheaper option and fingers crossed. True enough that the inconvenience is normally infrequent and short lived (thankfully) !

    When I was in Kandahar there was a large "wadi" (dry creek bed) outside what was then the perimeter fence near the compound I worked in. The wadi was about 20' wide and 4' deep and (normally) dry as old toast that's been left in the baking sun. During an expansion of the camp a certain contingent from a certain country decided that since it hadn't rained a drop in the 2-3 months they'd been there, the wadi was just an inconvenience, so they filled it in and built over top of it. Great idea ! They did put in some token ditches which were kind of hilarious from an engineering point of view, because they went absolutely nowhere !! They were more like long, skinny, shallow retention ponds than drainage ditches.

    Of course a couple months later it did in fact rain and because Afghanistan is what it is, the rain doesn't soak into the ground. The top layer of fine dust hardens (like flour will) and the water just flows over top of it. Without the wadi (that had probably been there for thousands of years), the water had nowhere to go and as soon as the ditches filled up (mere minutes in some cases) the water flowed out onto the roads and into the compounds. Nasty mess. Especially when the outflow creek from the sewage treatment plant overflowed !

    (In late 2011 we had one rainfall that only lasted about an hour. The ditches filled and the roads started being flooded and then a retaining wall somewhere north of the camp let go. Again, with no natural drainage the flood of water washed through the camp. We quickly found that the Hesco and cement barriers designed to protect us from rocket attacks also made excellent dams, preventing the water from flowing and resulting in our compound having waist deep water trapped inside of it. I was living in a prefab shelter up on blocks in a gravelled compound and the water ended up over 18 inches deep inside. The worst part though was seeing all the crap floating in the water (actual crap, probably mostly animal dung as well as other things nobody wanted to speculate on). They ended up having to write off and dispose of the prefab shelters because of the contamination and mold growing inside the walls.)

    (The point being that without adequate natural drainage and adding man made obstructions to the equation, what should normally be minor problem can quickly escalate. The other worrying thing is, we've seen various roads wash-out and collapse due to heavy rains and flooding, got to hope that the base under the highway is solid or there could be some expensive repairs needed in the future.)

    I'm pickin' that it wasn't Aussies that filled in the wadi. Most Aussies know about dry creek beds that fill up in minutes after a rain storm elsewhere. However, the Brits like building on flood plains in Blighty, then being surprised when their houses flood.

    The problem with Pattaya is that it is not the culture to design anything for what could happen, or to maintain anything after it is built. They put really big pipes on the third go under Beach Rd long ago, but I'll bet they are blocked by now, causing Beach Rd flooding after a normal downpour.

    The Thai way is to put small pipes in now, and if they aren't big enough to dig the road up again and put bigger ones in later.

  20. Mick.

    Steady on.

    Just step back and think about what you are actually suggesting / researching on a forum board.

    My 13 year old girl has severe autism too and I do understand your situation, but do really trust some stranger you found on a web site to take (someone elses) kid out and about Pattaya without you or a relative at present?

    If you need a break away together my suggestion would be to arrange for him to stay with a trusted family relative nearer home rather than an unknown entity in Pattaya.

    Pardon my bluntness, but have you been drinking?

    I understand what you are saying, but the OP knows the capabilities of the child better than any of us, and if they want to pay a proper carer at much expense to be a babysitter that is their call.

    Were they to pay an untrained person off the street 300 a day, your concerns might be valid.

    It all depends on the child.

    It's all very well to suggest using a trusted relative, but there are a thousand reasons that that may not be possible. All my relatives/ friends work and would not be able to do so if it were me asking.

  21. As usual there is no hard and fast rule. Just advice given freely based on experience [emoji106]

    It all depends on the individual

    Exactly, the same thing could be said about people coming to thailand who end up whoring and boozing which they did not do at home.

    It depends on the individual and their strength of character.

    If they could whore and booze at home like they can in LOS, none of them would bother to go. It might have escaped your notice, but there is no equivalent of the Thai p4p scene in western countries. The closest most get is a half hour quickie with a whore in a bedsit or a massage parlour.

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