Head Snake

Just an update: My Tirak was finally able to talk yesterday albiet still in pain. She plans to return home today (maybe too soon - I don't know).

Her reason to do it: She gained weight and looked pregnant. We even did 2 pregancy tests on her and they were negative but anybody who saw her always asked her if she was pregnant. I also kept joking about it to her. Oops. So, she was embarassed and self conscience. She wanted to be skinny again.... and fast.

Her surgery: fat reduction and tightening "down there". They give 20% discount to do 2 operations at one time. I don't think she did any research of the hospital and doctor. Just did it. Sold land, got money, and in she goes.

What is it with stubbornness? Why did she have to feel she needed tightening? She had children I understand that. Would I have preferred enhanced breasts - thats what I thought her surprise for me was. now we can't do nothing for 2 months. Merry FN Christmas!! hehe I don't like that!!

2 months

Jeezus!!

Anyway she says she will tell any woman who asks about the operation to not do it. She feels lucky to be alive. She says she should have just gone to the gym and done it right to lose weight.

The Tightening? I think that will be worthless as we talked about having a child in the future.

Basically, 4 days she could not do anything due to pain and medication.

Money she could have used for a car or a scooter she wanted.

Now she has a blood transfusion too - any surprises there??

She'll still be sore for awhile and we'll have to watch her closely

Even though I will talk to her, I feel like I wouldn't know if some day she just checks herself in for breast enhancement. Something she had talked about before.

I wish your sweetie all the best. That is a cautionary tale and I'm glad the cost of learning was not too steep.

When she recovers, there are excellent ways to get in shape via diet and exercise.

*but diet as in nutrition, not crazy diet pills or teas.

Thanks. I think there is a lesson here, too.

SHe is a very pretty girl and i didn't care that she had gained weight. I'd never seen her "heavy" before but I sure she could have lost the weight over time.

I was gone on a golf weekend and I lost some weight. I think maybe she wanted to show me how much she could lose by shortcutting.

I also blame her girlfriend talk network. I think she and her friends had been talking up a storm on girl issues. I think she felt some pressure. That is just my spidey senses.

SHe had told me she took diet pills before. Hummm. Then she got off them and gained weight. now this.

I think I need to have a heart to heart with her.

Go Rockies

Just an FYI.

My sweetheart went to her village/hometown. Feeling bad about picking up some weight, she chose to get fat removal (and possibily breast enhancement) performed. She did this on the spur of the moment this weekend. No plans as far as I was aware.

I knew something was wrong as she typically calls and smses. I left plenty of smses to check on her and wish her the best.

She just wrote that she went back to the hospital because she lost alot of blood and had to have a transfusion. She hopes to get out by tomorrow.

SHe's just happy to be alive.

1) If you do it, go to the right doctors.

2) You don't need it. There are risks.

bruising to the eyes maybe??

Maybe the BIB needed him to wear the rather large Prado sunglasses.

Perivously, I had bought some small bottles of the stuff from GNC.

This explains the oversized game of marbles I saw on TV.

oooohhhh What fun . Makes me want to go drink. hiccup The whole mention of the invoice to be sent his employers is classic. Shame upon shame.

Ok, who made the HR decision with this guy??

Last thing his boss said, "Just stay outta trouble, ok, dokie!!"

timi fune,

I am one of the lucky ones too. I get to sleep for long periods. Its refreshing. I am on Day 22 and hoping I can ride this wagon into next year. At least, that is the plan. Then I make a new plan.

I have to call bullshit. Too much coincidence with the OP showing up at the right time.

What do I get as my parting gift?

" I was enjoying a brief period of weightlessness, then BANG, I was not"

A car lift? Is that normal?

I don't pity smokers. They will do as they feel they must. I can't and won't preach to them that is sure.

My stress is lots less both mental and blood pressure.

Its made my recent alcohol quit fairly easy, too .

Being accountable to loved ones.

Yes, I've been an idiot.

Haven't any of you outrun your pursuers whilst carrying a fertilizer sack?? Jeez. Its easy!!

good luck golden mile.

Congratulations!!

I am working on 4 months I think and I feel lots better - more clean.

I had a problem with weight gain. It seems like I've been yoyoing with weight gain and then slight weight loss. Its only recently that i've been able to curb the appetite a bit and that has helped.

Luckily, I don't have a desire to bite my mouth.

Meth is a scourge. It really does make a holes out of alot of people.

Back in the USA, I knew some people hooked on that crap. All of them lost their job.

Random drug tests really aren't that random. Its the people that don't use drugs who know when a random drug test will be administered to somebody showing symptoms. Its that evident.

That post from SBK tells the story. If that stuff could be eliminated, we'd have a better world. Legalize it my a$$

And hey, Isn't that picture with his passport info enough for somebody to do some identity theft. ok, Nobody'd like his identity right now; but couldn't credit cards be made with that data?

It sounds like L.V. Mansion is going to have some shakedowns. I wonder where "Mr. Mike" has gone.

The OP story is really entertaining. I was shocked with each new sentence.

The comments from the bleachers are hilarious too.

Who of you actually went to Cowboy last night?

oh, she is crazy. make everybody laugh. Just try everyday to talk. do not know how but make everybody laugh no matter what.

This from the most wonderful 2 year old who now knows how to not cry but to talk to communicate.

I am in love everyday!!!

My heart is ripped from me in the best way.

I love her.

This death is sad, yes. RIP

15 bras?? All the same cup size? How is that possible? oh put them all on backwards and then turn it around??

I hope he is not just remembered for this last act.

Why just one skirt?

Seriously, ... This is a memorable way to go. And I'm sure he's not the first.

I hope I go more graciously. There by the grace of GOd...

What does it matter and who does it matter whom you go home to at night?

People who do not go home with you should not effect you or other lives........but, do they?

I know, yes, I know that it is common that married expats are constantly badgered by outraged wives and their expat wife societys about how others live their lives. (Read: older man, usually single, getting cuddly with a younger slimmer, non badgering woman) Why to these married ladies badger? Fear, fealousy, too much wine and cheese, and perhaps maybe to control their men.

Could one of the husbands ask their wife to shut their trap because the issue should not be brought up? No. Too Dangerous.

And these women sadly make efforts to effect lives of others to make their world more safe. Sad indeed.

Back to the OP: I say the person who is home with the person he wants to be with is much more happier than a person who is married (read:stuck) to a person who may be a royal pain in the mental arse.

I am happy for people who are married and happy.

Its pretty pathetic to see people who are married and unhappy. The tension is palpable.

On a side note: Although I wish not to marry, I feel I may lose this battle as I've found a woman I don't want to lose. Man, am I pathetic!! She's younger but she thinks she's too old - wow!!... ok. Divide my age by 2 and add 7 and voila!!, there's her age. Looks like I'm set for some upcoming misery.