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Its the usual Trump BS. None of the other debates were on the table. Trump first refused to debate then turned around with a one sided 3 debate program. Now he claims Harris refuses to debate on Fox. A debate that was never scheduled. 

Well its either that or a walking cane.

On 7/10/2024 at 1:08 AM, still kicking said:

So, I am not a big eater, but I love to cook how do you manage to cook for a few days and not wasting any food?

Here's a tip:

when you make a sauce for lets say spaghetti portion it and freeze. Cook only the amount of pasta you want to eat with the portioned sauce. If you combine everything from the start and throw it in the microwave it won't taste very nice.

Salads: you can make a nice bowl of salad but don't put any kind of dressing on. Use what you want and the rest will stay nice and crispy in the fridge for a couple of days.

Make a stew, again portion it and eat it one day with rice and the other with boiled potato's, taste like a complete different meal.

@fredwiggy Please go make dinner or do something else useful. Your ranting here is not welcome to everybody except yourself. 

Do us a favour and go and hold hands with ur gf if you even have one witch I doubt.

54 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Those links are studies done. What to you is actual world data besides studies done? It's up to you what you believe or don't believe. Some are skeptical when things are flat out proven to them because that's their nature. I don't lie, especially here. Why would I? I'm not a troll arguing just for the sake of arguing but pointing out the wrongs involved in prostitution. If you think it's normal behavior to sell your body for cash, and for others to profit by this, and many times beat, rape and kill their employees, you're really out there and not worth mine or anyone else's time. You have a computer? Try looking up things if you're interested in knowing the truth, because you obviously don't. There are many links but if you think everyone who does studies on this topic is wrong there's nothing more I can say. Lost cause comes to mind.

Here you go again on your mantra. You say you read a lot yet you don't comprehend what is written you're blind to any argument. You have made up your mind. Fine but don't shove your believes up other peoples ass**!

The only actual study with real data is published by the UN where it states that about 4 % of the people working in the sex industry does so against their will. 

So its not all Sodom and Gomorrah

8 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Actually all I post are factual, including the links, topics and replies, which are studies done by professionals that are involved in the topics. Personally, I know quite a lot about a certain number of subjects from experience and reading, along with listening to those that are teachers. None of it is fictional, as the answers have shown, with links to back them up. I'm not here 20 hours a day, but then how would you know this unless you also were? My computer is left on all day, with AN up, so maybe that's where you get your false information from? Why would I bother trolling just to argue, as that makes no sense? I come here to help for the most part,and hear others who are in the same boat, to relate.

You lie. Yes you flat out repeat your lies. You links are nothing more than some articles written by people who have the same idea you have. They are not backed up by actual world wide data.

42 minutes ago, Roo Island said:

But very cold in the winter.

Not everywhere but yes were I'm going I'll be skiing wintertime 

I'm thinking Bulgaria, easy for us Europeans and cheaper than Thailand.

9 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

It doesn't matter if it's legal or not. Things get legalized for many reasons and money is a top one, outweighing rational thinking many times. You're still not getting the point. The damage prostitution does to those involved. If you don't care, don't comment. Booze is legal and kills thousands yearly. Prostitution is legal and hidden in a lot of places and it kills thousands yearly, and permanently damages many others. Read more, talk less, because your arguments aren't valid. You are one sided because you pursue women for cash, contributing to the problem. God himself could come down and tell you it's wrong, and you would argue just for the sake of, because that's what a person in denial with little knowledge of the  damage this trade causes those involved, besides the ones making a profit from it.

Sorry my man but you have got it completely backwards.

1. I read a lot

2. I don't visit hookers at all

3. Reading stuff does not make you an expert

4. Close mindedness is sleeping with the devil

5. It does matter if it is legal and the main reason is NOT money but rights; the right to have a union. the right to social security, the right to healthcare, the right for police protection and the list goes on.

I am not in denial of anything, I know what ILLIGAL prostitution can do. Sex trafficking and trade  all the more reason for it to be legal.

You think you are a good person, you say it so often you believe it yourself but to me you are just a religious zealot smothering the world with the fact that you and only you have the right of speech and the knowledge in hand. Come of your high horse dude.

10 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Another link for you to ponder...https://universeoffaith.org/i-work-with-prostitutes-the-negative-effects-of-prostitution/

Also by Dr. Anna Maria Vella is a opinion piece about how legalizing prostitution would result in chaos and criminality on the streets. Dude you can't be serious! In The Netherlands prostitution is legal, the ladies have their own union for Christ sake ! It took the criminality OUT !

Seem to me you are not researching anything, just looking for articles that confirm your bias. 

21 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Again I post the link, and again, let's see how many read it, because some just don't understand and are truly "divorced" from the real world and don't know what goes on around them.This is but one line from it............................Acceptance of prostitution is one of a cluster of harmful attitudes that encourage and justify violence against women. Violent behaviors against women have been associated with attitudes that promote men's beliefs that they are entitled to sexual access to women, that they are superior to women and that they are licensed as sexual aggressors (White and Koss, 1993). Customers of prostitutes strongly endorse these attitudes toward women............https://www.psychiatrictimes.com/view/prostitution-sexual-violence

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Melissa_Farley

A radical !!! Your source is a RADICAL !!!!

Get out, go away ! Give your wife a good one but stop posting! My dear Jeez the man keeps on pushing us tp his link; a piece of paper written by a radical  feminist!

6 minutes ago, NowNow said:

They are no better than dogs in the street, panting and desperate

Right, and this is how you see the world? People who don't think like you are dogs? So you are a muslim? 

Who's the bitch now?

@fredwiggy Yakydie Yakydie Yack You an old broken record nobody wants to listen to. Your ex-wifes ran away going crazy from you and your current one will as well, soon. You can live with a zealot like you? 

You claim you know all while you seem to know nothing of live. You "research" live, not live it. Nothing can stop you just like the evangelists send to Africa 200 years ago. 

Don't bother responding again, I won't read your sermon.  

8 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

I know as much about sex as anyone else. I've had a lot of girlfriends and a few wives I've learned from and read a lot more to learn more.

I just told you about a 4 year study but you have read a lot about it. Man don't you realize just how foolish you sound. 

Another right wing click n bait trap. Boring.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

I didn't judge you. You're the one who said you don't care about their life. I'm nowhere near confused. Just a moral thinker and believer that women aren't playthings. You're actually comparing other businesses with a woman selling her body to men? That's mentally troubled. People aren't inanimate objects. But maybe to you and others like you they are? The problem is exactly what you said. Most people don't care about who they are dealing with as long as they get what they need from them. And you actually think this is okay, especially when it affects a human being? That's classic narcissist thinking and that's all I need to know. It might be good for you to look up what a narcissist is, but if you are one, you'll never admit it, and therein lies the world's problems.

Dude you take the moral high ground in every long BS post you make. What do you actually know about the women in this business. F** all if you ask me.

You keep telling you're not accusing but then you are, constantly.

Tell me your credentials on "knowing for sure " you are right as you claim.

I have worked for  with  a Belgium  "sexuoloog" someone who actually made a real study in the field. Now when I compare what we have witnessed and deducted after spending over 4 years with the ladies "in the field" we found that about 90 % were working on their own free will, liked the work and the money. Most of them liked most of their returning client and knew a lot of their private stuff. Men like to talk.

Apart from some relative small amount of human sex-slave trade, the business is well organised.

Nothing you have said so far is in line with reality. You have not been out since the "50 ts is my guess.

Maybe, just like a priest you should not talk about ST or sex at all because, just like a priest you know nothing about it.

I've got no time left for the bible belt.

4 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Swingers are also people who are missing something in their relationship. One reason is that they have never figured out how to romance their partner the right way to have them open up to being affectionate with them. Others are just cheaters who married for financial reasons and stay because of that. Some think their wives aren't giving them enough sex, so they look elsewhere, also probably because they aren't being attentive to their partners or listening to them the right way, which is a problem with many men. If you don't have the ability to be with someone and look at them as a partner and not an object, don't get married, because it's not part of the definition of marriage if you need to look elsewhere.

Right so you know all about them right? Might explain to me from where you get this wisdom? The bible maybe?

Maybe, just maybe swinging is a very satisfying way of getting more variation in once sexlife? Ever thought of that. 

Oh another thing is that some if not most modern people see sex and love as 2 different things.

3 minutes ago, NowNow said:

 

Whataboutery....

OK HOW about swingers? Mr. pretend to know it all.

3 minutes ago, NowNow said:

 

Whataboutery....

No answer?

21 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Another justification for bad behavior and also bragging about it. Most everyone does stupid things when they are younger but grow out of that thinking once they hit middle age. A woman who cheats on her husband loses everything to a player that couldn't care less what she is or what she does, as long as he gets off in a woman who has no morals, probably blames her husband for what she does, and goes back home to that same thing., until he has enough sense to leave her to her ways and find a woman who actually loves him. If the husband is doing the same thing, they deserve each other and shouldn't get others involved, as hurting a decent person is an incorrigible thing to do. The player wins all the time, because he cares for nothing but his own pleasure.

So what about swingers? Mr. Moral high ground.