They are still human beings whether you like it or not and have a choice to do with there life as they wish.
Men make make me laugh as it's ok for them to go with many women as they can but it's not OK for women.
I know 3 more who have Europe and English husbands, one of the reasons why they were working a bar and hoping exactly that would happen.
I would say there's at least 5 reason for many of the girls that take up that kind of work.