payak

"Seriously, I don't believe in politicians anywhere in the world, but Thailand is worse."

I'm sorry OP, but you must not be real familiar with the Republican party of the USA.

syria has a good government i believe.

Then why have you bumped it again ?

Just forget about it, that is unless you want to argue yourself ?

natural reaction to fire up when people say you dont care about someone you love.

not about wanting to argue, think about it, we could all just begin again and talk civily, but has there ever been a thread were that happens, no.

there will always be someone who will jump in with something quite negative, everytime without fail, you know its true.

forgive me if im wrong but are you saying the thai food in thailand is not as good as the thai food in europe.

if you read this thread from start to finish its lost its original plot, now somewhat looks like a game of chinese whispers, 2 times i pointed out i was simply complaing about the police.

it has now evolved into a thread about me being lazy and not caring about my brother in law.

this thread says more about some of you then me.

we know what needs to be done, thats a no brainer, we appreciate the respectful comments of help to, but it being delt with, post was about the system or lack of it.

tv guys will argue over almost anything.

good news is every possible avenue has been checked, i mean everything that can be done.

LOL, are you serious? Well I guess that one is done and dusted then, back to the bat cave.

yeah, i will explain it because many things must be spelled out here for the simpler people, good news meaning having done everything it increases the chances of finding him, i dont mean good as in hey we can stop now because its hard work.

there are same great guys here, but some serious rejects, common sense is not in large supply here when some are reading posts, try reading between the lines a little, that way we dont have to write a virtual book each post

probably is a troll, but not every thai girl will leave for a richer man, not all live for money, most do but not all.

This is a very strange thread, My brother in law is missing, please don't try to to help.

At least that is how I am reading it.

You would think the OP would appreciate that some of the members have shown concern and have made an effort.

Rescue guys often pinch wallets, so missing ID is not that uncommon from accident victims.

all threads are strange if you read only half the posts, I said thankyou to those who offered help, did you see that or are your eyes painted on. what i find strange are people that read back about oh, lets say 4 0r 5 posts then jumpin thinking they know whats what.

do you recall me writing i'm aware people here cant help, just venting my frustration at the police, did not read it did you, although you just wrote its strange thread as you read it, but you never reallyread it at all did you.

many people have been very kind and helpful, thanks again, but like all posts, how do things always turn into an issue here, got people on the other post fighting about boots for f sakes.

as for the families finances and costs for lawyers, i dont ask, they dont ask me for cash, they do alright, not my place to ask them.

No one will take note as Thailand is full of weirdos.

Case in point:

the big guy with the tatts is a friend of a friend

dont worry what they think,its always the westerners who judge westerners, forget them to.

those boots will get hot as hell but.

i have many, some are for protection, some for luck.

there are many for many reasons, even one to make you punch harder believe it or not.

Except some rare nutter, i didn't see many who fit in the description..Where are you living OP ?

Wow just came back and saw all the replies ,must have hit the right note ,actually i live just outside Pattaya and must admit around the house tend to just wear shorts ,but when we go out always try to dress nicely ,not flash as i have got to the age where i no longer feel the need to wear the latest fashions ,but as i have stated on other threads her indoors is 23 years younger than me slim quit attractive and dresses nicely so i feel it would be a bit strange if i was out in my singlet long shorts with black socks and sandals,

I can never get a good jacket to fit me........straight jacket excepted

I liked the picture of quasimodo ,do you know its a fact that even his ugly brother is able to get a date in Pattaya

ive seen worse with attractive thai girls.

good news is every possible avenue has been checked, i mean everything that can be done.

bad news is we came up with nothing, this was one happy guy to, happy with his present situation at the time before he disapeared.

yanks know how to make things on a large scale.

Including the clothes..

yes but as you can see in my avatar, no need for those large clothes yet.

people do dress down in hot places, i did in florida to, miss disney world, yanks know how to make things on a large scale.

maybe i would be rich if i cut back on my clothing.

i like shorts singlet and thongs, other times i dress up, depends onmy mood or where im going.

i really am highly into fashion though, my wife said im worse then a woman, i have 14 pairs of shoes.

If money isn't an issue, hire a P.I.

They do amazing things in Thailand.

My penny-thoughts: He's probably involved in an accident or any other event that cost his life without carrying any kind of ID.

Well aren't you a ray of sunshine.

this has crossed my mind, and is very likely i thought, but if the hospitals or temples came across a young guy with no id, they say they will call.

surin, absolutly

sighning out, time to catch some zzzzz's

Don't wish to sound like Rumsfeld in one of his more esoteric moments but there are many unknowns here.

Your brother-in-law was at best casually employed but you don't really know.

He had no fixed address but you don't really know.

He had a casual employer but you don't know his name.

He lived apart from his family with no partner but you don't really know.

I, personally, don't get involved with Thai's family business. Experience has taught me that you will not help despite all the best intentions, you can never understand what is really going on despite speaking good Thai and many situations are intractable.

Have you considered the fact that he may be hopelessly in debt, a common situation, and gone into hiding or locked up. No free phone call from friendly cops here.

think i should have made it clear when i started this my intentions were not to find him here, my mistake sorry guys.

just expressing frustration at the system although its no surprise.

was not here to find him, he will not be found here, just talking about the lack of interest by authorities.

he has not done a runner from anything, read this from the start, he is not the average thai guy that splits from his children.

Some of his buddies on the job site must know something.

the mysterious company that never called anyone when he never turned up for work for days.

my wifes not a happy girl right now, newborn is keeping her bus though.

Do you mean to say that the brother-in-law's daughter is actually a newborn baby (ie less than a couple of months old), and if he's been missing a few weeks...that means he was only actually been involved in the baby for a few weeks? Given this fact (single dude with a newborn baby) it may be that he just decided to do a runner.

It was payak's wife referenced I think.

By the by, why would a grown man phone a baby up two times a day if it was his??

was my baby, yes, my baby is the newborn.

pick up his mail, look for debits on his credit card, debit or checking account or cash withdrawls, these usually have a location listed as well.

if the funds are untouched you really know you have a problem.

the tone of your posts sounds like you are too lazy to really look into this. what country are you in?

nice assumption d#ck head we tried all that, nice thing to assume people who are spending all there time doing all they can are doing nothing or are lazy.

my bad, should have known better then to come here with the story, to the helpful ones thanks so much, mobile phone idea was covered already.

to lazy to look,what are you talking about.

he worked on building sites, thats where they sleep at the end of the days work.

when working in bangkok, they sleep on site,then returns to ubon to visit his daughter and mother when he can.

he was visiting his daughter, left for bangkok and thats it, gone.

so after he left ubon its a mystery, somewhere between ubon and bkk.

Not really here to problem solve, just venting frustration whilst at home, mainly with the thai police.