Can someone adivse me, how you guys manage the relationship. I have been living with my boyfriend quiet long. I really love him. I plan my future for us and don't want him to get poor situation after I die. I will make the will for him. You know he never tell me that he love me. I feel sad and don't know what should I do because I can't live alone without him. I would like to take care him and make him happy. What I should do, so confuse!!!

Hi usa,

From what you've said, I don't know what advice anyone can give you, because we don't know what your relationship is like. You say your boyfriend never says he loves you. While frustrating, that's not necessarily bad, some men don't know how to express their feelings or aren't comfortable doing so. More important is how he treats you. Is he kind & considerate to you? Does he put your feelings before his, at least some of the time? Does he do nice things for you? If you were sick, would he take care of you, or disappear until you were better? How does he act towards you when his friends or family are around?

If he's a kind, good man who just has trouble telling you he loves you, I wouldn't worry too much. While it's nice to be told, it's much better to be shown how much you're loved. Actions speak louder than words, after all. If he ignores you around his friends, never puts you first, only sees you on his terms etc, then maybe you need to rethink your relationship, as in that case, it sounds like you would be putting more into it than him.