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6 hours ago, tweedledee2 said:

My wife and I have been married for 4 years. I trust her completely and she has never given me any reason not too. She doesn't drink alcohol and doesn't socialize much other than with her parents or siblings but sometimes after a good rain she and Gran, our 74-year-old neighbor go out at night and hunt frogs in the rice fields. 

Can't take the country out of a country girl.  Probably a good idea not to take the country girl out of the country as well. 

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Thai culture is the wife stays at home and looks after the house and children.

She is not allowed to speak (socially) with any man without her husband present.

 

The Thais in my Moobaan are horrified that I allow my wife to talk to Thai males in the moobaan park, and the other Thai males all slink off if they see me approaching as they don't want the inevitable fight if I were a Thai.

 

Doesn't bother me, just pointing out Thai culture.

 

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23 hours ago, scorecard said:

Love the first few words "do you let your wife'...."

 

Do you consider your wife your property?

Or your staff who must ask permission?

Do you ask your wife for permission before going out for a beer with the boys?

Yes, Thailand considers my wife to be my property (nobody cares what I think).

Yes, Thailand considers my wife should serve me.

No, she is my property, I am not her property.

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Just now, watcharacters said:

No wonder you are so highly loved and revered..      :stoner:

 

I don't actually believe love  (between a man and a woman) exists outside of Hollywood movies and Mills and Boon novels.

My children love me, my wife serves me.

 

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7 minutes ago, MaeJoMTB said:

 

I don't actually believe love  (between a man and a woman) exists outside of Hollywood movies and Mills and Boon novels.

My children love me, my wife serves me.

 

"....my wife serves me".

 

With that kind of attitude i totally beleive you when you say that love between a man & woman does not exist.

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3 minutes ago, saakura said:

"....my wife serves me".

 

With that kind of attitude i totally beleive you when you say that love between a man & woman does not exist.

It's the attitude of every Thai person.

Amazing so many people can move to a different country with a different culture, and fail to understand anything about the local woman they married.

Don't believe me, ask any Buddhist monk what a wife's duty is, the answer will be 'To serve her husband'.

They won't mention love.

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2 hours ago, MaeJoMTB said:

It's the attitude of every Thai person.

Amazing so many people can move to a different country with a different culture, and fail to understand anything about the local woman they married.

Don't believe me, ask any Buddhist monk what a wife's duty is, the answer will be 'To serve her husband'.

They won't mention love.

Love is not a duty, and cannot be.

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That is the biggest load of BS I have read this year, and I write some good BS myself....

Agree. I wonder if he’s talking about a different culture/country/period in time?
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14 hours ago, MaeJoMTB said:

 

I don't actually believe love  (between a man and a woman) exists outside of Hollywood movies and Mills and Boon novels.

My children love me, my wife serves me.

 

I have met and spoken to some pricks in my life but you sir are an <deleted> cactus. 

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15 hours ago, MaeJoMTB said:

 

I don't actually believe love  (between a man and a woman) exists outside of Hollywood movies and Mills and Boon novels.

My children love me, my wife serves me.

 

If you say you don't believe in love between a man and a woman you might be this. Also you state my children love me, didn't state you love them.

 

How to spot a Sociopath:

  • Pathologic egocentricity and incapacity for love
  • Sex life impersonal, trivial, and poorly integrated
  • Superficial charm and good intelligence
  • Absence of delusions and other signs of irrational thinking
  • Untruthfulness and insincerity
  • Lack of remorse and shame
  • Unresponsiveness in general interpersonal relations
  • Lack of empathy or true feelings
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1 hour ago, Tony125 said:

If you say you don't believe in love between a man and a woman you might be this. Also you state my children love me, didn't state you love them.

 

How to spot a Sociopath:

  • Pathologic egocentricity and incapacity for love
  • Sex life impersonal, trivial, and poorly integrated
  • Superficial charm and good intelligence
  • Absence of delusions and other signs of irrational thinking
  • Untruthfulness and insincerity
  • Lack of remorse and shame
  • Unresponsiveness in general interpersonal relations
  • Lack of empathy or true feelings

Probably accurate, I refuse to bow to the current western gynocracy.

Which is why I live in SEA.

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11 minutes ago, Hummin said:

But, Thai have no shame? Do they?

I could also debate

'incapacity for love', as so few women are worthy of a man's love.

'Untruthfulness and insincerity', I've learnt to lie like a Thai, took me a while but I've got there.

'Sex life impersonal', if you're married more like nonexistent (with your wife).

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I could also debate
'incapacity for love', as so few women are worthy of a man's love.
'Untruthfulness and insincerity', I've learnt to lie like a Thai, took me a while but I've got there.
'Sex life impersonal', if you're married more like nonexistent (with your wife).

Just wondering, what country do you originate from, please????


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2 minutes ago, DILLIGAD said:


Just wondering, what country do you originate from, please????


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+ 1 and he seems to live in the Philippines. 

 

  These words alone are scary as shit.

 

  I could also debate
'incapacity for love', as so few women are worthy of a man's love.

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2 minutes ago, DILLIGAD said:


Just wondering, what country do you originate from, please????


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The list for a sociapath could fit many of those who is looking for a falang husband. 

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