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Issues with my thai family

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I take your point. 
 
In my shoes its hard for me to not overthink the situation when
- 5 yrs ago after the first wedding day incident my wife didn't support me or fix the problem
- 4 yrs ago after picking up the baby at the hospital to take home the next time he did it. Nothing was done about the problem. We tried talking to him but he will do whatever he wants to antagonise me. 
- 3 yrs ago before songkran he now touches me on my butt. Nothing is done. Wife is not supporting me
- 2 yrs ago in his home town repeat of the above
- 1 more incident again somewhere else and recently 1 week ago. 
 
Its really affected my relationship with my wife with whom I suspect is not really that loyal to me. The next time it happens I will start involving her parents friends and work colleagues, and maybe violence. 
 
Until that time happens I will try not to 'over-think' things...


The guy touches you ONCE A YEAR? I got the impression it was an ongoing problem.

Seriously, it sounds to me like you may just want to abandon your wife and child and you’re looking for a reason to blame her.

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    You want this rubbish in your life....tell your wife it either stops or you walk,simple really.....

  • From what you say, he is inappropriate with everyone, not just you,  and may be a bit mentally unstable.   I think you should stop taking this so personally, it is not specific to you alone.

  • resorting to social media is a very adult course of action indeed.  

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because it makes the family lose face. Maybe then the father will come down hard on this guy and tell him to stop doing this
I think you are mistaken in believing that your wife or her father can "solve" this if they want to.

Much more likely they are unable to influence his behavior and learned that long ago so gave up trying.

Your wife is not simply choosing to not solve this out of disloyalty to yoy. There is nothing she can do...and she expects you to ubderstand that.

Also likely that his mental and behavioral problems are a source of pain and sadness for the family. You are within your rigjts to avoid contact with him as much as possible but there is no need to add to their burden.

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I think you are mistaken in believing that your wife or her father can "solve" this if they want to.

Much more likely they are unable to influence his behavior and learned that long ago so gave up trying.

Your wife is not simply choosing to not solve this out of disloyalty to yoy. There is nothing she can do...and she expects you to ubderstand that.

Also likely that his mental and behavioral problems are a source of pain and sadness for the family. You are within your rigjts to avoid contact with him as much as possible but there is no need to add to their burden.

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Exactly
  • 2 months later...

Let him bang you one time and maybe he will leave you alone!???

28 minutes ago, KonKorat said:

Let him bang you one time and maybe he will leave you alone!???

Time honored solution, well said, sir.

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