Austhaied Posted May 11, 2007 Share Posted May 11, 2007 Newsflash. the OP has signed off and posted his thanks in another thread. You are now all wrestling with a theoretical dilemma, may the force be with you. And also with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Skipper Posted May 11, 2007 Share Posted May 11, 2007 Who was supervising this 14 year old with a loaned motorbike? Sounds like he just trashed it. The kid most definitly should have taken better care of it or been restricted from using it. Nobody cares? What are the odds he beat the crap out of it...joked around with his buddies.... saying that some farang schmuck would just pay to have it fixed. This is an excellent opportunity to teach a 14 year old some responsibility and respect for others property. All part of growing up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OlRedEyes Posted May 11, 2007 Share Posted May 11, 2007 Don't bother paying and lecturing her on the value of money and how you'll pay just this once because all she'll hear is blah blah blah blah blah blah blah here's the 10,000 blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. That's as close to the core as one can get. Lecturing, explaining, pleading, begging, demanding, in fact anything other than the 'here's the 10,000' will be just background noise. You could even say, I'm getting a mia noi and here's the 10000, the first bit will be ignored, betcha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OlRedEyes Posted May 11, 2007 Share Posted May 11, 2007 QUOTE by Neeranam: Today, 2007-05-11 20:12:22Thais respect strength not weakness Does anyone respect weakness?? The meek shall inherit the earth (if nobody harder has any objections). Good luck to them, is what I say. We've pretty much used it up already :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sierra01 Posted May 11, 2007 Share Posted May 11, 2007 Some of the damage could have been through an accident, some sounds more like its not mine so why should I care. IF you're prepared to help then pay half? IF you're prepared (this time) to pay all then make sure they both know that anymore damage is up to him and his Mum, and stick to it. Failing that although he's of legal age to ride a bike in LOS, I think it is 14 but correct me if I'm wrong, he's obviously too immature for that much responsibility so get him a push bike. Can anyone else think of anymore, sensible, ways to handle the situation? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
qwertz Posted May 11, 2007 Share Posted May 11, 2007 Here's a thought. This would never have happened if the OP had stayed in Brighton and married the geriatric widow of a cigarette and beer smuggling magnate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lucifer Posted May 11, 2007 Share Posted May 11, 2007 Get a quote for the repairs and agree to pay HALF. But only when the g/f or son can come up with her/his share of the costs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
torito Posted May 11, 2007 Share Posted May 11, 2007 There should be a large warning at the airport. "If a Thai woman has a son, never get romantically involved with her." There are always problems. Why do you think there are so many single women with sons? What a judicious advise and dazzling conclussion... If you get involved, just do not do it romantically...... they do not deserve a romance, they are just problems..... And of course, so many singles woman with sons, reason= there are always problems with them.... I can not understand why I did not see this correlation before.......... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
qwertz Posted May 11, 2007 Share Posted May 11, 2007 There should be a large warning at the airport. "If a Thai woman has a son, never get romantically involved with her." There are always problems. Why do you think there are so many single women with sons? What a judicious advise and dazzling conclussion... If you get involved, just do not do it romantically...... they do not deserve a romance, they are just problems..... And of course, so many singles woman with sons, reason= there are always problems with them.... I can not understand why I did not see this correlation before.......... Learned this lesson long before I hit Thailand, torito. What was this thread about in the first place? Oh yes, Thai boys are often spoiled brats unless they have a farang dad to selflessly teach them the meaning of life. In the OP's place I would offer the boy all the fatherly advice he so badly needs. And kick ass if he doesn't pay heed! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie Posted May 11, 2007 Share Posted May 11, 2007 you are absolutely right sir.but you will end up paying one way or another, just get it over and pay now. Very good advice as it's true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loz Posted May 11, 2007 Share Posted May 11, 2007 so what did you decide, you lucky dog? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bjorn Posted May 11, 2007 Share Posted May 11, 2007 Whatever you do, don't pay!!! Firstly, the boy screw it up himself and secondly, if you pay fo the damage to the bike then you will end up with loads of similar bills in the future!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jopham Posted May 12, 2007 Share Posted May 12, 2007 My live-in GF has a Son back in the Village. He is 14yrs old. Three months ago she loaned him her New Meo so that he could get to school on time.When she got it back last week is was in a he-ll of a state ie Panels Missing. Rear Brake not working. Kick starter missing. Mirrors missing. Damaged forks. Engine Valve burned out etc etc. Now she wants me to pay for the repairs! I say no-way. Am I right? You better have a good look at your girlfriend bike if it is hers or someone elses with her number plate on it. Used to be an insurance trick or are they not that smart in Thailand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sukanyacondo Posted May 12, 2007 Share Posted May 12, 2007 Make the lazy bugger walk and tell him hes useless in front of a large crowd of his mates and that your'e not so dumb to pay for the repairs until he learns some respect. He'll be walking for quite some time methinks? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luckydog Posted May 12, 2007 Author Share Posted May 12, 2007 He,he - now THAT was funny! A point in my book dumspero! Cheers!Agreed, don't pay.If she puts up a fuss about it, throw a fit, cry, grab a knife and threaten to slash your wrists. That will put her off balance. (but it doesn't work so well the second time.) Too Late Mate. She already did all that! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luckydog Posted May 12, 2007 Author Share Posted May 12, 2007 There should be a large warning at the airport. "If a Thai woman has a son, never get romantically involved with her." There are always problems. Why do you think there are so many single women....... They've ALL got Bluddy kids.......so does that mean we should stay single and lonely until we peg out? I came here to avoid that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luckydog Posted May 12, 2007 Author Share Posted May 12, 2007 Here's a thought. This would never have happened if the OP had stayed in Brighton and married the geriatric widow of a cigarette and beer smuggling magnate. Do you know Qwerty that is exactly what I was thinking? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blizzard Posted May 12, 2007 Share Posted May 12, 2007 a lot dont have kids. but these ar e more expensive i hear. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
torito Posted May 12, 2007 Share Posted May 12, 2007 (edited) It is life I guess...for some things are easy, for others hard...and sometimes those who get it easy, easy forget it, and those who got it harder, wants everybody to pay for it.... I think that if this young 14 years old boy gets a logging in this forum, he will name it unluckydog Just a thought. Edited May 12, 2007 by torito Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luckydog Posted May 12, 2007 Author Share Posted May 12, 2007 so what did you decide, you lucky dog? NEWSFLASH! I refused to pay. She yelled at me for about an hour. I told her the door was open. She left. But she came back later......on the bike that she had paid for.....I feigned sleep. She cuddled up........Muttered "Why can't I leave you". Why is it that you can do 99 GOOD things for these Girls. But do ONE thing that is not so good, and they make a great big hysterical fuss? Thanks again for the great answers, Lads. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blizzard Posted May 12, 2007 Share Posted May 12, 2007 good job. but see you didnt tell us how much of a pushover youve been. it would have changed many of our replies. if you do their way 99 times and your way one time of course she wasnt going to leave you. now go help the boy..............lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
torito Posted May 12, 2007 Share Posted May 12, 2007 ... now go help the boy..............lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
highdiver Posted May 12, 2007 Share Posted May 12, 2007 so what did you decide, you lucky dog? NEWSFLASH! I refused to pay. She yelled at me for about an hour. I told her the door was open. She left. But she came back later......on the bike that she had paid for.....I feigned sleep. She cuddled up........Muttered "Why can't I leave you". Why is it that you can do 99 GOOD things for these Girls. But do ONE thing that is not so good, and they make a great big hysterical fuss? Thanks again for the great answers, Lads. LD in thailand a GF or a wife is the same thing. if you have been living together for a long time she will anticipate that you will be part of the family and as you are better funded then support her and her son. if she came back it does indicte that she likes you maybe even love you. but she will continue to ask you to pay for things as she precives that yhis is your role. I think that you need to sit down wth her and sort things out about fianaces. she may not like this but you will set out ground rules fro the future. at any case after a good fight there is allways a great make up sex.. so have a ball Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
qwertz Posted May 12, 2007 Share Posted May 12, 2007 a lot dont have kids. but these ar e more expensive i hear. Who? The women or the kids? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SiamSquare123 Posted May 12, 2007 Share Posted May 12, 2007 if you dont pay, wont she just find the money somewhere else? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maigo6 Posted May 12, 2007 Share Posted May 12, 2007 Why do I get the idea that Luckydog is a Troll ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moonoi Posted May 12, 2007 Share Posted May 12, 2007 Why do I get the idea that Luckydog is a Troll ? Coz it takes one to know one? :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blizzard Posted May 12, 2007 Share Posted May 12, 2007 one thing i learned about forums, the op is never a troll. the trolss are the ones who respond with good ideas which in many cases infer the op is a clown kind of person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lickey Posted May 12, 2007 Share Posted May 12, 2007 Panels missing, kickstart missing, mirrors missing,,, perhaps the little sod sold them? You done the right thing Luckydog!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elsie Posted May 12, 2007 Share Posted May 12, 2007 Just to get some of you lot back to reality, there are a good number of genuine single Thai women without kids in the country. You'll notice them if you're prepared to take time to look around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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