Getting Through The Bs

[polymaj]

My thai wife and I are in the process of adopting a Thai Child. Along with the myriad of snafus along the way (figure over a year to even get close to the end) I was handed back my marriage certificate from the states because my name is not the same a on my passport. James Clifford Prospero (passport) and James Prospero on the marriage certificate. Thai authorities say the name has to be exactly same. Tried a statement, not accepted. Thought of going to local marriage office but then Thais would say we had not met requirement of being married at least three years for adoption. Any ideas out there on how to fix this problem?