Funny how it doesn't take long for the real to appear, especially when you no longer interact. Give them enough rope......... I appreciate that and no, no one has caused me any pain here as I've always been honest about my life and have nothing to feel ashamed about, besides choosing the wrong partners and seeing my children's pain when they've figured their mothers out. Picking up the pieces is what I do, as they've always been the most important things in my life. I actually disliked it myself, interacting with a few here in long arguments, trying to prove my truths to some who couldn't care less about that truth, pissing a few here off by arguing too long with them, proving them wrong but having that deflected and turned around over and over like a broken record. Apologies again to the decent members here who understand what I tried to do.