You met a Thai lady on one of the popular dating sites, now what...

[Harrisfan]

12 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

I know, they are kidding themselves, but are not kidding anyone else.

Only 5 to 10% of women are hookers.

[GammaGlobulin]

If only I COULD meet one on a dating site, then....

I would.

 

But, since I know I can't, then I won't even try.

 

Far better to be lonely, and happy.

Rather than hooked up and desperately sad.

 

 

[Prubangboy]

It's like the seatbelt rule: Why don't people buckle up in a taxi, like they would in a regular car?

 

Because they irrationally feel safer in a taxi. And they're on vacation.

 

Why do men engage with Thai women thinking they are somehow more altruistic and and untouched compared to the west?

 

It's like the seatbelt rule. It's not rational. It feels easy (like being driven in a cab does), but it's no easier than back home.

 

If I fly to meet a woman in a different state, how often is that going to work out? Seldom. Same here.

 

Sparktrader:

 

I've asked in the past for you to tell us your magic chat formula at the mall. You always run sputtering away. 

 

What DO you say to women that hypnotizes them at the Aunt Anne Pretzel stand so thoroughly? 

 

Do you really take regular vacations here, meet women at the mall who will travel around the country with you and give you sex, every single time, as you claim?

 

What the ramp up time from Mall-pestering to nudity?

 

 

[Chris Daley]

You are officially an ATM.

[Hummin]

On 4/29/2025 at 6:53 PM, Harrisfan said:

Only 5 to 10% of women are hookers.

For those who use/abuse hookers, every lady is an hooker no matter what. 

 

 

[spidermike007]

The biggest variable when you meet someone online, is whether or not you will like them once you see them. Do you find them attractive? Do they find you appealing? Is there any chemistry? Is she emotionally developed, or a stunted, emotional retard? There is no shortage of women that fit that category here. Would you want to be with her any longer than an hour, once you meet her? If not, what do you do once you have made this rather grand and rather silly commitment of your time?

 

I guess it comes down to self esteem. When I was doing online dating, I always limited the first encounter to 15-30 minutes, over a cup of coffee. And 90% of the time I was very glad I had followed that protocol. I also limited the number of contacts prior to that cup of coffee to three. I do not have any interest in having pen pals. And Thai women love to chat, and text, and you end up wasting alot of hours on someone you have never met, and more than likely are not going to get with once you do meet her, for a couple of dozen reasons. The numbers are not on your side, so why invest the time, once you have made the contact? What would Bond do?

 

Always remember one very important fact. You are a man. You have as much control as you are able to establish. You set the agenda. Time is always your ally. Not hers. She is almost always going to be in a hurry to make things happen. And lastly, if she is willing to come and stay with a guy she has never met before, she has more than likely been working as a bar girl, in a special massage parlor, or as an escort or freelancer. Very few real "civilians" would move that fast, nor be that forward. Buyer beware. And be good to yourself. Be a man. Leave behind the Western ways of emasculation.