I've been reading up a lot on "kreng jai" but my experience and advice I got from Thais who have opened up on this subject is that "kreng jai" cannot be taught. If you're a good person by nature then kreng jai is already part of you and your life. If you're a bad person, scammer or selfish individual, then kreng jai is not for you but it does open up so many scamming opportunities. In the West we say "to take advantage of someone", and Thailand has taken this to extremes. My experience is that Thailand is full of lazy, greedy, scammers at all levels that take advantage of someone. The kreng jai disciples that walk around with a big golden glow and a bubble around their heads will excuse the bad behaviour because even a scammer must make a living...so, the bad behaviour is ignored and it perpetuates. The gullible disciples with bubbles hope that the scammer will eventually have insight. Your positive thoughts will rub off on the scammers...and everyone will be happy. As a rational thinking person, I cannot sit around and let scammers take advantage of me or my wife. If I am no longer kreng jai because I pointed out a scam or bad behaviour, so be it.
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