Dating 22-Year-Old Thai Bubble Tea Girl - She Just Asked for 30K/Month – Am I Being Played?

[NanLaew]

On 5/22/2025 at 11:52 PM, pub2022 said:

If you do not care about the money and feel very happy with her then why not?

Just be prepared it is going to be a relationship based on giving money to her. If you turn off the tap it's  probably over.

Btw you did not mention the age gap? That's important!

By the same token, when he gets fed up of her nonsense (and he will), all he needs to do is stop the stipend and she'll vanish, along with all those sweet memories.

 

Unless of course he's cultivated a bunny boiler, then it's change locks, phone number, sell the car and move to Idaho time.

[NanLaew]

5 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

I'm not paying her a "salary". 

 

Rather, when a man decides that a woman is his, then he feels repsonsible for her. And he takes care of her. Also financially if that is required.

 

So if she says she needs 2000 or 3000 Baht of course I would take care of her.

 

If you say you do not pay your girl 1 Baht, it tells me you do not feel responsible for her.

 

Now, the issue remains, that you claim you do not pay 1 Baht, but they stay because of your "character". So what is it about your character that makes them stay? When you don't pay 1 Baht?

 

Maybe his "character" is around ten inches and he can breath through his ears?

[grumpyoldman]

The troll worked, six pages !

[Cameroni]

4 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

 

Maybe his "character" is around ten inches and he can breath through his ears?

 

Let's suppose that were so, sex gets old very quickly. If you eat beef every day, why would you stay loyal to beef all your life?

 

But he's claiming the women, whom he pays not one Baht, stay with him because of his character.

 

They don't care about money, lifestyle or social standing...his character is all it takes...hmmmmmm

 

Sounds prettayyy, prettaayyy, prettayyyy unlikely....

[NanLaew]

On 5/23/2025 at 2:40 AM, Smokin Joe said:

"...makes me feel 20 years younger."

 

Her Thai boyfriend feels 20 years younger also. Because he is.

 

Oh, that's good. That's very good.

[Celsius]

24 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Let's suppose that were so, sex gets old very quickly. If you eat beef every day, why would you stay loyal to beef all your life?

 

But he's claiming the women, whom he pays not one Baht, stay with him because of his character.

 

They don't care about money, lifestyle or social standing...his character is all it takes...hmmmmmm

 

Sounds prettayyy, prettaayyy, prettayyyy unlikely....

 

Of course they care about social standing. They are perfectly capable of making their own money. 

 

This is why when farang hooks up with a prostitute they hand over a laptop so she looks busy at chaeng watthana immigration. Got forbid someone mistakes her for a woman of low morals.

 

Even you liked to brag about your girl making 30k working at 7/11 which of course was a total lie 🤣 

 

 

[Cameroni]

26 minutes ago, Celsius said:

Even you liked to brag about your girl making 30k working at 7/11 which of course was a total lie

 

I wasn't bragging, she told me this. She bought her own condo. I had no reason to doubt her. 

 

27 minutes ago, Celsius said:

Of course they care about social standing. They are perfectly capable of making their own money. 

 

Well of course they do, and they care about a better lifestyle. Even the 711 girl who owned her own condo, you can bet your bottom dollar she wanted a man who would help her get a better condo.

 

In fact she told me, if I come to move to CM with you then you have to pay me X so I can pay my condo. She was totally up front about this. So you say they can earn their own living, yes they can, but they want a man who helps them pay the bills, it's just the way it is. Because they can get away with that. If we could get women to pay our bills, we'd probably do it too.

 

Ultimately I have no problem with hypergamy, a woman selecting for a more competent or richer male. This is how society progresses. Is it harsh on us men sometimes, sure, but this is how society progressed.

[Lemsta69]

1 hour ago, grumpyoldman said:

The troll worked, six pages !

 

Six pages of affluent 🤣

[Celsius]

31 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I wasn't bragging, she told me this. She bought her own condo. I had no reason to doubt her. 

 

 

Well of course they do, and they care about a better lifestyle. Even the 711 girl who owned her own condo, you can bet your bottom dollar she wanted a man who would help her get a better condo.

 

In fact she told me, if I come to move to CM with you then you have to pay me X so I can pay my condo. She was totally up front about this. So you say they can earn their own living, yes they can, but they want a man who helps them pay the bills, it's just the way it is. Because they can get away with that. If we could get women to pay our bills, we'd probably do it too.

 

Ultimately I have no problem with hypergamy, a woman selecting for a more competent or richer male. This is how society progresses. Is it harsh on us men sometimes, sure, but this is how society progressed.

 

She didn't own her own condo. The bank did and was looking for a guy love her true to pay for it.

[Cameroni]

14 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

She didn't own her own condo. The bank did and was looking for a guy love her true to pay for it.

 

No, from a legal perspective she owned the condo. The bank just had a security interest in it. 

 

Very normal.

 

I am actually impressed how a 711 girl can own a condo. No idea how she could do that, even if she earned 30000.

[Celsius]

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

No, from a legal perspective she owned the condo. The bank just had a security interest in it. 

 

Very normal.

 

I am actually impressed how a 711 girl can own a condo. No idea how she could do that, even if she earned 30000.

 

Im impressed that you believe every word these women say.

 

Gotta go. Canada  is expensive and have to kick wife out to get some work.

[NanLaew]

7 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

No, from a legal perspective she owned the condo. The bank just had a security interest in it. 

 

Very normal.

 

I am actually impressed how a 711 girl can own a condo. No idea how she could do that, even if she earned 30000.

The same way as she probably "owns" a car from a legal perspective and the finance company just has a "security" interest.

 

Just see how far this legal ownership gets her when she misses a couple of mortgage or car note payments. This is about the time they charmingly hit up a witness, love-struck foreigner, claiming inordinately high wages for the job they do.

 

Those from a lower-order demographic are pretty much stuck with the sick buffalo routine.

[1FinickyOne]

12 hours ago, ThreeCardMonte said:

I suppose.  99% don’t turn me on.

 

You really think they’re attracted re YOU?

 

The GG is her meal ticket, courtesy of you.

 

If I have a 3some , regular GG please.

you make one stupid assumption after the next - - Why would a tomboy be attracted to me? I amm a guy..

GG? What is that? Good girl? 

[Cameroni]

9 hours ago, Celsius said:

Im impressed that you believe every word these women say.

 

She did own the condo, I checked her FB page and translated her proud Thai boasts about how she'd just bought a condo.

 

Of course I had some doubt about her saying she earned 30000 at 711, but she was in management training a few days in, so I had to give her the benefit of the doubt. She worked in the heart of Bangkok. I don't know what managers at 711 make, perhaps they earn 30000 who knows. But did I have doubts, of course, after all she was telling me outright before we met that if she moved to CM she'd need me to pay 10K for her condo every month, it clearly made sense for her negotiation to inflate her loss of earnings. It didn't matter either way, as I would never have paid more than 10K whatever she said.

 

In any event, after I made her fall in love over text, after she came to my hotel suite in Bangkok and we banged like crazed cave people for 8 hours, she went through my papers on the table and saw my mini bar deposit receipt dated one day prior. So she immediately deduced correctly that I'd arrived earlier than I told her to bang another chick, so her demeanour completely changed and she became a hateful, nasty Ex, because she caught me in a lie, most likely because I met another girl. She didn't even have proof for it. She just assumed it. Correctly of course. So this beautiful experience came to a sad premature end. Moral of the story, always hide the mini bar deposit receipt. They will go through your papers.

 

 

[Cameroni]

2 hours ago, NanLaew said:

Just see how far this legal ownership gets her when she misses a couple of mortgage or car note payments. This is about the time they charmingly hit up a witness, love-struck foreigner, claiming inordinately high wages for the job they do.

 

Those from a lower-order demographic are pretty much stuck with the sick buffalo routine.

 

She did not ask for 30000, she only asked for 10000 for the condo, which would have been reasonable. Whether she earned 30K or 10K 

 

I doubt she would have missed a payment, she had her life very together, one of these highly organized driven people. I can believe she was a manager despite her young  age.

 

I am sure no matter what happens she will keep that condo. But yes, I do see her every day when I search on Thai Friendly, together with other girls I already banged, on Thaifriendly, so she is still looking for a well off foreigner.She actually specified before we met that I had to earn a certain amount. She basically made sure that I could pay 10000 for her condo. She actually said if I can't pay it then I have money problems, and that's a great help, asking for this to gauge if a guy has money problems. The notion that dirty farang could lie about how much they earn never entered her mind, stangely.

[ThreeCardMonte]

2 hours ago, 1FinickyOne said:

you make one stupid assumption after the next - - Why would a tomboy be attracted to me? I amm a guy..

GG? What is that? Good girl? 

You mentioned a 3 some with a Tom and GG..

 

Tom has no interest in you.  GG is generic girl.  Not a Tom or LB. 
 

Do you need the meaning of LB also?

 

Good grief.

[NanLaew]

54 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

... The notion that dirty farang could lie about how much they earn never entered her mind, stangely.

 

Very common, I believe. Very much live for the now.

 

Regardless of social strata, if you say to a local, "You can have 100 baht today, but if you wait till tomorrow, you can have 1000 baht," they will take the 100 baht today.

 

...and ask you for the 1000 baht tomorrow.

[NanLaew]

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

...Moral of the story, always hide the mini bar deposit receipt. They will go through your papers.

 

Au contraire, mon vieux. You do realize that by leaving that receipt lying about for her to discover, you handily avoided being suckered by a (beautiful and horny) bunny boiler.

[Cameroni]

Just now, NanLaew said:

 

Au contraire, mon vieux. You do realize that by leaving that receipt lying about for her to discover, you handily avoided being suckered by a (beautiful and horny) bunny boiler.

 

Well, her going through my papers is a bad look, I grant you that. And after our little spat she became nasty as can be. So, yes, maybe it was a lucky escape. You could have a point.

 

How sweet and loving she was before that though. Great kisser too. And very willing in bed. But such is life, you can't keep it all.

[1FinickyOne]

37 minutes ago, ThreeCardMonte said:

You mentioned a 3 some with a Tom and GG..

 

Tom has no interest in you.  GG is generic girl.  Not a Tom or LB. 
 

Do you need the meaning of LB also?

 

Good grief.

good grief indeed... I make a light hearted joking comment - - I have friends who are Toms - I know what they are interested in - - though I never did hear the very derogatory term generic girl - how cold you are...