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Posted
29 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I don't believe men can have 'normal' lives anywhere in the world.

The nuclear family is sadly, dead and buried .........

Life's all become about pleasing women, which as most of have learned, isn't possible and the attempt normally fails with the guy losing his home and pension.

 

point 1...yes    point 2 .... yes   point 3 ....pretty much for most guys , though if they have learned they still seem to follow the same pattern.   Maybe they should go down a notch on the "young and beautiful"  and search for the simple, good heart, and not lazy if looking for a live-in.    Depending on the man's attributes ( not ONLY money) , determines how good their choice will age . 

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Posted
10 minutes ago, rumak said:

what part of the world you come from ? (is English your first language) ?

 

note: my posts (like asking about your wife) are good-natured ribbing ( a light form of sarcasm) .    I still try for humor when posting,  though it is a lost art and certainly not favored amongst the troll and fight contingent in AN.  

Norglish is not my first language, and being word blind doesn't help much 😉

 

Hard to know sometimes, even  miss out on sarcasm

 

There is a good mix here of people with everything that comes with culture and background.

 

When it comes to food, so is that an interest me and wife sharing. She make food, I eat

 

 

Posted
13 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

You should be jailed for ruining a burger with ketchup.

Okay, home made Chilli sauce better? With tomatoes from garden? 

 

This actually Heinz 

Posted
10 minutes ago, rumak said:

 

point 1...yes    point 2 .... yes   point 3 ....pretty much for most guys , though if they have learned they still seem to follow the same pattern.   Maybe they should go down a notch on the "young and beautiful"  and search for the simple, good heart, and not lazy if looking for a live-in.    Depending on the man's attributes ( not ONLY money) , determines how good their choice will age . 

I went for young and beautiful (at least a 9) .............. 17 years later she's not so young and beautiful, but I still love her.

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Posted
2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I went for young and beautiful (at least a 9) .............. 17 years later she's not so young and beautiful, but I still love her.

Good to hear, there is hope

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Posted
12 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

So if it worked out for you, why continually make so many bleak statements about the state of relationships?

To instill doubt into the minds of younger generations reading the forum? 

 

I pay for my relationship.

And I see nothing wrong with paying for what I want.

That's one of the things I like about Thailand, I can buy love.

(Or at least something that I can pretend is love)

 

Once you understand most love is purchased, you can live a very happy life.

And that knowledge stops you being silly with your assets!

Posted
3 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I went for young and beautiful (at least a 9) .............. 17 years later she's not so young and beautiful, but I still love her.

 

wow.  quite a proclamation ( given your years of eclectic comments re females and your "relationships" . )    Does she love you ?   

I had my share of young and beautiful ....  and as I have posted a few times,  I chose to "retire"  when a keeper finally emerged from the pack .     

Posted
7 minutes ago, rumak said:

wow.  quite a proclamation ( given your years of eclectic comments re females and your "relationships" . )    Does she love you ?   

I had my share of young and beautiful ....  and as I have posted a few times,  I chose to "retire"  when a keeper finally emerged from the pack .     

Is her loving me important?

Nope, my life is about me and what I want.

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Once you understand most love is purchased, you can live a very happy life.

And that knowledge stops you being silly with your assets!

 

No, that's just your blinkered view of relationships. 

 

Posted
44 minutes ago, pchansmorn said:

I’m glad you got back safe. I haven’t been back to the US since 2019 the beginning of Covid. I would be afraid to return now with my Thai wife even though she is a US citizen.  In 2019 I noticed a big change in people’s attitude in California, people were mean and nasty. Our friends and family are used to that kind of behavior so it’s the Norm for them.

I tend to agree the average stranger in California is cold, distant, stressed, disenchanted, bitter, disenfranchised, and just downright unpleasant. But we're fortunate enough to be able to surround ourselves with really lovely people while we're there. 

 

It's still a fun place if you know good people and you have a reason to be there. 

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Posted
14 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Is her loving me important?

Nope, my life is about me and what I want.

 

Ok ...... personally I always felt much better when i was convinced a friend, or a worker,  or ultimately a live in companion was interested in me for more than just what they could get out of it .   

 

Needless to say......... one in a million type odds 

 

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9 minutes ago, rumak said:

Ok ...... personally I always felt much better when i was convinced a friend, or a worker,  or ultimately a live in companion was interested in me for more than what they could get out of it .    

 

You must be more interesting than me, I don't have enough imagination to be able to convince myself anyone much 20 years younger would want me for who I am.

Posted
Just now, BritManToo said:

You must be more interesting than me, I don't have enough imagination to be able to convince myself anyone would want me for who I am.

 

Just now, BritManToo said:

You must be more interesting than me, I don't have enough imagination to be able to convince myself anyone would want me for who I am.

 

yeah... i think you're right on that one 😅

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Needless to say......... one in a million type odds 

 

No. It's up to you to be likeable, lovable even. Some cannot be bothered with all that. They either feel entitled or simply pay.

Posted
11 minutes ago, JakeC said:

 

No. It's up to you to be likeable, lovable even. Some cannot be bothered with all that. They either feel entitled or simply pay.

From your posts here i dont see how even your mother can like you

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Posted
30 minutes ago, JakeC said:

 

No. It's up to you to be likeable, lovable even. Some cannot be bothered with all that. They either feel entitled or simply pay.

 

I am likeable and lovable !!   Its the rest of humanity that's screwed up .  5555555

 

 

Posted
3 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I went for young and beautiful (at least a 9) .............. 17 years later she's not so young and beautiful, but I still love her.

I also went for looks, but she turned out to be caring, intelligent and faithful ... and after 15 years she's still a good '10' in my eyes.

 

Definitely my favourite part of Thailand.

 

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Posted
6 hours ago, SLOWHAND225 said:


So you've never been to San Francisco. lol. or any liberal city in America

 

For the thousandth time, you've misconstrued my comment and I CBF explaining the meaning behind it.

Posted
3 minutes ago, Kinnock said:

I also went for looks, but she turned out to be caring, intelligent and faithful ... and after 15 years she's still a good '10' in my eyes.

 

Definitely my favourite part of Thailand.

 

Just wondering, how many girls did you find before her?

Posted
16 minutes ago, Kinnock said:

I also went for looks, but she turned out to be caring, intelligent and faithful ... and after 15 years she's still a good '10' in my eyes.

 

Definitely my favourite part of Thailand.

 

 

congrats.   always interesting to know someone in the 5% bracket .

 

we're all dying to see the photos !  swimsuit will do .   😎

 

No !!!  not you !

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Posted
41 minutes ago, hotsun said:

Just wondering, how many girls did you find before her?

I wasn't actively looking for a 'forever' partner, but was having casual relationships with several girls who were more like friends.  I think she found me .... she saw me and decided I was the one. She later said I treated her like a sex object for the first year, but she was going to look after me so well I'd never let her go.

Posted
3 minutes ago, Kinnock said:

I wasn't actively looking for a 'forever' partner, but was having casual relationships with several girls who were more like friends.  I think she found me .... she saw me and decided I was the one. She later said I treated her like a sex object for the first year, but she was going to look after me so well I'd never let her go.

Do either of you have any interest in having kids?

Posted
1 hour ago, Lemsta69 said:

 

For the thousandth time, you've misconstrued my comment and I CBF explaining the meaning behind it.


If you explained it right the first time, you'd have no problem now would you ? lol

Posted
29 minutes ago, hotsun said:

Do either of you have any interest in having kids?

With hindsight I should have knocked her up when we first met .... but she's over 40 now, so we think it's probably too late.

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Posted
1 minute ago, Kinnock said:

With hindsight I should have knocked her up when we first met .... but she's over 40 now, so we think it's probably too late.

Thats what i did. Opposite experiences you and me. Love my kids though

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11 minutes ago, hotsun said:

Thats what i did. Opposite experiences you and me. Love my kids though

Interesting point of view .... and mine did say that if we'd had kids, she'd probably love them more than me.

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