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Gambling addiction centres

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My ex has developed a true daily addiction for online games, which has extended to getting large sums of money from loan sharks to fulfill her continued losses.

 

We are still friends and fortunately I'd kept all her gold and savings safe in fear of this problem continuing. It was a major reason why we broke up. Fortunately that covered her recent extortionate losses, but it's now all gone. She now has nothing. But can't stop. Despite losing large sums every day, she has the classic belief that she will win it back.

 

I tried to attend a likely redundant Gamblers Annonymous meeting in Jomtien with no luck. I'm assuming that was in in the dim and distant past. Gamblers Annonymous HQ has been of no help.

 

Does anyone know of such meetings anywhere?

 

Went to Mind Clinic. But her problems were beyond anything they could assist with. The government hospital who I hoped would admit her, simply gave her pills. I seriously doubt they will help and she will not reliably take them.

 

As this is forcing me to seek alternative accommodation, so hopefully thugs who go after her can't find me. Despite speaking with a lawyer who says I have no legal tie-up or in theory worry, but I just want to do what I can to be safe.

 

If I could find a private addition centre, I would pay for that, but all the decent ones I see specialise in drug addition.

 

They're a good family, but with no money. I don't want them to suffer from mafia actions, but most of all I want to be safe.

 

If anyone can genuinely help with comments or direct messages. I'd be very grateful.

 

Thanks for reading this 🙏

 

BTW Based in Pattaya, but will consider other locations for help. US and UK are a non-option coz of visas.

26 minutes ago, w94005m said:

My ex has developed a true daily addiction for online games, which has extended to getting large sums of money from loan sharks to fulfill her continued losses.

 

We are still friends and fortunately I'd kept all her gold and savings safe in fear of this problem continuing. It was a major reason why we broke up. Fortunately that covered her recent extortionate losses, but it's now all gone. She now has nothing. But can't stop. Despite losing large sums every day, she has the classic belief that she will win it back.

 

I tried to attend a likely redundant Gamblers Annonymous meeting in Jomtien with no luck. I'm assuming that was in in the dim and distant past. Gamblers Annonymous HQ has been of no help.

 

Does anyone know of such meetings anywhere?

 

Went to Mind Clinic. But her problems were beyond anything they could assist with. The government hospital who I hoped would admit her, simply gave her pills. I seriously doubt they will help and she will not reliably take them.

 

As this is forcing me to seek alternative accommodation, so hopefully thugs who go after her can't find me. Despite speaking with a lawyer who says I have no legal tie-up or in theory worry, but I just want to do what I can to be safe.

 

If I could find a private addition centre, I would pay for that, but all the decent ones I see specialise in drug addition.

 

They're a good family, but with no money. I don't want them to suffer from mafia actions, but most of all I want to be safe.

 

If anyone can genuinely help with comments or direct messages. I'd be very grateful.

 

Thanks for reading this 🙏

 

BTW Based in Pattaya, but will consider other locations for help. US and UK are a non-option coz of visas.

As far as I know there are some help services in Thailand.

Try here:

The Cabin Chiangmai

The Dawn Rehab

The Diamond Rehab Thailand

Holina Rehab

The Hills Rehab Thailand

The Orchid Recovery

Probably some more. You mentioned some already.

Phone

1323

1300

02 113 6789 english

Important: Avoid triggers

No access to money

Other emotional alternatives

Talking about this addiction

Sedative medication

 

 

 

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34 minutes ago, newbee2022 said:

As far as I know there are some help services in Thailand.

Try here:

The Cabin Chiangmai

The Dawn Rehab

The Diamond Rehab Thailand

Holina Rehab

The Hills Rehab Thailand

The Orchid Recovery

Probably some more. You mentioned some already.

Phone

1323

1300

02 113 6789 english

Important: Avoid triggers

No access to money

Other emotional alternatives

Talking about this addiction

Sedative medication

 

 

 

Many thanks. I had checked some of those out, but will do those more fully.

 

i have tried to withdraw access to money, but it's so easy for thais to open a new account and that's all she needs is to get money from mafia😌

 

Medication not being taken. Probably throws out pills. Refuses to admit she has a problem😢

 

Family doesn't want to know and her friends have same problem.

 

Greatly appreciate your input🙏

 

 

56 minutes ago, w94005m said:

 

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1 hour ago, newbee2022 said:

As far as I know there are some help services in Thailand.

Try here:

The Cabin Chiangmai

The Dawn Rehab

The Diamond Rehab Thailand

Holina Rehab

The Hills Rehab Thailand

The Orchid Recovery

Probably some more. You mentioned some already.

Phone

1323

1300

02 113 6789 english

Important: Avoid triggers

No access to money

Other emotional alternatives

Talking about this addiction

Sedative medication

 

 

 

Forgot to mention that 1323 was one of the first numbers tried and they recommended to her she be admitted to hospital, but my ex (separated 6 months ago) lives on her own planet and ignored it 😞 

 

Most of the time my attempts to help get abuse and threats to call police. From what I've heard, that would make mafia retribution more likely.

 

If it wasn't for the fact that I love where I live, It's my dream place and don't want to lose it, I would otherwise give up.

 

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my gut feeling tells me you should end contact with her just like that,

you are your responsibility and priority

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1 minute ago, mordothailand said:

my gut feeling tells me you should end contact with her just like that,

you are your responsibility and priority

Agreed, I am making preparations for that, but there's a lot involved with GPS thro various means to locate someone. Especially those who you least want to contact you. At the moment, trying to buy some time to get that done as securely as possible, with the hope that she'll revert to just losing what she has and never do anything further with loan sharks. Lawyer says I should have nothing to worry about, but theory and practice are two different fields.

 

The support networks in TH to help with this, seem pretty pathetic compared to UK and USA.

 

If it gets to a bad amount, then everything will end immediately.

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It all rests on if she wants to stop.

 

If she really, genuinely wants to, then with expert help, she can.

 

 

She needs to see a psychiatrist at a psychiatric government hospital. Only one I can recommend is the one in Korat. Good luck.

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8 hours ago, DrJack54 said:

"A problem shared is a problem doubled"

No good deed goes unpunished 😞

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7 hours ago, IvorBiggun2 said:

She needs to see a psychiatrist at a psychiatric government hospital. Only one I can recommend is the one in Korat. Good luck.

Thanks the doc at pattaya bhattamakun hospital was useless. pills will do nothing.

 

WIll check out Korat amongst other places which will admit her. Cheers

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8 hours ago, Bacon1 said:

It all rests on if she wants to stop.

 

If she really, genuinely wants to, then with expert help, she can.

 

 

That is indeed the heart of the problem. She can't even manage the first step of admitting she has a problem and needs help.

 

I am trying to get her help to "stop" or at least manage things without loan sharks, understanding that she genuinely needs to stop. More now for my own safety than hers.

 

Hope that can work as you suggest 🙏

On 12/5/2025 at 12:27 PM, w94005m said:

My ex has developed a true daily addiction for online games, which has extended to getting large sums of money from loan sharks to fulfill her continued losses.

 

We are still friends and fortunately I'd kept all her gold and savings safe in fear of this problem continuing. It was a major reason why we broke up. Fortunately that covered her recent extortionate losses, but it's now all gone. She now has nothing. But can't stop. Despite losing large sums every day, she has the classic belief that she will win it back.

 

I tried to attend a likely redundant Gamblers Annonymous meeting in Jomtien with no luck. I'm assuming that was in in the dim and distant past. Gamblers Annonymous HQ has been of no help.

 

Does anyone know of such meetings anywhere?

 

Went to Mind Clinic. But her problems were beyond anything they could assist with. The government hospital who I hoped would admit her, simply gave her pills. I seriously doubt they will help and she will not reliably take them.

 

As this is forcing me to seek alternative accommodation, so hopefully thugs who go after her can't find me. Despite speaking with a lawyer who says I have no legal tie-up or in theory worry, but I just want to do what I can to be safe.

 

If I could find a private addition centre, I would pay for that, but all the decent ones I see specialise in drug addition.

 

They're a good family, but with no money. I don't want them to suffer from mafia actions, but most of all I want to be safe.

 

If anyone can genuinely help with comments or direct messages. I'd be very grateful.

 

Thanks for reading this 🙏

 

BTW Based in Pattaya, but will consider other locations for help. US and UK are a non-option coz of visas.

You say 'ex', but apparently still staying with her. If that's the case and there could be people looking for her, then leave immediately and go somewhere far far away (money lenders are ruthless). Even though you've tried, it's obvious you can't help her, so it's not your problem anymore. Sad for you obviously, but you MUST look out for yourself now.

On 12/5/2025 at 12:27 PM, w94005m said:

They're a good family, but with no money. I don't want them to suffer from mafia actions, but most of all I want to be safe.

Can’t give anyone advice on this for folks dealing with someones addiction. Though if it were me I’d split knowing that a person who doesn’t want to be saved, cannot be saved. Seen a few friends go through the wringer, financially and mentally all for nothing to end in ruin, or at least until the spouse or child decided to snap out of it on their own.

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2 hours ago, couchpotato said:

You say 'ex', but apparently still staying with her. If that's the case and there could be people looking for her, then leave immediately and go somewhere far far away (money lenders are ruthless). Even though you've tried, it's obvious you can't help her, so it's not your problem anymore. Sad for you obviously, but you MUST look out for yourself now.

She's had her own condo for 6 months. Not close to me, but have kept in touch.

 

I am trying to safeguard myself #1, but would help me if she steered herself to a better place.

 

Appreciate your thoughts 🙏 

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2 hours ago, novacova said:

Can’t give anyone advice on this for folks dealing with someones addiction. Though if it were me I’d split knowing that a person who doesn’t want to be saved, cannot be saved. Seen a few friends go through the wringer, financially and mentally all for nothing to end in ruin, or at least until the spouse or child decided to snap out of it on their own.

Luckily I have no family or legal tie ups and greatly feel for those who have that in this type of situation.

 

Desperately hard for this in Thailand with no gamblers annonymous, which must be a great help.

 

We are split, but when things get really, really desperate for her, feel she'd find a way to have them reach out to me. Stories I hear in that regard are troubling.

 

 

I bet you £20 none of these organisations prevent her from gambling.

Hi @w94005m.

I have some experience on this topic.

Does she speak English?  If so, I'd be happy to talk through my experience with her.  It could puncture her false illusions of recovering all her losses and help her see the reality of her situation.  I can't imagine it could do any harm.  If she doesn't speak English, I'd be happy to share my views with you.

I'm nowhere near Pattaya but that's why phones were invented.

Looks like you still have feelings for her. Ex ordinarily means no longer together, no connection and no entanglement unless children are involved. Grow a pair and cut it all off!

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4 hours ago, IsaanT said:

Hi @w94005m.

I have some experience on this topic.

Does she speak English?  If so, I'd be happy to talk through my experience with her.  It could puncture her false illusions of recovering all her losses and help her see the reality of her situation.  I can't imagine it could do any harm.  If she doesn't speak English, I'd be happy to share my views with you.

I'm nowhere near Pattaya but that's why phones were invented.

Many thanks for the kind and generous offer. I am hopeful that local professionals/doctors will at least make her clear on the major dangers of dealing with what is effectively part of the Thai mafia.

 

There is some hopeful progress.

 

Greatly appreciated 🙏

11 hours ago, w94005m said:

Many thanks for the kind and generous offer. I am hopeful that local professionals/doctors will at least make her clear on the major dangers of dealing with what is effectively part of the Thai mafia.

 

There is some hopeful progress.

 

Greatly appreciated 🙏


Good luck.  I hope it works for you.  PM me if you need a plan B.
 

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