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Thai-Foreign Couple Accused of Dodging B195K Wedding Bill

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A catering business owner has lodged a complaint with Pak Chong Police Station, alleging a Thai-foreign couple failed to pay the remaining 195,000 baht bill for their wedding reception in Nakhon Ratchasima province.

Somsak Taemsuay, 39, filed the complaint on July 16 after repeated attempts to obtain payment, according to his account. Police said they intend to summon the couple to discuss the dispute, although no date has been set.

Booking and deposit

Somsak said a Thai woman identified only as Paphada booked his company on June 9 for a wedding reception held on July 7. The order was for catering for 130 tables, charged at 2,500 baht each, making the total bill 325,000 baht.

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He said he met Paphada at her home in Ban Rai subdistrict, Thep Sathit district, on June 10 to agree the menu and arrangements for the venue. She subsequently paid a 130,000 baht deposit, he said.

Because of the size of the booking, Somsak said his business also supplied drinks free of charge and arranged a live band for the morning wedding ceremony.

Caterer says balance was not paid

The catering service was completed on the wedding day, and Somsak said his company asked for settlement of the remaining balance afterwards. He alleged that the couple asked to pay the following day, but the 195,000 baht did not arrive.

According to Somsak, Paphada later told him that her foreign husband had not provided the dowry he had promised, leaving her unable to pay the outstanding amount.

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Somsak said the unpaid bill has caused financial pressure for him and his business. Despite making a police complaint, he said he would prefer to resolve the matter through negotiation rather than court action.

The complaint remains an allegation, and the report does not identify the foreign husband's nationality or give his response.

What foreign residents should note

For foreigners planning a wedding or other major event in Thailand, the case underlines the importance of making clear arrangements with suppliers over deposits, final-payment dates and who is responsible for settling the bill.

Police have said only that they plan to call the couple in for questioning and discussions over the alleged debt.

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18 July 2026


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  • Jim Waldron
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    "... According to Somsak, Paphada later told him that her foreign husband had not provided the dowry he had promised, leaving her unable to pay the outstanding amount..." Looks like the honeymoon is

  • Celsius
    Celsius

    Did he tell her he is a business development consultant?

  • jacko45k
    jacko45k

    Looks like she has a habit of spending money she hasn't got yet..... the guy needs to keep runnng!

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"... According to Somsak, Paphada later told him that her foreign husband had not provided the dowry he had promised, leaving her unable to pay the outstanding amount..."

Looks like the honeymoon is well and truly over (for everyone in this story)!

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the marriage is off to a bad start.

unpaid bills is a "bad omen".

next up, a crow will be lingering on their window sill.

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6 minutes ago, Jim Waldron said:

"... According to Somsak, Paphada later told him that her foreign husband had not provided the dowry he had promised, leaving her unable to pay the outstanding amount..."

Looks like the honeymoon is well and truly over (for everyone in this story)!

Looks like she has a habit of spending money she hasn't got yet..... the guy needs to keep runnng!

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Did he tell her he is a business development consultant?

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Surprised the firm did not ask for full payment before the wedding. 200k it's not like a bar tab.

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7 minutes ago, henryford1958 said:

Surprised the firm did not ask for full payment before the wedding. 200k it's not like a bar tab.

It's common to pay a deposit and then the balance after the event: This allows time for the money envelopes to be counted and usually the envelopes cover all the expenses.

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Already money issues.

Good luck. coffee1

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"foreign husband had not provided the dowry"

So many wrongs on so many levels

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Here's some sound Advice.

Stop inviting 130 people, some who are not close to a "BIG Party" to show off and entertain others when your finances can NOT support it.

Nonsense type logic. All for one night maybe 6 hours of entertainment.

Then your paying this Debt for how many years?

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She will back in Pattaya next month and he will go live in Chiang Mai and cry it off sobbing over 35 beers at a mom and pop shop in middle of nowhere. Money is like the #1 reason of all divorces and even more for cheating, girls here will do so 95% sure if someone pops up their radar that is better off, or simply hands it hassle free, even for some short fun.

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1 minute ago, J Branche said:

Here's some sound Advice.

Stop inviting 130 people, some who are not close to a "BIG Party" to show off and entertain others when your finances can NOT support it.

Nonsense type logic. All for one night maybe 6 hours of entertainment.

Then your paying this Debt for how many years?

He agreed on the dowry that paid those costs, no blame shifting and changing subject possible here. Are you a thai girl? Cry as much.

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Advice for the Caterer. STOP the services, ask for the money. If it can't be delivered in a short, reasonable amount of time start packing things up.

This is your leverage. With 130 people present this couple will Lose Serious Face.

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1 minute ago, J Branche said:

Advice for the Caterer. STOP the services, ask for the money. If it can't be delivered in a short, reasonable amount of time start packing things up.

This is your leverage. With 130 people present this couple will Lose Serious Face.

They already lost face and he is done lol. Unless he turns it into a joke by magically bringing double the money and fix loss face. Even then it is a obvious tell already that this is a old bastard with a younger girl who is in it for the transactional part only.

There is so many guys who lie to girls in order to get free sex for ages, promising them a condo or saying they own a huge house back home, saying they will pay for a huge wedding. A guy with the actual money, wouldn't need to do that.

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Just now, sunrisecoconuts said:

He agreed on the dowry that paid those costs, no blame shifting and changing subject possible here. Are you a thai girl? Cry as much.

Okay, Yes. Then day of wedding lets see the Money BEFORE the marriage.

Thai's love when you pile stacks of Thai Baht "The Dowery" on the table and show it off

1 hour ago, henryford1958 said:

Surprised the firm did not ask for full payment before the wedding. 200k it's not like a bar tab.

It must have been a humungous p**s up.

Notice- I just want to Help with my Advice. I don't like reading these stories.

Erodes my belief that most people are good people.

Hopefully this is resolved quickly and amicably

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1 minute ago, Rams86 said:

It must have been a humungous p**s up.

Drinks were included as of the size, the amount the catering costed in that sense is peanuts then. I lost over 50K on alcohol with just 50 people lol. The food was the cheap part. If there is a party in isaan, they drink as if there is no tomorrow.

Like chinese tourists on their first trip seeing a food buffet, attempting to bag up the whole place.

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Looks like he found himself a well tattooed woman. Wonder where he found her! Anyway, just another silly guy coming to Thailand without a plan.

4 minutes ago, J Branche said:

Okay, Yes. Then day of wedding lets see the Money BEFORE the marriage.

Thai's love when you pile stacks of Thai Baht "The Dowery" on the table and show it off

I guess that makes it even worse, she ended up giving all dowry money to costs + comes short and none for the family left.

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Just now, Gottfrid said:

Looks like he found himself a well tattooed woman. Wonder where he found her! Anyway, just another silly guy coming to Thailand without a plan.

Soi 6 or 7. It appears many of this type of guys actually think they can get away with it, not realizing this is like death, that's why theey never had a relationship in the first place in their home country, or were ditched already by their ex.

Even some girls seem to put up with it for building a house or whatever, they still then meet guys for fun, for cash, in between.

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7 minutes ago, J Branche said:

Advice for the Caterer. STOP the services, ask for the money. If it can't be delivered in a short, reasonable amount of time start packing things up.

So either the caterer is plain stupid or maybe he has used the same arrangement many times in the past without any problem

This is a civil matter not a criminal matter. If caterer is owed money then sue.

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This a problem between 2 thai people. It has nothing to do with the foreigner.

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32 minutes ago, sunrisecoconuts said:

Drinks were included as of the size, the amount the catering costed in that sense is peanuts then. I lost over 50K on alcohol with just 50 people lol. The food was the cheap part. If there is a party in isaan, they drink as if there is no tomorrow.

Like chinese tourists on their first trip seeing a food buffet, attempting to bag up the whole place.

The Chinese are particularly bad at seafood buffets... they each have multiple plates.. push and shove each other.. and when it is time for them to leave.. many many unemptied plates of seafood not eaten. They are a p1g of a race.

5 hours ago, Georgealbert said:

For foreigners planning a wedding or other major event in Thailand, the case underlines the importance of making clear arrangements with suppliers over deposits, final-payment dates and who is responsible for settling the bill.

This particular case would seem to "underline" the importance of those arrangements for the caterer, not for the foreigner...

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Luckily for me, my wedding set me back about 2 thousand baht 8 years ago. Still going strong. Luckily for me there was no demand to invite every man and his dog to an opulent ceremony. In fact there four of us in total which included two family members as witnesses. I’ve been to a few Thai weddings and I know I got a good deal. I’ve watched the invited guests stuff there bags with free spirits and other stuff while the parents foot the bill. The numbers of guests is sickening and well beyond what is acceptable. This poor bugger now has it all in front of him.

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This takes 'dine and dash' to a whole new level!

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They usually hand out envelopes for the guests to leave donations. That would have at least helped cover some of it.

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4 minutes ago, rwill said:

They usually hand out envelopes for the guests to leave donations. That would have at least helped cover some of it.

Been to a hundred or more Thai weddings including mine. Never have I seen this. You bring your own envelope with whatever you want to give to the wedding. It is then collected or you deposit it upon entering the wedding and greeting the bride and groom.

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