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UK family uses DTV for Thailand-based life

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Ryan Blackley, 35, and his wife Jess, 34, left the UK for Chiang Mai with their sons Noah, six, and Bodhi, four, on February 24, 2026. The family now holds five-year Destination Thailand Visas and is using Thailand as a base for a longer period of travel across Asia.

The couple, originally from Cambridge, say they spend a rolling average of GBP1,800 a month for the four of them - about GBP60 a day - while travelling around Thailand. That compares with UK monthly costs they put at GBP2,296.

Their lifestyle is funded partly by income from two flats and their family home in the UK, which are rented through Airbnb or to private tenants. They estimate the rentals bring in GBP2,500 a month and describe themselves as retired because the property work needs little day-to-day effort.

From tourist entry to a five-year DTV

The Blackleys initially entered Thailand on a 60-day tourist visa. After it expired, they crossed into Laos to apply for their five-year DTV, which they say allows both of them to live and work remotely in Thailand.

For foreigners considering a similar move, their experience highlights that a tourist visa is not intended for long-term residence. Visa status, remote-work permissions and the practicalities of applications outside Thailand need to be settled before relying on the country as a longer-term base.

Since arriving, the family has travelled to Chiang Rai, Bangkok, Udon Thani and Kanchanaburi. They are currently in Koh Samui and plan to visit Malaysia and Singapore next, while keeping Chiang Mai as their base.

"We've basically got freedom and don't have to be anywhere by a certain date or time," Ryan said. "It's just the four of us and we pretty much go with the flow."

Lower costs, simple routine

Their July spending in Thailand was GBP790 on accommodation, GBP350 on food and GBP420 on transport, days out and other costs, totalling GBP1,560. Their longer rolling monthly average was GBP1,800.

They stay in a mix of Airbnbs, apartments and hotels, usually booking only a few days ahead. Ryan said the family eats out for lunch and dinner, but keeps spending down by eating simple Thai food and avoiding alcohol, bars and expensive restaurants.

"We're quite fine with the simple life, like eating Thai food," he said.

In the UK, the couple listed monthly costs of GBP1,459 for their mortgage, GBP427 in bills and GBP400 for food. Their former family home remains available as a fallback if their plans change.

Property income and world-schooling

Jess bought her first flat at 20 for GBP120,000 and later rented it out. After travelling and working abroad for two-and-a-half years, during which they visited 27 countries, the couple bought a second flat for GBP145,000 and later sold it for GBP183,000.

They then bought another two-bedroom flat for GBP190,000 before purchasing their four-bedroom family home in 2021.

The couple had previously travelled to Thailand in 2016, before having children, and said they had long felt their future would be outside the UK. They plan to continue world-schooling Noah and Bodhi rather than return to UK schooling.

Ryan said the family does not intend to return to live in Britain, although they expect to visit relatives.

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25 August 2026


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  • ikke1959
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    The couple will face more difficulties.. Hardly to believe that 4 persons can stay a whole month in several accommodations for only 790 GBP. That is about 1000tHB a night. And the kids don't need to g

  • JBChiangRai
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    They are thinking of themselves and not their children. Appalling parenting.

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56 minutes ago, Georgealbert said:

Their July spending in Thailand was GBP790 on accommodation

56 minutes ago, Georgealbert said:

They stay in a mix of Airbnbs, apartments and hotels, usually booking only a few days ahead.

The couple will face more difficulties.. Hardly to believe that 4 persons can stay a whole month in several accommodations for only 790 GBP. That is about 1000tHB a night. And the kids don't need to go to school if you are living for years in Thailand??? They can educate their own kids of course. I foresee problems as this couple will settle somewhere. Travelling around is nice, but living in hotels and airbnb's is getting expensive in the end. Anyway a good news story for TAT, but the couple will find out that reality will be different soon

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25 minutes ago, ikke1959 said:

The couple will face more difficulties.. Hardly to believe that 4 persons can stay a whole month in several accommodations for only 790 GBP. That is about 1000tHB a night. And the kids don't need to go to school if you are living for years in Thailand??? They can educate their own kids of course. I foresee problems as this couple will settle somewhere. Travelling around is nice, but living in hotels and airbnb's is getting expensive in the end. Anyway a good news story for TAT, but the couple will find out that reality will be different soon

600bht/night is completely possible, and they have the money to spend so why not? THey still have a house in the UK, so they can stop when they get fed up with it. Kids are young enough that school doesn't matter for a couple of years.

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what about schooling, medical cover, transport etc

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after a year or two, for most the reality will start to kick in. the idea of living a carefree life in a holiday home will quickly prove to be far more complicated than many imagined.

for some of these so-called expats, thailand will eventually lose its appeal, and they will turn their backs on the country ... either because they have gained a more realistic perspective, or simply because life here is not as easy and carefree as they once imagined ...

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Nice while it lasts...

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3 hours ago, Georgealbert said:

For foreigners considering a similar move, their experience highlights that a tourist visa is not intended for long-term residence.

Neither are their DTVs, which is why they cannot get a Thai bank account with them.

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Their lifestyle wouldn't suit me at all, but how they want to live is entirely up to them. I suspect that, over time, they will find life in Thailand is rather more complicated than initially seems to be the case.

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28 minutes ago, newbee2022 said:

they didn't mention any insurance plan

Specifically healthcare insurance particularly covering children, annual checkups for couple, dental/vision care, emergency care, etc.

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So renting out their property on Airbnb gets them a 5 year DTV ??

Meanwhile having lived here for 19 years I get to do the yearly joy of going to immigration to apply for a visa based on marriage to a Thai citizen.

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Despite what the label on the visa says immigration still doesn't want people living in Thailand on any non-O category visa including the DTV. Since you need to leave the country every 6 months you're basically doing visa runs like the old days before they shut that down.

Stories like this advertising you can move your entire family to Thailand and start competing in the family housing market with Thais is going to breed resentment too and cause even more problems for all us. If I were them I'd very wary of setting up a permanent life with their kids and expecting to not have problems entering down the road.

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They are thinking of themselves and not their children.

Appalling parenting.

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4 hours ago, Georgealbert said:

and plan to visit Malaysia and Singapore next,

Their expenses are going to increase a lot ....

regards worgeordie

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2 hours ago, steve187 said:

what about schooling, medical cover, transport etc

Yeah, as a KId I wouldn't want to live out of a suitcase. Where are my friends? Just talking from personal perspective.

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1 hour ago, John Drake said:

4 hours ago, Georgealbert said:

For foreigners considering a similar move, their experience highlights that a tourist visa is not intended for long-term residence.

Neither are their DTVs, which is why they cannot get a Thai bank account with them.

Agree 100%. Not having a Thai bank account is the killer. You need money at your fingertips. Dealing with foreign banks abroad, especially my home country, is getting more difficult by the year. One bank denied my credit card based on where I lived, another implemented a 2 step verification a few years back and required a phone number from my home country. The list goes on.

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I wish them success but after only 6 months here i feel so far they have been lucky.

The kids are presumably happy with this extended holiday but the novelty of living out of a suitcase must be wearing thin ?

An unexpected medical emergency or family emergency, needing a quick flight back to the U.K., can soon eat into their living expenses.

Certainly not a lifestyle for everyone, would like to see an update every six months highlighting their feelings and any hurdles they have faced.

Currently it appears like an advert for relocating to Thailand with a young family, I can’t help feeling that the reality is somewhat different.

But, good luck to them, if it all goes pear shaped then at least they have retained properties in their home country to fall back on and no doubt some YouTube channel is coming highlighting their adventures, both good and bad !

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While I agree with most of what has been said on this forum about future problems this couple will face, I do love their get-up-and-go attitude! It takes real enterprise to stop complaining about UK costs and actually execute a lifestyle redesign like this. They didn't just dream about it; they built a property foundation early on and took the risk. Total self-starters, although they may have had some parent/inheritance funding.

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Good luck to them doing what many would like to do travelling around the World

They have no financial worries can always return to the UK if required

Wish them well enjoy the experience

1 hour ago, riverhigh said:

Yeah, as a KId I wouldn't want to live out of a suitcase. Where are my friends? Just talking from personal perspective.

Not only that, but the kids will not a safe heaven, a home, with their own room and a stable living. Always going from place to place, never settling is not good for the mental health of them.

1 hour ago, NorthernRyland said:

Despite what the label on the visa says immigration still doesn't want people living in Thailand on any non-O category visa including the DTV. Since you need to leave the country every 6 months you're basically doing visa runs like the old days before they shut that down.

Stories like this advertising you can move your entire family to Thailand and start competing in the family housing market with Thais is going to breed resentment too and cause even more problems for all us. If I were them I'd very wary of setting up a permanent life with their kids and expecting to not have problems entering down the road.

I don't know if its the algorithm but I just see a lot more of this on YouTube at the moment,

Maybe people are blaming the government or listening to the "opposition" - Talking about taxes, closing down their businesses. There are a new wave of "doom and gloom" channels, which can be easily ignored, but I feel there too much of "selling the dream" - by their own admission, never visited here even for a holiday, but talk about Chiang Mai like its some kind of promised land. These guys are happy eating Thai food - thats great, until they tire of eating chickens ass and gristle. The idea of homeschooling your kid sounds great, but the system isnt setup for families to emigrate or integrate into the Thai system.

I do wish them well, I think, if you are doing it for the right reasons - thats great, but I saw a few of these content creators, bemoaning the UK, making a video of their travels to add to their savings, and its becoming a little tiresome.

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I know when I first arrived in was Airbnb's while I learned about the different areas and buildings and locking in a long term residence.

Some mention the children which is fair. Hopefully they are being home schooled or going to an International school.

They look young enough that they will be okay reporting to their AI Robot Boss in the future.

1 hour ago, J Branche said:

I know when I first arrived in was Airbnb's while I learned about the different areas and buildings and locking in a long term residence.

Some mention the children which is fair. Hopefully they are being home schooled or going to an International school.

They look young enough that they will be okay reporting to their AI Robot Boss in the future.

Must be home schooling the kids. Their budget wouldn't stretch to an international school.

At least they have a back-up/escape plan in place. Good luck to them!

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Sort of life I could live. 2 flats back home and their family house rented out. Most probably have a good education themselves and maybe family backing. The kids are small.

Traveling opens their minds and I’m sure they get a bit of hone schooling.

Saw a documentary not long back. Two different families bought yachts to sail around the world with their kids. They had a very interesting and wonderful life . These were separate stories and each family had success in life. These kids loved it, an hour or two a day with mum or dad , they cold read , write, knew geography, the oceans, diving and swimming in coral seas, a dream. I think it’s not suited to most people, but many are adventurous and need that life. I was similar, but left at barely 17 , worked my way around , leant 4 languages fluently, travelled India, Ceylon, Bali and all over Indonesia, Thailand , Borneo Australia. Eventually starting a business adventure back home which was a succès for 40 years, and allowing me to travel through South America, Japan , and back to Thailand as a base. Adventure is in my blood and I’m not stopping until I can’t . My parents just told me the dangers, to be careful, and to enjoy, with full blessing sent me on my way. I wouldn’t have wanted any other life. I don’t have kids and don’t miss that, and it was my choice.

4 hours ago, worgeordie said:

Their expenses are going to increase a lot ....

regards worgeordie

90 day visa waiver on entry for Malasia.

No cost at all.

9 hours ago, Georgealbert said:

The family now holds five-year Destination Thailand Visas and is using Thailand as a base for a longer period of travel across Asia.

I trust that they know some members of the ASEAN Now web board will be absolutely furious .

4 hours ago, ronster said:

So renting out their property on Airbnb gets them a 5 year DTV ??

Meanwhile having lived here for 19 years I get to do the yearly joy of going to immigration to apply for a visa based on marriage to a Thai citizen.

9 minutes ago, geisha said:

Sort of life I could live. 2 flats back home and their family house rented out. Most probably have a good education themselves and maybe family backing. The kids are small.

Traveling opens their minds and I’m sure they get a bit of hone schooling.

Saw a documentary not long back. Two different families bought yachts to sail around the world with their kids. They had a very interesting and wonderful life . These were separate stories and each family had success in life. These kids loved it, an hour or two a day with mum or dad , they cold read , write, knew geography, the oceans, diving and swimming in coral seas, a dream. I think it’s not suited to most people, but many are adventurous and need that life. I was similar, but left at barely 17 , worked my way around , leant 4 languages fluently, travelled India, Ceylon, Bali and all over Indonesia, Thailand , Borneo Australia. Eventually starting a business adventure back home which was a succès for 40 years, and allowing me to travel through South America, Japan , and back to Thailand as a base. Adventure is in my blood and I’m not stopping until I can’t . My parents just told me the dangers, to be careful, and to enjoy, with full blessing sent me on my way. I wouldn’t have wanted any other life. I don’t have kids and don’t miss that, and it was my choice.

What a fantastic idea self educating their children and having life lessons bringing them up in a different culture and surroundings than back in the UK. The multi cultural society that the UK has become because of immigration can only be detrimental to British children. All of you expatriates that only comment on the negative aspects and take some kind of personal pleasure in putting others down, I feel quite sorry for you. In fact if this family found an area away from tourist spots and spoke to the Pho Yai Ban of a village I’m sure they could rent accommodation for a quarter of what they have spent on Airbnb,

Doing this for some years, why not. However in the long run, the property back home will need maintenance. A flat rented out over AirBnb will need renovation after some years, new furniture. The cost for upkeep will rise. At that point they will run out of money and have to go back. Finding a new job may be not so easy being years away from work.

Doing this for 3 or 4 years will be great. However, thinking they don't have to work anymore and retire, forget it. If that is the plan, better educate yourself about the social wellfaire back home.

6 minutes ago, Cenovis said:

Doing this for some years, why not. However in the long run, the property back home will need maintenance. A flat rented out over AirBnb will need renovation after some years, new furniture. The cost for upkeep will rise. At that point they will run out of money and have to go back. Finding a new job may be not so easy being years away from work.

Doing this for 3 or 4 years will be great. However, thinking they don't have to work anymore and retire, forget it. If that is the plan, better educate yourself about the social wellfaire back home.

Having 2 kids guarantees them an income of 15,000 pounds a year back in the UK (child tax credit). No need for them to work.

54 minutes ago, Wavel said:

What a fantastic idea self educating their children and having life lessons bringing them up in a different culture and surroundings than back in the UK. The multi cultural society that the UK has become because of immigration can only be detrimental to British children. All of you expatriates that only comment on the negative aspects and take some kind of personal pleasure in putting others down, I feel quite sorry for you. In fact if this family found an area away from tourist spots and spoke to the Pho Yai Ban of a village I’m sure they could rent accommodation for a quarter of what they have spent on Airbnb,

Well said! I wish them much success.

55 minutes ago, Wavel said:

What a fantastic idea self educating their children and having life lessons bringing them up in a different culture and surroundings than back in the UK. The multi cultural society that the UK has become because of immigration can only be detrimental to British children. All of you expatriates that only comment on the negative aspects and take some kind of personal pleasure in putting others down, I feel quite sorry for you. In fact if this family found an area away from tourist spots and spoke to the Pho Yai Ban of a village I’m sure they could rent accommodation for a quarter of what they have spent on Airbnb,

Well said. I wish them many successes. Too many folks read into these stories and imo post negative comments. Be happy for others sometimes ~~ from the article it seems like they have a great plan and if they do get tired of living in the Kingdom they have fallback plans in the UK. I surmise many living in Thailand do not but I don’t know. Bottom line: pretty awesome the couple are breaking away from their home country for awhile. Again, I wish them many successes

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

90 day visa waiver on entry for Malasia.

No cost at all.

Singapore and Malaysia , yes easy to get into , but I meant food,Hotels

and everything else is more expensive

regards worgeordie

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