a2396 Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 i have a dear friend who works in the medical profession. she speaks great english, is beautiful and loves to dance and have a great time. she is a party girl who would love to meet a nice farang bloke. this girl is nearly 30 and still a virgin. she sometimes stays out late, but she always has her family calling her to see where she is. she is a GOOD girl. so, to the OP, i say go for it. she sounds like a decent girl whose family love her. you are right to keep your guard up a little, and i would say do this in any relationship, not just with a thai woman. Why any attractive 30 year old woman is still a virgin by her own choice is beyond my comprehension. Would any of you gents choose to stay a virgin until you were 30 +, unless you were planning to enter the priesthood? My opinion of someone like this is that they have a problem relating to men, don't really like men and/or sex. I would definatlly want a reasonable time for a "test drive" before marrying someone with such a status. They are out there in bigger numbers than you think. I dated two (although they were mid twenties not 30), one caved in to her desires after a couple of months and had a regular relationship with me for as long as that lasted and the other made me wait so long I told her the truth that I couldn't wait any longer and broke it off. My personal opinion is that it is unhealthy for adults to not be having a vibrant sex life with thier partner and to wait until mid twenties or 30's is unnatural but I do understand Thai culture and it's "good girl wife material" mind set so don't judge it too harshly. Damian Mavis I expect a wife or GF to have a healthy level of interest and proficiency in sexual matters. I would not waste time and money with someone who is going to behave like an "old maid autnie", and won't do this and won't do that. Men who have got women like this as partners are good fodder for the hooker trade. As for "Thai Culture", hopefully it should be evolving and modernising, as in other places. The "Thai Culture" issue in this case and other's is often bull $shit fed to the Farang (and perhaps Thai suitors), because the lady thinks she will appear more virteous or fetch a higher price for marriage. In my opinion, some of these ladies claiming to be virgins, may not in fact be such. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
backflip Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 Is the OP 34, as he claimed, or 14? He sounds very fragile. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kpeanut Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 I wonder how many English girls don't put out until they are married still? of topic I know but it would be nive to know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TAWP Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 I wonder how many English girls don't put out until they are married still? of topic I know but it would be nive to know The ones who cannot get anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TommyGun Posted October 11, 2007 Author Share Posted October 11, 2007 Hi OP,Just curious OK? What is it that you like about this girl? Why do you wanna have a partner? And to Bambi, yes better you not drive a car, ha ha ha just kidding. Take care all! Alie She's intelligent and funny and of course im attracted to her. We feel very comfortable togther and the conversation is good. Even when we don't have much to say we just enjoy each other company. She has introduced me to most of her friends and work colleuges and made me feel very welcome. As for why do i want a partner i'm don't really know how to answer that. Companionship i suppose and somene to love and trust. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TommyGun Posted October 11, 2007 Author Share Posted October 11, 2007 Is the OP 34, as he claimed, or 14? He sounds very fragile. Total nonsense about about. As for being fragile, is there an age limit? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scousemouse Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 I met my ex in the UK actually. I bought a car and paid for a house. I wasn't even married to her. Before you say what a fool, we did live together in the UK for a year so i though things were genuine. I wonder how your ex ended up there . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B Fuddled Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 In the west everyone is in such a hurry to grow up and leave home. Why? Adequate pension plans? Golden years? Love of freedom? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrSquigle Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 rampant sex Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thisisme Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 Everybody please listen to me. He say all this to me tOO 2 years a go after that f u c k i ng hall She's intelligent and funny and of course im attracted to her. We feel very comfortable togther and the conversation is good. Even when we don't have much to say we just enjoy each other company. She has introduced me to most of her friends and work colleuges and made me feel very welcome. As for why do i want a partner i'm don't really know how to answer that. Companionship i suppose and somene to love and trust. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thisisme Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 Is the OP 34, as he claimed, or 14? He sounds very fragile. Total nonsense about about. As for being fragile, is there an age limit? No one want this man and this lady that why they met Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrSquigle Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 Somone sound a little bit angry....but why you be porkin your husbands friend under the same roof for a year....class Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrbojangles Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 Whoops. Has this blown up in someone's face ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scott Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 Her family is a (relatively) normal, conservative Thai family. It sounds like you have a winner. Tell her about your past, a little at a time. You don't have spill everything out all at once. Take it slow and the best of luck to both of you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
torrenova Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 Someone wants to teleport these people into the 21st century. There are no gooks and goblins out there and whilst safety is very important, so is having a life. Clinging onto some ancient virginal history would have the daughters locked at home. It is time for the parents to let them go and live by themselves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TommyGun Posted October 23, 2007 Author Share Posted October 23, 2007 (edited) Is the OP 34, as he claimed, or 14? He sounds very fragile. Total nonsense about about. As for being fragile, is there an age limit? No one want this man and this lady that why they met Ok here we go. It appears my ex has somehow been following my posts. The odd thing is she knows i use TV often, but she never knew my username. All i can say is that you have basically proven what you have done. The original post could have been anyone about anyone, but you know it describes what you have done and it has hit a nerve. I think it is in the MODERATORS interest that this topic be locked as i have received person abuse via email, as well as my family back home in the UK. I don't want this to get into a slagging match. All will say is that you have made yourself look like a fool baring in mind no names were mentioned. Grow up. Edited October 23, 2007 by TommyGun Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bruceboy Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 His lady could buy the house? With whose money? Her money?? I would like to know if this idea holds up with her and her ever-loving parents and let's not forget sin sod. Sounds like he has a bit of further negotiation to be done. Yes, Sinsod. Money will come into this sooner or later. No free rides in Thailand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scousemouse Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 Whoops. Has this blown up in someone's face ? Blown up big time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andiamo Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 As the song goes.. "It's getting hot in here...." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thisisme Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 Tommy honey you go for it then.Sounds like you both met each other at the right time.Not all girls are golddiggers the same as not all guys think they are.All the best and keep us posted. he met this girl from www.thailovelinks.com why i know ?because he used my house and internet to talk with lots girl and play game Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meom Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 He stay my husband house and free good <deleted> ck from me for more then 1 years and he pay for my house just 3 months....I know i'm not that good . I guess you're ok thisisme except for the free fvking part. You should know that's against the Code of Conduct Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donx Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 He stay my husband house and free good <deleted> ck from me for more then 1 years and he pay for my house just 3 months....I know i'm not that good . I guess you're ok thisisme except for the free fvking part. You should know that's against the Code of Conduct I think that what thisisme is trying to say is that He (a.k.a TommyGun) lived in the house that her husband (whom she has been separated from) bought and while he (TommyGun) received free sex for more than a year, he (TommyGun) only made 3 monthly payments. I don't think thisisme is saying that she was living with her husband at the same time that she was living with and having sex with TommyGun. I'm not saying that I believe what either thisisme or TommyGun are saying. I'm simply trying to see if what thisisme is trying to say is being misinterpreted because of her poor English skills. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TommyGun Posted October 23, 2007 Author Share Posted October 23, 2007 I suppose this is getting entertaining so here you go. I left me ex a few months ago after finding emails she had sent to various men while we lived in the UK. This was only 3-5 months into our relationship 2 years ago. As i said i discovered these only a few months ago. This email is from one man only. There were dozens which also lead to sexual conversation and handing out numbers. The Man Hi P I am really pleased you only like me , and I am beginning to like you too !! Just dont offer me sex !! I want to get to know you I want to be friends first , love and sex will folllow and believe me if we want each other it will be wonderful and I hope I can give you enough , I will really try !!! And I dont see a lot of girls I dont have time I am too busy !! If you want to wait then lets wait til next week I am back on Tuesday !!! The Ex how can i see someone else?i only talk with you and i like you. i bet you see lots girl. i'd like to see you tomorrow but i will wait when you have a lot time for me. The Ex I sorry to said that to you... i just think you might just want sex from me. i feel bad now..i'd like to meet you but tomorrow ican't. wait till you have a lot time. sorry if i talk with you not nice The Man well i think we should meet, maybe go for a drink have a chat and start to get to know each other , I wont have too much time tomorrow but when i get back next week I could arrange to spend a lot of time with you !! Perhaps you could even come to stay with me sometime !! What do you think ? The Ex how long can you stay and talk with me here? you might not like me The Man will see you tomorrow during the day , lunchtime , you tell me where ,lets be friends first !! The Man Have you done this before ? [be honest] And I thought you wanted a relationship The Ex ok.i'll find when he away. if we meet in evening where would you like to meet? i'd like to meet you here because my son with me and easy for me. i hope you not mind abput my son. pxxx The Ex he gone to work in Manchester every day.. he sometime live there not come back. I don't know when he stay in manchester agin. i don't know what to say.. i very want to see you. would like to get to know you more. hope you like me . pxxx I suppose i could have made this up and taken the time to perfect the broken English but im not that bored. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wong! Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 yeap..agree with you that "men usually get more freedom" Bambina doesn't seem to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TommyGun Posted October 23, 2007 Author Share Posted October 23, 2007 While this is starting to get personal. If anyone would like the Hi5 info please email me. I just feel sorry for the third guy if there is one. Oh yeah. What she said about TLL is true and the playing online pool. Revenge is sweet sometimes, afterall i was paying the bills. She just stuck to pay now. Regarding bills i totally understand why her still husband as never sent a dime over the 2 years for her or unfortunately her son. And stupidly i was trying to get her the help through Guesthouse here. Sorry i wasted your time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TommyGun Posted October 23, 2007 Author Share Posted October 23, 2007 (edited) He stay my husband house and free good <deleted> ck from me for more then 1 years and he pay for my house just 3 months....I know i'm not that good . I guess you're ok thisisme except for the free fvking part. You should know that's against the Code of Conduct I think that what thisisme is trying to say is that He (a.k.a TommyGun) lived in the house that her husband (whom she has been separated from) bought and while he (TommyGun) received free sex for more than a year, he (TommyGun) only made 3 monthly payments. I don't think thisisme is saying that she was living with her husband at the same time that she was living with and having sex with TommyGun. I'm not saying that I believe what either thisisme or TommyGun are saying. I'm simply trying to see if what thisisme is trying to say is being misinterpreted because of her poor English skills. Her husband stopped paying for the house when she left him. I was paying for it while in the uk for around 7-8 months, and around 10months while living here as her husband refused to support her or her son. I now know why. The thing is i have not spoken to my ex for months. Only last week a received emails in my hotmail telling me to <deleted> off, and a coment about seeing my post on TV and because i have blocker her this was her next move. So god dam_n what, get over it we're finished. Geuss you still care! Edited October 23, 2007 by TommyGun Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donx Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 After i broke up with me ex, a few weeks later a met a lady in a coffee shop. I asked if the seat was taken next to her, she eventually introduced herself in perfect English that puts me to shame. After a short conversation i explained i was travelling back to the UK, we casually exchanged emails and said we would say hi from time to time. Staight away i assumed she was after one thing because of my previous experience So... did you meet her in the coffee shop as you say or did you "meet" her on the internet through thailovelinks.com as thisisme is saying? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TommyGun Posted October 23, 2007 Author Share Posted October 23, 2007 (edited) After i broke up with me ex, a few weeks later a met a lady in a coffee shop. I asked if the seat was taken next to her, she eventually introduced herself in perfect English that puts me to shame. After a short conversation i explained i was travelling back to the UK, we casually exchanged emails and said we would say hi from time to time. Staight away i assumed she was after one thing because of my previous experience So... did you meet her in the coffee shop as you say or did you "meet" her on the internet through thailovelinks.com as thisisme is saying? Lets face it we can both say what we want. The difference is i have paper work to prove what she is like, on pc and hard copy. She even told her sister her BF is a bad man and she should find someone else. This was because he wasn't ready to marry. They only knew each other for 3 months. He's now married and since bought the parents 20 rai of land, now hes great! I feel sorry for the poor Austrian guy living in Austria working at Scania.. Edited October 23, 2007 by TommyGun Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mark henry Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 You had better start saving ya pennies if your thinking of marrying her, the Sin Sod gonna be enormous!!! My wifes daughter who's 19 and lives with her Grandma in BKK has to be home by 9pm on the dot or she gets a beating with a lump of wood! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donx Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 After that my question is. Do i tell her about my past, as this is makeing me un-easy sometimes. And is it normal to be a Daddies Girl at 30. You didn't answer my last question but I never answered your original questions, so here goes. 1) Yes you should tell her about your past at least as much as she is interested in knowing. She may not want to know anything about your past. My current wife doesn't like me or her discussing the past. 2) Yes it is normal for Thai women living with their parents to follow their parents' rules out of respect for them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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