Hey RC/Milk Monitor..........(very funny name).............maybe you hit the jackpot and found a keeper....... You could be lucky!

P/S were you a milk monitor in school?

Splitlid, no one is gonna lie about milk..... not worth it.

RC and Splitlid - I never said there were ONLY 2 kinds......but from what I see, thats how it seems. There are farang men who prefer farang women too. Who knows, you two could be unique!!!

Oh i see the difference now "there are 2 kinds" not "there are only 2 kinds" hmmm

I dont prefer falang women to thai women, they are all women, some good some bad. As Ive said before, I've never met a female expat here, then again my nearest falang neibour is 50 km away.

Oh yes I am unique, as is everybody.

Hey RC/Milk Monitor..........(very funny name).............maybe you hit the jackpot and found a keeper.......  You could be lucky!

P/S were you a milk monitor in school?

Sorry did'nt see this before the last post.

No not a milk moniter, I have a fairly large Dairy Farm in centrel thailand.

Splitlid, no one is gonna lie about milk.....  not worth it.

It is when you sell half a ton a day

 

Rod, maybe you should come back to REALITY and OPEN your eyes in Thailand.

We never said ALL Thai women are bad. You may be surprised that there is a percentage of professional, overseas educated Thai women who have a syndicate to go out with farangs to....."upkeep" the lifestyle they are used to. One of my Thai friends is in this "group". That's her choice, I tell her my opinion and we are still friends.

Like I said and reiterate, there are good and bad women/men everywhere..........just more predominent in less developed countries.

P/S are you middle-aged?

BTW, to each their own opinion about TH depending on ..........each individuals wants and needs..maybe it be physical, emotional, self-esteem or career wise.

We can lead a horse to water but we cannot make it drink..........no one is asking everyone to agree with our comments/opinions.

One can ponder about it and make his own judgement/opinions and not get all bent out of shape about it.....touchy!

sk1972-------Rod calls it as he sees it. no bullshit with him.

anyway.are you in thailand and a farang?

your 31 right? what you doing over her?

im here to be ripped off of my million dollar inheritence..im doing really well so far.

have been here 6 months and have blown half of it already

Splitlid, yes I know Rod is entitled to his opinion. The way he expresses his opinions is as if everyone else in this forum is NOT entitled to their opinions. "<deleted>" would mean he is a typical Brit.........who are known to love TH and all its "wonderful offerings". Been to UK and loved it better than TH though.............

Yes, I am in TH and have resided here for the past 2 years and travelled here for work the last 8 years. I am not a farang nor a Thai/Indian but an expat. In my line of work, I have seen too many "cases" to be not very pro-TH.

Only a million dollars??? Just kidding

wow SK192, you sure have some strong opinions about thailand & her people. Could you do me a favour though & quit referring to "we" as it implys that all farang women on this forum or in LOS have the same opinions as you. Which I'm afraifd to tell you "we" don't.

Some of us have been here long enough to meet a cross section of people & know that you can't compartmentalise a whole country, developing or not. I have met some great thai people in my time in Thailand who have helped me out emotionally & financially. I have also had the misfortune to meet some really nasty calcualting people here too, but I know that there are good & bad everywhere, so don't explain it all away on their nationality.

As for farang men in Thailand, well, as I was living on Samui for many years I happened to meet a lot of guys with bar girls or enjoying the scene, now at first I admit I was shocked & a bit horrified when I saw an older guy with a younger thai women but over time & getting to know some of them I realised that things aren't quite so black & white & as bad as it is to my western sensibilities it is a much needed source of income for a lot of people. Most of these girls DO have a choice between working in the bar scene or picking rice, hopefully they ARE savvy enough not to be taken advantage of but that doesn't make them bad people. They are providing a service the same as all of the businesses that toursim support, som tam ladie, ice cream seller, small resteraunts, gift shops, hotels, guest houses, the list is endless. I'm not saying it's right but I am saying that it's not as cut & dried as you make out, not all guys here with thai g/f's are sad pathetic men who couldn't get a shag at an orgie, neither are all the thai women they are with calculating, conniving minxs who are out to fool & rip off the guys. AND not all Thai woemn are prostitutes in any shape, form or guise.

I wont even go into your comments about thai men cause I think I've said it all before on other threads, read them if you want.

p.s Rod isn't a brit, he's a citizen of the world and also one of the more straight posters on this forum as is RC. I understand you point of view but cannot agree with what you saying, your entitled to you opinion as we all are but please refrain from flaiming people who don't agree with yours.

Cheers

Boo

Well, Boo.........thanks for your comments. I never mentioned that all Thai women are bad. I do have Thai friends too. I said there were both sides to them as in every country. I said "WE " as in its a saying "we can lead a horse to water but we cant make it drink" Its a GENERAL saying, I never said the other farang women feel the same or agree with me. Just to let you know, "I" is usually not used in a general saying.Please read it properly before "flaming me".

I have no idea what a citizen of the world is. Does that mean he has NO nationality or affiliation to any country? In exile?? I do understand that RC, Rod and yourself are old hands in this forum so you would know each other better. That doesnt mean you have to "flame" newbies who have their own opinions.

I reiterate again that I did not say anyone has to agree with me. Its a free world and we are entitled to our opinions. Thats what a forum is for!!

If you can see, "flaming" goes BOTH ways. Rod indicated what I said to be <deleted> and got a bit oversensitive about it. Read through all my postings and see whether I mentioned Thai women were prostitutes, I DID NOT. I think you all have confused me with someone else.

NOTHING IN THIS WORLD IS EASY AND IT'S A COMPLEX WORLD.

I kinda like Thai men, all in all. They're sweet, affectionate, cuddly, and generally lots of fun- along with being sexy as all get out.

They also seem a whole lot less conflicted about dating other guys than a lot of gays were in the U.S.- less of a whole societal guilt thing going on about it.

They're certainly not very sincere/reliable as a group- so if that's what you're looking for farang might be better.

"Steven"

see those smiley things..

theyre there to get you to relax.

SK your post did actually appear to indicate that you thought that there are only 2 types of farang men here in thailand.

maybe you should read what you write and consider the consequences.

it was actually a generalisation that you made and thats what upset a few peeps.

i wasnt upset cos it is actually true for many...but not all, and i could see what you meant.

Maybe youve been in bangkok for too long hanging aroung the tourist areas where you only get to see what that allows you to see.

if you venture out a bit further you may find some decent farang guys living here trying to make an honest living with the ones they love.

MAYBE

more smilies

Splitlid - Once again, I have to say I didnt say every "tom dick and harry" farang in TH are bad. I did say it was predominently so in TH. I do admit I was generalising but who can blame me with what you see here. I am not afraid to speak my mind.

I have been to outside Bangkok, many times as my husband's father has a house there with his TH wife.

I work for an org joint-venturing with the TH govt to try to get the "less fortunate" women off the streets but from their attitude and character, it would seem a lost cause. (I said seem) There are a rare handful who seem to really want to try but are easily influenced by peer/parental pressure and the "lifestyle" of what foreigners can offer.

I did not have any intention to flame the men here or make them become defensive or think they have to defend themselves. If one is happy and contented as they are, who gives a <deleted> what others think right???

I work for an org joint-venturing with the TH govt to try to get the "less fortunate" women off the streets but from their attitude and character, it would seem a lost cause. (I said seem) There are a rare handful who seem to really want to try but are easily influenced by peer/parental pressure and the "lifestyle" of what foreigners can offer.

wow.

total respect for you on that one.

thats got to be a tough job.and when things do go right it must very fullfilling for you.

please dont clean up all the streets for a while as ive still got $500,000 dollars left.

SK1972- There are 2 kinds of farang men here.............one that denies he has ever been "conned" and go on thinking the next one may be different (which usually are not) ........................and the other who learn from it and stay way clear of the Thai women's antics

Wow I guess the lady I have been with for 3 years is pulling me wool over my eyes too!

I beg to differ with you I think its completely opposite to how you've painted it, more the exception to the rule love. I think you grossly distorted what Thai women are really like.

SK1972- There are 2 kinds of farang men here.............one that denies he has ever been "conned" and go on thinking the next one may be different (which usually are not) ........................and the other who learn from it and stay way clear of the Thai women's antics

Wow I guess the lady I have been with for 3 years is pulling me wool over my eyes too!

I beg to differ with you I think its completely opposite to how you've painted it, more the exception to the rule love. I think you grossly distorted what Thai women are really like.

i think its actually SKs job that has got her into thinking that way.

day in day out trying to help ladies to no avail must not paint a pretty picture.

Split - i am sure you can spend your half million easily before anything is ever cleaned up

Brit - I was not indicating you or your wife in particular. I may have generalised as Split said and offended a few sensitive ones. You may have been lucky and found the needle in the haystack!!

Life is not a bed of roses either.

Looks like there was more than one needle in the haystack, I found one as well!

SK1972- I'll peg it to the people you deal on a everyday basis, but lets be realistic this is a small percentage- def not the standard by any means.

Can anyone of the farrang females here hand on heart honestly say they have never accepted dinner / drinks or presents however small prior to sleeping with their "Boyfriends"

Just a thought I recall a saying about all women including mothers just can get it off the tip of my tongue.

Just a thought I recall a saying about all women including mothers just can get it off the tip of my tongue.

Well try my dear try, cause ive no idea what your going on about?

I have been reading this web page for about a year and I am sick and tired of hearing……”the primary reason a western man would bed, date, or marry a Thai lady is because they cannot in there own country”.

I cannot argue that in some cases this is true, but in my world, it is far from the majority. I own and operate a company which manufactures high-tech goods for the military and have had the pleasure of traveling across the globe for many years. I associate with people whom are in the same business as I and we (at least the majority) have come to the conclusion that asian ladies, particularly Thai, have much more to offer a man than any western woman. I will say that most of us are wealthy, not ugly, and in good physical shape.

Personally speaking, I would have and I have had no problem developing a relationship with a western woman if that were my desire. As a matter of fact, “good” American woman are much easier to “bed” than a “good” Thai lady; one night stands (or relationships in general) are very easy in the USA if you are attractive,but most of all, it is apparent you are wealthy.

I am married to a Thai lady whom is 6 years my junior, US masters educated, and in my eyes, absolutely beautiful. We met in BKK and she was by any standard very successful and over the years held several high ranking positions in both US and European firms located in BKK. Oddly enough and in comparison to successful western woman, she is very feminine, not overweight, possesses a high degree of true self-confidence, dresses like a woman, looks like a woman, and speaks like a woman, and carries herself like a woman. She is sensible and good with money, genuinely committed to our relationship, very family oriented, hard working, and does not diet to look great. She treats me very well and is very happy to do so but if she does not want to do something, she simply will not.

Let us review the facts about American woman…………….

 Fattest in the world.

 The highest maintenance.

 Highest rate of divorce.

 Most likely to cheat.

 Highest payout provided a divorce.

 Most likely to hate men.

 Most likely to nag, bitch, moan, complain.

 Most likely to have unrealistic expectations.

 Highly emotional about small things.

I am not bitter or angry, I just analyze the facts through the use of my god given brain. I can have just about any woman I desire. Face the facts, the truth is the truth. I am generalizing, isn’t that sad!!!

I have been reading this web page for about a year and I am sick and tired of hearing……”the primary reason a western man would bed, date, or marry a Thai lady is because they cannot in there own country”.

I cannot argue that in some cases this is true, but in my world, it is far from the majority. I own and operate a company which manufactures high-tech goods for the military and have had the pleasure of traveling across the globe for many years. I associate with people whom are in the same business as I and we (at least the majority) have come to the conclusion that asian ladies, particularly Thai, have much more to offer a man than any western woman. I will say that most of us are wealthy, not ugly, and in good physical shape.

Personally speaking, I would have and I have had no problem developing a relationship with a western woman if that were my desire. As a matter of fact, “good” American woman are much easier to “bed” than a “good” Thai lady; one night stands (or relationships in general) are very easy in the USA if you are attractive,but most of all, it is apparent you are wealthy.

I am married to a Thai lady whom is 6 years my junior, US masters educated, and in my eyes, absolutely beautiful. We met in BKK and she was by any standard very successful and over the years held several high ranking positions in both US and European firms located in BKK. Oddly enough and in comparison to successful western woman, she is very feminine, not overweight, possesses a high degree of true self-confidence, dresses like a woman, looks like a woman, and speaks like a woman, and carries herself like a woman. She is sensible and good with money, genuinely committed to our relationship, very family oriented, hard working, and does not diet to look great. She treats me very well and is very happy to do so but if she does not want to do something, she simply will not.

Let us review the facts about American woman…………….

 Fattest in the world.

 The highest maintenance.

 Highest rate of divorce.

 Most likely to cheat.

 Highest payout provided a divorce.

 Most likely to hate men.

 Most likely to nag, bitch, moan, complain.

 Most likely to have unrealistic expectations.

 Highly emotional about small things.

I am not bitter or angry, I just analyze the facts through the use of my god given brain. I can have just about any woman I desire. Face the facts, the truth is the truth. I am generalizing, isn’t that sad!!!

Ding! Ding! Ding! Jackpot!

this post is gettin tedious lads...

I am not bitter or angry, I just analyze the facts through the use of my god given brain. I can have just about any woman I desire.

Sure, sure, not angry at all. What a BIG brain god has given you.

Your "objective analysis" might sit better in the 'joke of the day' subforum...

MAHI, I have American women friends and they are NOT what you said at all..........maybe you are mixing with the wrong crowd of American women.

There are a lot of Thai women who are fat too and dress like men...........maybe you just dont care to look at them or bypass them to look at only the beautiful women (no doubt its natural)................so you think ALL Thai women are "suay mak mak"

P/S Are there any American ladies here who would stand for this?? Oh well, maybe its not worth debating as "men are men and we can never change their hard-headed opinions" (as per Mahi, I am generalising)

Let us review the facts about American woman…………….

 Fattest in the world.

 The highest maintenance.

 Highest rate of divorce.

 Most likely to cheat.

 Highest payout provided a divorce.

 Most likely to hate men.

 Most likely to nag, bitch, moan, complain.

 Most likely to have unrealistic expectations.

 Highly emotional about small things.

I am not bitter or angry, I just analyze the facts through the use of my god given brain. I can have just about any woman I desire. Face the facts, the truth is the truth. I am generalizing, isn’t that sad!!!

Mahi, from these "facts" you've provided us, it sounds like whatever the nationality/ethnic background, what you're telling us is that you want a woman who is rational, faithful, caring, and can speak her mind without being too much of a complainer. I think it can safely be said that a lot of men and women - regardless of their own background and that of their significant other- would want all of the same things from their partners.

So why, why, why must you make cruel generalizations about American women and call them facts? If anything, my friends, and I are more like your Thai wife than the picture of the slutty, obese, miserable "American woman" you've painted for us. Read more of the posts here and you'll see that my friends and I are not alone on this - there are so many women posting here that are very "un-American" if we use your definition...oh, and they are the first to defend men like you when you are the victim of unfair generalizations about farang men!

What about a Thai american woman?

Don't stretch MAHI's mental abilities beyond his limits!