What Am I Doing Wrong In My Relationship?

[TheGameJustIs]

who have multiple wives or who have a wife and several girl friends on the side. I have even heard that the wife's pick out suitable girl friends for their husbands and it makes me sick to my stomach because i know if i ever cheated on my wife she would never forgive me and would be on the phone with the lawyers planning to sue me, etc. it seems like every week i here about some story from my Thai friend about whose father or husband is moving in a second wife. I guess there are some things I didn't learn in college or can't learn in a book.

Thai (Asian) men are ridiculously good at handling women. Please, can someone teach me how do I learn their magic? Do nice guys always finish last? I want three wives and I want all them to be happy with the situation and fight over my attention and treat me like a king.

[misterme]

Just because you like the sounds of part of the story, doesn't mean you'd be happy with the whole deal

An expression about the tip of the iceburg sounds like it might fit here... be careful what you wish for.

[soihok]

OK . Firstly you need to learn how to be a git, have no moral values, a deep pocket,have no problem explaining to your kids of various women that they have brothers an sisters who have another Mum but you are their Dad.

Be on your toes to be sure your John Thomas is,nt sliced off in the night and tied to a balloon and launched into orbit over a beauitful Asian night sky.

Go for it boy.

Rather you than me.

Have you heard of David Koresh?

Edited February 20, 2008 by soihok

[TheGameJustIs]

exactly. i would not have the first clue where to start. so how did these thai males learn it? did their gym teachers teach them this while the girls were learning to make som tum? did their fathers teach them? these guys are such players. they dont even sneak around about it. Honey today I am getting a new wife so I wont be back until next week... and she just falls in line recognizing who the boss is. Its insane. So here I am, Mr. Businessman and I can never convince my wife that its a good idea that I have another wife. Never, not a chance in the world. Yet a man with no education is an expert on handling women. These Thai guys make me jealous.

[soihok]

In the eyes of the ladies prehaps the guys are worthless.

And you are not.

[tw25rw]

who have multiple wives or who have a wife and several girl friends on the side. I have even heard that the wife's pick out suitable girl friends for their husbands and it makes me sick to my stomach because i know if i ever cheated on my wife she would never forgive me and would be on the phone with the lawyers planning to sue me, etc. it seems like every week i here about some story from my Thai friend about whose father or husband is moving in a second wife. I guess there are some things I didn't learn in college or can't learn in a book.

Thai (Asian) men are ridiculously good at handling women. Please, can someone teach me how do I learn their magic? Do nice guys always finish last? I want three wives and I want all them to be happy with the situation and fight over my attention and treat me like a king.

Normal male behaviour isn't it? As long as he remembers who to go home to, the wife should just grin and bear it.

[mrbojangles]

... be careful what you wish for.

I once wished for a threesome. I should have been more specific

[soihok]

Not only Thailand.

Here on our construction job we have an Engineer called Joe.

Joe is A Filippino and is married , his wife is in the Philippines, but Joe (who is 50 something) has a 20 year old Filippino bit of crumpet living with him.

Funny thing is that Joes son,also early 20 something ,is living in the same apartment as them.

I have,nt asked if they all share the same room....yet.

Nice one Joe,,,,showing his son how to do it.....literally.

[Smithson]

A lot of Thai-Chinese men don't register their marriages, giving the wife little to claim for if she wants to divorce. Despite what you've heard, most will kept it a secret. They are always vague about where they are going/have been and let it be known questions aren't appreciated.

For the mia noi, they will look after her well, even give her a nice car to drive, but will avoid putting anything in her name. So if she leaves it's empty handed. They will also turn a blind eye to mia nois having blokes on the side, provided they are discreet.

If you're interested in a family life that has no trust and a lot of deception, a 2nd wife could be for you. But despite the boasting I don't think it's all that much fun.

Mum's don't seem to mind their sons having multi GF's, they will even boast about it and say they are 'keng'. The seem to encourage them from an early age.

[Eric1949]

exactly. i would not have the first clue where to start. so how did these thai males learn it? did their gym teachers teach them this while the girls were learning to make som tum? did their fathers teach them? these guys are such players. they dont even sneak around about it. Honey today I am getting a new wife so I wont be back until next week... and she just falls in line recognizing who the boss is. Its insane. So here I am, Mr. Businessman and I can never convince my wife that its a good idea that I have another wife. Never, not a chance in the world. Yet a man with no education is an expert on handling women. These Thai guys make me jealous.

Just be thankful with one.Imagine multiple wives all nagging you at the same time