Meeting Thai Ladies

[cheynewalk]

I find it hard to believe that many men still consider their best options for meeting Thai ladies are in bars where one pays for their services. I remember reading on a thread here a while back that with Thai ladies its a matter of knowing which buttons to press.

May I also suggest it's more a matter of choosing the best ladies to meet? If you're aiming to date some pretty dolly bird that spends all day looking at herself in the mirror, then I think you have your work cut out. However there are many nice ladies out there in the 40 plus age range, divorced with perhaps 1 or 2 grown up children and in some poorly paid, dead end job.

A lot of these ladies would enjoy nothing more to alleviate the monotony of their lives than to be treated to dinner at a nice restaurant and some good sex afterwards. I have met several Thai ladies this way and it sure beats bar girls. And not just Thai ladies, I have had similar experiences with ladies in Vietnam, Bali and Malaysia. I think we all have the same needs deep down, all it takes is a little respect, charm and good manners.

The trick is, how to keep it casual (if that's what you want), rather than a full blown relationship.

[slapout]

I have been waiting for someone with experience to point me in the right direction. older women or men for that matter, 'appreciate it more', no, 'I love you' lets just enjoy what we can give at this time of our lives. Does Thailand have a retired or elderly citizen meeting place? Maybe a retired bargirl or airline hostess club would be a start. You have my undivided attention, but please tell us where to go to find these lonesome damsels. A friend of mine is looking for what you describe, but he wants her to be beautiful, in a mature way, and have false teeth.

[BigSnake]

I find it hard to believe that many men still consider their best options for meeting Thai ladies are in bars where one pays for their services. I remember reading on a thread here a while back that with Thai ladies its a matter of knowing which buttons to press.

May I also suggest it's more a matter of choosing the best ladies to meet? If you're aiming to date some pretty dolly bird that spends all day looking at herself in the mirror, then I think you have your work cut out. However there are many nice ladies out there in the 40 plus age range, divorced with perhaps 1 or 2 grown up children and in some poorly paid, dead end job.

A lot of these ladies would enjoy nothing more to alleviate the monotony of their lives than to be treated to dinner at a nice restaurant and some good sex afterwards. I have met several Thai ladies this way and it sure beats bar girls. And not just Thai ladies, I have had similar experiences with ladies in Vietnam, Bali and Malaysia. I think we all have the same needs deep down, all it takes is a little respect, charm and good manners.

The trick is, how to keep it casual (if that's what you want), rather than a full blown relationship.

Let's be real here friend the only Thai LADIES that wants anything(been seen) to do with a Farang are those that work in the bars. Yeah you are right on about the 40 plus range, divorced, 1 or 2 grown children , for YOU, yes YOU to support and don't be surprise if the ex-husband is still in the picture. I think you are kidding yourself about the nice restautant and good sex afterward thing, that is their MO!! "been there done that"(seen that)

[jdinasia]

Let's be real here friend the only Thai LADIES that wants anything(been seen) to do with a Farang are those that work in the bars.

Guess we know YOUR experience in Thailand

[kash]

I find it hard to believe that many men still consider their best options for meeting Thai ladies are in bars where one pays for their services. I remember reading on a thread here a while back that with Thai ladies its a matter of knowing which buttons to press.

May I also suggest it's more a matter of choosing the best ladies to meet? If you're aiming to date some pretty dolly bird that spends all day looking at herself in the mirror, then I think you have your work cut out. However there are many nice ladies out there in the 40 plus age range, divorced with perhaps 1 or 2 grown up children and in some poorly paid, dead end job.

A lot of these ladies would enjoy nothing more to alleviate the monotony of their lives than to be treated to dinner at a nice restaurant and some good sex afterwards. I have met several Thai ladies this way and it sure beats bar girls. And not just Thai ladies, I have had similar experiences with ladies in Vietnam, Bali and Malaysia. I think we all have the same needs deep down, all it takes is a little respect, charm and good manners.

The trick is, how to keep it casual (if that's what you want), rather than a full blown relationship.

Let's be real here friend the only Thai LADIES that wants anything(been seen) to do with a Farang are those that work in the bars. Yeah you are right on about the 40 plus range, divorced, 1 or 2 grown children , for YOU, yes YOU to support and don't be surprise if the ex-husband is still in the picture. I think you are kidding yourself about the nice restautant and good sex afterward thing, that is their MO!! "been there done that"(seen that)

so we may deduct then that your wife is a bargirl then?

[PhilHarries]

so we may deduct then that your wife is a bargirl then?

Anything wrong with ex bar girls then? Are they not human beings too, capable of all the range of human feelings you experience? Or do you classify them as a sub-species, untermenschen I think the last lot called such people who didn't fit their ideals. There is a lot of folk on TV who seem to take great delight in maintaining an aloof attitude and looking down their noses at such girls and any men who, heaven forbid, actually talk to them and treat them as fellow homo sapiens.

To the OP and BigSnake. Yes you can meet Thai ladies in the age frame you mention with a family, abandoned by the husband who will be only too pleased with a bit of attention and TLC. Yes some of these ladies will be looking for long term relationship with family support and yes some of these ladies will be gold diggers with Thai manfriends. To the OP specifically, if you are just out for casual sex why waste money on meals etc? Just get a bar girl for the night.

You can also meet Thai ladies of your own age group without the instant family who, with a bit of effort, you can get to know sufficiently well to form a relationship leading to romance + +. This is as much down to you as to them, it is what we call life and, in general, the more effort it takes the more it is worth it in the end when everything clicks into place.

[a2396]

I find it hard to believe that many men still consider their best options for meeting Thai ladies are in bars where one pays for their services. I remember reading on a thread here a while back that with Thai ladies its a matter of knowing which buttons to press.

May I also suggest it's more a matter of choosing the best ladies to meet? If you're aiming to date some pretty dolly bird that spends all day looking at herself in the mirror, then I think you have your work cut out. However there are many nice ladies out there in the 40 plus age range, divorced with perhaps 1 or 2 grown up children and in some poorly paid, dead end job.

A lot of these ladies would enjoy nothing more to alleviate the monotony of their lives than to be treated to dinner at a nice restaurant and some good sex afterwards. I have met several Thai ladies this way and it sure beats bar girls. And not just Thai ladies, I have had similar experiences with ladies in Vietnam, Bali and Malaysia. I think we all have the same needs deep down, all it takes is a little respect, charm and good manners.

The trick is, how to keep it casual (if that's what you want), rather than a full blown relationship.

Casual sex, non-commital relationship with 40+ Thai lady? Maybe on your street corners. Not many like this where I live in LOS.

[Naam]

A friend of mine is looking for what you describe, but he wants her to be beautiful, in a mature way, and have false teeth.

he is quite quite obviously a connoisseur who likes "gum jobs"

[MISTERBONK]

"Once bitten - twice shy"

[TopDogger]

40 plus age range, divorced with perhaps 1 or 2 grown up children and in some poorly paid, dead end job.

You must have your work cutout pulling them.

[TopDogger]

Let's be real here friend the only Thai LADIES that wants anything(been seen) to do with a Farang are those that work in the bars.

Is there a most ignorant post of the day award? Or maybe telling youself that makes you feel better...

Edited April 9, 2008 by TopDogger

[CarlBkk]

Let's be real here friend the only Thai LADIES that wants anything(been seen) to do with a Farang are those that work in the bars.

What sub-culture in Thailand do you socialise in? Please....if you don't really know this country and its people, don't pretend you do.

[bkkmick]

Let's be real here friend the only Thai LADIES that wants anything(been seen) to do with a Farang are those that work in the bars.

What a tosser.

[AaBbCcDd]

I find it hard to believe that many men still consider their best options for meeting Thai ladies are in bars where one pays for their services. I remember reading on a thread here a while back that with Thai ladies its a matter of knowing which buttons to press.

May I also suggest it's more a matter of choosing the best ladies to meet? If you're aiming to date some pretty dolly bird that spends all day looking at herself in the mirror, then I think you have your work cut out. However there are many nice ladies out there in the 40 plus age range, divorced with perhaps 1 or 2 grown up children and in some poorly paid, dead end job.

A lot of these ladies would enjoy nothing more to alleviate the monotony of their lives than to be treated to dinner at a nice restaurant and some good sex afterwards. I have met several Thai ladies this way and it sure beats bar girls. And not just Thai ladies, I have had similar experiences with ladies in Vietnam, Bali and Malaysia. I think we all have the same needs deep down, all it takes is a little respect, charm and good manners.

The trick is, how to keep it casual (if that's what you want), rather than a full blown relationship.

Let's be real here friend the only Thai LADIES that wants anything(been seen) to do with a Farang are those that work in the bars. Yeah you are right on about the 40 plus range, divorced, 1 or 2 grown children , for YOU, yes YOU to support and don't be surprise if the ex-husband is still in the picture. I think you are kidding yourself about the nice restautant and good sex afterward thing, that is their MO!! "been there done that"(seen that)

I couldn't disagree more, I have friends who say that all Thai girls are the same, that they are all prostitutes. This really frustrates me, it is so narrow minded and misguided!

[freitag1]

I think you can meet absolutely sincere, nice, well educated and honest Thai ladies in bars. Lots of them, they are everywhere. Just keep in mind that you must be sure that your women is different. Just keep on telling that to yourself and you will get what you deserve.

[britmaveric]

Don't need to visit bars to find lovely thai ladies. They are everywhere - eliminate dosh from the equation, and you can gauge easy enough if its the dosh or you that's most important.

Edited April 9, 2008 by britmaveric

[Pundi64]

I find it hard to believe that many men still consider their best options for meeting Thai ladies are in bars where one pays for their services. I remember reading on a thread here a while back that with Thai ladies its a matter of knowing which buttons to press.

May I also suggest it's more a matter of choosing the best ladies to meet? If you're aiming to date some pretty dolly bird that spends all day looking at herself in the mirror, then I think you have your work cut out. However there are many nice ladies out there in the 40 plus age range, divorced with perhaps 1 or 2 grown up children and in some poorly paid, dead end job.

A lot of these ladies would enjoy nothing more to alleviate the monotony of their lives than to be treated to dinner at a nice restaurant and some good sex afterwards. I have met several Thai ladies this way and it sure beats bar girls. And not just Thai ladies, I have had similar experiences with ladies in Vietnam, Bali and Malaysia. I think we all have the same needs deep down, all it takes is a little respect, charm and good manners.

The trick is, how to keep it casual (if that's what you want), rather than a full blown relationship.

Still not a real deal if all you have to do is wine, dine and good sex after dinner, way too simple. I'm sure an older, if not any Thai woman, wants to get to know and understand this new person in her life, if you think just having dinner together, rewards you with sex, then ????? maybe your barking up the wrong leg.

Edited April 9, 2008 by Pundi64

[MISTERBONK]

Still not a real deal if all you have to do is wine, dine and good sex after dinner, way too simple. I'm sure an older, if not any Thai woman, wants to get to know and understand this new person in her life, if you think just having dinner together, rewards you with sex, then ????? maybe your barking up the wrong leg.

You want to find a good Thai girl? It takes time and cannot be done during a 2/3 week holiday! Here's one option. But you must have a fair smattering of the Thai language

1) Go to a large industrial complex, and find an eating shop near the factory gates around lunchtime

2) Park yourself in the shop and have a drink and/or something to eat

3) Watch the girls arrive for their lunch - usually in small groups. They will quickly notice you. Smile at them especially if there is one you like.

4) Repeat this over successive days (change eating place if you see nothing you like). Eventually one or more will come and speak with you. Then arrange a meeting- same place- after work and take it from there.

5) Don't rush things. Be patient. Let her get to know you and trust you. Don't touch her and remember that even holding hands in public is frowned upon. If you are near a beach go in the evening, stroll along the sand under the moonlight, THEN try and hold her hand.

Good luck!

[a2396]

Still not a real deal if all you have to do is wine, dine and good sex after dinner, way too simple. I'm sure an older, if not any Thai woman, wants to get to know and understand this new person in her life, if you think just having dinner together, rewards you with sex, then ????? maybe your barking up the wrong leg.

You want to find a good Thai girl? It takes time and cannot be done during a 2/3 week holiday! Here's one option. But you must have a fair smattering of the Thai language

1) Go to a large industrial complex, and find an eating shop near the factory gates around lunchtime

2) Park yourself in the shop and have a drink and/or something to eat

3) Watch the girls arrive for their lunch - usually in small groups. They will quickly notice you. Smile at them especially if there is one you like.

4) Repeat this over successive days (change eating place if you see nothing you like). Eventually one or more will come and speak with you. Then arrange a meeting- same place- after work and take it from there.

5) Don't rush things. Be patient. Let her get to know you and trust you. Don't touch her and remember that even holding hands in public is frowned upon. If you are near a beach go in the evening, stroll along the sand under the moonlight, THEN try and hold her hand.

Good luck!

So, how many have you gotten beyond hand-holding with (if you know what I mean)?

[tartempion]

It really only depends on how stupid the farang is.

A farang in the village wrote to one of his friends that a nice well educated 25 years old (already divorced with one child ) was looking to marry a friendly farang. They exchanged a few letters, he took a plane and married her on the spot He was only 40 years older than the lady, but that should not be of any concern. She was soooo beautifull.

A real bitch, but he did not see it that way.

They lived for 5 years in Thailand, then his declining health decided him to return to his home country, living on a simple retirement pension. I new the sweet lady did not see it that way. She used him to get permanent residency in Europe.

Now can we do that when we bring our dosh to Thailand? Obviousely the lady in question has no doush on her own.

February and March she came to the village to visit her son and family.

Yesterday I got news from the man who became my friend that his lady did not return to him after her trip but was living in France with a newly acquired farang and she asked for a divorce.

Nice non-BG bitch , but the only stupid in this story is my friend.

Thousands of them lose their brains once they get LOSt in the Land Of Smiles

Welcome to the Land of Lost Brains

[Dakhar]

It has been said, You don't pay her for the sex, you pay her to leave AFTER the sex.

So maybe folks cruising the bar scene really are not looking for that "special one."

Folks good luck for those in search... because really it is a crap shoot where ever you find "love."

[Dakhar]

Still not a real deal if all you have to do is wine, dine and good sex after dinner, way too simple. I'm sure an older, if not any Thai woman, wants to get to know and understand this new person in her life, if you think just having dinner together, rewards you with sex, then ????? maybe your barking up the wrong leg.

You want to find a good Thai girl? It takes time and cannot be done during a 2/3 week holiday! Here's one option. But you must have a fair smattering of the Thai language

1) Go to a large industrial complex, and find an eating shop near the factory gates around lunchtime

2) Park yourself in the shop and have a drink and/or something to eat

3) Watch the girls arrive for their lunch - usually in small groups. They will quickly notice you. Smile at them especially if there is one you like.

4) Repeat this over successive days (change eating place if you see nothing you like). Eventually one or more will come and speak with you. Then arrange a meeting- same place- after work and take it from there.

5) Don't rush things. Be patient. Let her get to know you and trust you. Don't touch her and remember that even holding hands in public is frowned upon. If you are near a beach go in the evening, stroll along the sand under the moonlight, THEN try and hold her hand.

Good luck!

Just make sure the restaruant has wheel chair access.

[Ping]

Yet another variation on the Thai good girls/bad girls theme. A thread that is certain to attract many readers to the OP's other posts. Cheynewalk, if you are wondering why some people treated your post 'lightly', it is because you will find that this type of thread is typical of trolls. Unfortunately, trolling is a regular pastime for some people and an unfortunate outcome is that sometimes genuine posts are mistaken for trolls. Yours has some of the hallmarks. However, unless a post is a blatant troll, many people prefer to give the benefit of doubt (having checked the poster's other posts for 'form'). In any event, your post was amusing, so good luck to you.

[MISTERBONK]

So, how many have you gotten beyond hand-holding with (if you know what I mean)?

Only 1. It worked a treat. And she was a virgin to boot!

[pop_corn]

omg, where are the normal ones here.. ! lol...... (not talking about Thai women)

[dee123]

...hey wait, whats wrong with a slapper ....in hollywood its a sign of success.....

Edited April 10, 2008 by dee123

[TopDogger]

You want to find a good Thai girl? It takes time and cannot be done during a 2/3 week holiday! Here's one option. But you must have a fair smattering of the Thai language

1) Go to a large industrial complex, and find an eating shop near the factory gates around lunchtime

2) Park yourself in the shop and have a drink and/or something to eat

3) Watch the girls arrive for their lunch - usually in small groups. They will quickly notice you. Smile at them especially if there is one you like.

4) Repeat this over successive days (change eating place if you see nothing you like). Eventually one or more will come and speak with you. Then arrange a meeting- same place- after work and take it from there.

5) Don't rush things. Be patient. Let her get to know you and trust you. Don't touch her and remember that even holding hands in public is frowned upon. If you are near a beach go in the evening, stroll along the sand under the moonlight, THEN try and hold her hand.

Good luck!

Wierdo.

[MISTERBONK]

Wierdo.

Wierdo? You think it's wierd to persue a woman in the way thats been done for thousands of years. Treat her with kindness and respect. Get to know each other and see what if anything you have together.

Perhaps you think it's more acceptable and normal to visit a bar, fondle a few girls, pay a bar fine and whisk some previously unknown hooker off to your hotel and indulge in vaginal oral and possibly anal sex with her in exchange for a few meagre baht.

It's people like that who are wierdo's my friend!

[slapout]

To each his own. But for those of us who have been succesful in finding the lady of our dreams, where ever and what ever approach was used, we found them and it seems to have worked. As everyone seems to have different ideas regarding the subject and I would guess there are hundreds of different circumstances relating to where, how, etc these meeting took place, we all should be more open minded. Those who are still looking may not want too much competation so they might with hold their game plan. If you asked your mother or Grandmother where to find a good woman they might mention going to church. Doubt if there is a single answer that would please everyone.

[Naam]

Perhaps you think it's more acceptable and normal to visit a bar, fondle a few girls, pay a bar fine and whisk some previously unknown hooker off to your hotel and indulge in vaginal oral and possibly anal sex with her in exchange for a few meagre baht.

It's people like that who are wierdo's my friend!

do weirdos like these really exist?