1234567890 Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Hello! I am currently in a situation that should be fairly common for more seasoned expats and experts on Thai culture. This seems to be the best place to ask. I have been dating a Thai girl for about half a year. Everything is going real well. She acts more farang and we are in what would be considered a western-style relationship. I am falling in love, but due to the well-know presence of ladyboys I'm still a little hesitant. Everything leads me to believe she is a genuine woman. All the parts are anatomically accurate (I don't mean to claim myself an expert, but I do know my way around a woman's body very well), and even IDs are all in order. However, she says that she doesn't think she can have children due to a couple abortions in the past and few years of unsucsessful attempts at conception in her last serious relationship. Anytime she says this, I am a bit shaken because I want to have my own children someday. She says she believes a doctor could help her get pregnant, but the whole situation in Thailand makes me wonder if this is all a cover up. There seems to be a proceedure for everything to make a 100% woman, but I was wondering if there is anything that can't be faked? Is there someway of verifing this before we get to serious? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lazeeboy Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 if her id is real then its a girl ,if you look down there you can see a difference Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thesunset75 Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 if her id is real then its a girl ,if you look down there you can see a difference LOL I Agree easy though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dee123 Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 (edited) HAIRY ARSE !! Edited September 9, 2008 by dee123 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayo Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 ask her if she likes having her prostate massaged... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarlBkk Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Hello! I am currently in a situation that should be fairly common for more seasoned expats and experts on Thai culture. This seems to be the best place to ask.I have been dating a Thai girl for about half a year. Everything is going real well. She acts more farang and we are in what would be considered a western-style relationship. I am falling in love, but due to the well-know presence of ladyboys I'm still a little hesitant. Everything leads me to believe she is a genuine woman. All the parts are anatomically accurate (I don't mean to claim myself an expert, but I do know my way around a woman's body very well), and even IDs are all in order. However, she says that she doesn't think she can have children due to a couple abortions in the past and few years of unsucsessful attempts at conception in her last serious relationship. Anytime she says this, I am a bit shaken because I want to have my own children someday. She says she believes a doctor could help her get pregnant, but the whole situation in Thailand makes me wonder if this is all a cover up. There seems to be a proceedure for everything to make a 100% woman, but I was wondering if there is anything that can't be faked? Is there someway of verifing this before we get to serious? Even if she's a girl, alarm bells are ringing loudly at a Thai girl having not one but two abortions. It's not typical under any circumstance. Is she Buddhist? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrt273nva Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Even if they have been neutered and tucked you can see if she is a woman or not by looking at her Thai ID, preferably a Thai passport if they have one. Thai's can not change their gender of birth on these documents. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Svenn Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Respect her either way whatever the outcome, ignore the grunts of the unclean whitrash masses that will feast on your post. If one of her IDs u mentioned is her passport, and she's successfully been with you outside the country using it, I'd assume it's probably authentic? It's not easy to know, contrary to what many people think, unless you're are indeed an old bar rat that has been around a lot, or are Thai yourself (it's much more apparent to those of their fellow race than Westerners looking in). Another hint is if she requires lube everytime, never has period, long hands/feet, or has a straight, non-curving waist. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
petitechevre Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 im not sure.. i mean threy only teach that in 6th grade.. but don't real woman have natural lubrificant in abondance in their vagina? aren't ladyboys using lubrificant to have sex? Unless you're old and fat, this should be a fairly easy test.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wrong Turn Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Look at the feet.....my friend did.....after the fact......... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrt273nva Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 sure many people here will tell you that if you are happy with him/her then it shouldn't matter. but i say that a relationship that was built on deceit won't last. but good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onethailand Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 slightly deep voice? over-exaggerated mannerisms? Adam's apple? Honestly - if the only thing that makes you wonder is the fact that she might not be able to have children... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrt273nva Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Honestly - if the only thing that makes you wonder is the fact that she might not be able to have children... i would be angry, embarrassed, depressed, suicidal if some man that has issues with his gender tricked me into a relationship only to find out later that i've been bumming a dude. i say to each their own, but for me, gender is from birth, everything else is just a bit odd. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maigo6 Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 , but for me, gender is from birth, everything else is just a bit odd. I agree, but it's not politically correct to say so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stephaniee Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 (edited) dont check below the waist. check the boobs, real girls boobs cant be surgicaly produced! seriously if you have doubts you should find a real girl, not that hard to find one that you can tell is a girl wo hesitation. Edited September 9, 2008 by stephaniee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dee123 Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 check the boobies ....sounds fine wit me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phaethon Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Look at the feet.....my friend did.....after the fact......... Yes, this is the only reliable test. Turn your GF upside-down and examine the feet. By law all Thai products have to be stamped "Made in Thailand" - if this is on the bottom of the right foot it's a boy, left foot it's a girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dee123 Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 (edited) Look at the feet.....my friend did.....after the fact......... Yes, this is the only reliable test. Turn your GF upside-down and examine the feet. By law all Thai products have to be stamped "Made in Thailand" - if this is on the bottom of the right foot it's a boy, left foot it's a girl. simple but effective proffessor. Edited September 9, 2008 by dee123 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kiakaha Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Hello! I am currently in a situation that should be fairly common for more seasoned expats and experts on Thai culture. This seems to be the best place to ask.I have been dating a Thai girl for about half a year. Everything is going real well. She acts more farang and we are in what would be considered a western-style relationship. I am falling in love, but due to the well-know presence of ladyboys I'm still a little hesitant. Everything leads me to believe she is a genuine woman. All the parts are anatomically accurate (I don't mean to claim myself an expert, but I do know my way around a woman's body very well), and even IDs are all in order. However, she says that she doesn't think she can have children due to a couple abortions in the past and few years of unsucsessful attempts at conception in her last serious relationship. Anytime she says this, I am a bit shaken because I want to have my own children someday. She says she believes a doctor could help her get pregnant, but the whole situation in Thailand makes me wonder if this is all a cover up. There seems to be a proceedure for everything to make a 100% woman, but I was wondering if there is anything that can't be faked? Is there someway of verifing this before we get to serious? Either you are taking the piss or you are just another candidate for "all aboard the dumb bus". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluffer Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Hello! I am currently in a situation that should be fairly common for more seasoned expats and experts on Thai culture. This seems to be the best place to ask.I have been dating a Thai girl for about half a year. Everything is going real well. She acts more farang and we are in what would be considered a western-style relationship. I am falling in love, but due to the well-know presence of ladyboys I'm still a little hesitant. Everything leads me to believe she is a genuine woman. All the parts are anatomically accurate (I don't mean to claim myself an expert, but I do know my way around a woman's body very well), and even IDs are all in order. However, she says that she doesn't think she can have children due to a couple abortions in the past and few years of unsucsessful attempts at conception in her last serious relationship. Anytime she says this, I am a bit shaken because I want to have my own children someday. She says she believes a doctor could help her get pregnant, but the whole situation in Thailand makes me wonder if this is all a cover up. There seems to be a proceedure for everything to make a 100% woman, but I was wondering if there is anything that can't be faked? Is there someway of verifing this before we get to serious? take her home and shag her or at least take her home and get a good feel! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
qwertz Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 You can't fake bone structure. The rib cage alone will tell you the difference and answer your question, or did you never do anatomy at school? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaoPo Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 ask her if she likes having her prostate massaged... How would YOU know ? LaoPo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kiakaha Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 this should help.....on a scale of 1 to 10, how easy was it to procure the "backstage pass" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheAceFace Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 There's got to be some scars if the meat and two veg has been chopped off, and if there's big jugs involved, well then they have just not appeared over night. Reckon the OP is on a wind-up. Funny spot to be in though heheheheh. Agree on the feet diagnosis, defo give away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soutpeel Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 Hello! I am currently in a situation that should be fairly common for more seasoned expats and experts on Thai culture. This seems to be the best place to ask.I have been dating a Thai girl for about half a year. Everything is going real well. She acts more farang and we are in what would be considered a western-style relationship. I am falling in love, but due to the well-know presence of ladyboys I'm still a little hesitant. Everything leads me to believe she is a genuine woman. All the parts are anatomically accurate (I don't mean to claim myself an expert, but I do know my way around a woman's body very well), and even IDs are all in order. However, she says that she doesn't think she can have children due to a couple abortions in the past and few years of unsucsessful attempts at conception in her last serious relationship. Anytime she says this, I am a bit shaken because I want to have my own children someday. She says she believes a doctor could help her get pregnant, but the whole situation in Thailand makes me wonder if this is all a cover up. There seems to be a proceedure for everything to make a 100% woman, but I was wondering if there is anything that can't be faked? Is there someway of verifing this before we get to serious? Sniff test...cant fake it....a mate of mine swears by it.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stephaniee Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 sniff WHAT? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soutpeel Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 sniff WHAT? If you cant figure that one out...not going to explain it to you in graphic detail, but lets just say it has something to do with the smell of fish.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boater Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 sniff WHAT? If you cant figure that one out...not going to explain it to you in graphic detail, but lets just say it has something to do with the smell of fish.... i understand your test.... but if all the women your mate goes with smell like that down under, he is picking the wrong one everytime Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heng Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 Not a good idea to bet the farm on a piece of plastic (ID). Yes, they can be faked AND bought. If they have the determination to cut off their genitals, a move that is completely against most natural human instincts, then they probably have the 'balls' to go out and get a fake id. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midasthailand Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 this should help.....on a scale of 1 to 10, how easy was it to procure the "backstage pass" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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