Yes and no.

When I was 20 I liked women of 40. I still like women of 40.

your in the lions den metro girl.

Better get that whip out Metrogirl.

Why don't you try yours first, sis?

Older women are OK

they don't swell

they don't tell

they don't yell

and they appreciate it like hel_l

And what`s wrong with dating older women?

The OP was 'Dating Older Women' not ' Dating Old Fossils.' Give me a younger man anyday.

You're only as young as the man you feel.

Edited October 30, 200817 yr by Swanky

The OP was 'Dating Older Women' not ' Dating Old Fossils.' Give me a younger man anyday.

You're only as young as the man you feel.

Do you prefer to be referred to as a <deleted> or a Cougar ?

And what`s wrong with dating older women?

I would date that one at circa 1908

I'm just swanky

And what`s wrong with dating older women?

I would date that one at circa 1908

Hey-my mother fits that description and is still available and you would have the added benefit that she still drives her car around town (true)!

And what`s wrong with dating older women?

I would date that one at circa 1908

Hey-my mother fits that description and is still available and you would have the added benefit that she still drives her car around town (true)!

Can i have her number please ?

I never date a man who is younger than me. That's just weird. Men never mature even though they're older than me. If they're younger, they are like my grandsons.

too bad men dont look in the mirror... a man 20 yrs my senior yechchch..... flacid, wobbly belly, jowls, no hair in the right places, and too much baggage, geez... men, do take a long look at your fathers or look at u in the early morning after just waking up, that is you in 20 yrs down the line after u've worked too hard, played too hard, and drunk too hard.... why would a woman look at u ?????? older men are set in their ways, think too much of themselves, been there done that sort of attitude.... my husband(thai) is ten yr younger then me , cerrainly not rich, not much in the way of looks but loads of personality; fits me and my style (dont have a mirror worth using in the house cause its just not that important, i also dont look my age but thats thanx to genetics and mindset,and not through effort or makeup...

argh! once again i cant believe i even bothered to answer. boring morning i guess

bina

Bina, in many ways I think that you are SO,SO right!

What I find, personally, to be a major conundrum though is that (when I was in the UK) my "normal" long time girlfriends were around 20 years younger than I am (60).

However, in Thailand, my g/f (of two years) is seemingly happy to put up with all of those inadequacies.

She is a respectable, educated, lady (28) from a good family, who has never married, never worked in a bar, has no children and has a good position with a major Thai bank.

So!

Many times I have asked the same question, of myself, as the one that you posed - why me?

She is not interested in my cash (I don't have much anyway) and she knows that as my account is with her branch.

Sheesh, I am confused.

Which brings me back to the, original, point (reversed).

Why should having a very attractive g/f, 32 years my junior, make ME feel insecure - which it does?

I DO NOT mean that I feel threatened that someone younger could take her from me.

She does everything to please me and does NOT want money, only love and now a child!

too bad men dont look in the mirror... a man 20 yrs my senior yechchch..... flacid, wobbly belly, jowls, no hair in the right places, and too much baggage, geez... men, do take a long look at your fathers or look at u in the early morning after just waking up, that is you in 20 yrs down the line after u've worked too hard, played too hard, and drunk too hard.... why would a woman look at u ?????? older men are set in their ways, think too much of themselves, been there done that sort of attitude.... my husband(thai) is ten yr younger then me , cerrainly not rich, not much in the way of looks but loads of personality; fits me and my style (dont have a mirror worth using in the house cause its just not that important, i also dont look my age but thats thanx to genetics and mindset,and not through effort or makeup...

argh! once again i cant believe i even bothered to answer. boring morning i guess

bina

Bina, in many ways I think that you are SO,SO right!

What I find, personally, to be a major conundrum though is that (when I was in the UK) my "normal" long time girlfriends were around 20 years younger than I am (60).

However, in Thailand, my g/f (of two years) is seemingly happy to put up with all of those inadequacies.

She is a respectable, educated, lady (28) from a good family, who has never married, never worked in a bar, has no children and has a good position with a major Thai bank.

So!

Many times I have asked the same question, of myself, as the one that you posed - why me?

She is not interested in my cash (I don't have much anyway) and she knows that as my account is with her branch.

Sheesh, I am confused.

Which brings me back to the, original, point (reversed).

Why should having a very attractive g/f, 32 years my junior, make ME feel insecure - which it does?

I DO NOT mean that I feel threatened that someone younger could take her from me.

She does everything to please me and does NOT want money, only love and now a child!

My ex was 30 years older than me.

My 2 sisters down south have 6 and 8 years younger.

Nothing about age doesnt it ?

Its all about love-understanding.