Bitch Fight

[elin]

Hi, i'm a straight farang girl here - i just wanted to know, if any of you guys have ever competed with a farang girl, for the same cute thai or asian guy?

And what was the result? thanks

[Ijustwannateach]

nope- competed with a *Thai* girl, though, for my ex-, and won- had to leave him to get him to make a decision!

"Steven"

[davethailand]

What like handbags at dawn kinda style.

[Jai Dee]

What like handbags at dawn kinda style.

CLASSIC!!!

ROFLMAO

[Boo]

Call me old fashioned ladies, by why the <deleted> would you want to compete for a gay guy?

And sorry, but I don't "do" bisexual, your either one or the other or else your still confused & deciding which side of the bed to sit on IMO

[Ijustwannateach]

A friend of mine who teaches at a university here told me a funny story about his English composition class. A girl got up to read her essay on gender issues in Thailand and it started something like this [paraphrasing]:

"It is of course traditional for women to worry about whether their men are cheating on them, in Thailand or elsewhere. However, recently in Thailand, young women have the additional problem of worrying not only about their boyfriend's other girlfriends, but also his boyfriend!...."

I think, with the admirable lack of homophobia here, there is a bit less stigma on experimenting around with friends- though I agree with you, Boo, that eventually most people find one side of the fence or the other- if for no other reason, it's much less trouble that way!!!

"Steven"

[Boo]

Thats very funny Steven & fairly true for a lot of thai guys, forunately for me there was never a question about my husbands sexuality,he's all straight but besides, with his personal style, no gay guy would touch him with a barge pole! GQ he aint

[kat]

Call me old fashioned ladies, by why the <deleted> would you want to compete for a gay guy  

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Gotta agree with there, Boo. Love my gay male friends to death, but I don't want to ###### them. They are as cute as can be, though

[britmaveric]

Dunno maybe the challenge is the point of it???

[PeaceBlondie]

If I found myself seriously competing with a WOMAN, I'd walk out. The fact that my current boyfriend still had doubts, and doubts in that direction - it's over. Not that I walk out easily or give up easily, but that's no competition I'd care to compete in.

Just as I stopped acting straight, my wife fell in with a total loser. I said, "Go for it, babe - all he's got is length."

[alanw]

"It is of course traditional for women to worry about whether their men are cheating on them, in Thailand or elsewhere. However, recently in Thailand, young women have the additional problem of worrying not only about their boyfriend's other girlfriends, but also his boyfriend!...."

The "However, recently, ....." is not all really accurate. If you do some reading about Thai social interaction between males you will find that there is a long and interesting Thai history on this subject. Male - male relationships (sexual and non-sexual) has been a strong factor of Thai male interaction for a very long time.

I'll give just one example from my many years of living here, there are of course many other different examples of this subject. About 15 years ago, I lived in a very Thai (not cheap) apartment in Bkk. Near my apartment three Thais lived in adjoining rooms:

- The boyfriend

- The main player (a good looking, charming, polite, and sexy man)

- The girlfriend

All three went out together most nights of the week, when they came home the 'main player' then indicated who he wanted to sleep with for that night.

No drama whatever - for them it worked well.

I can recall mentioning this to some Thai colleagues - no surprise whatever, no judgemental comment.

[kat]

Nevermind. For the first time I deleted an entire post, because I simply don't even want to get into it. It's none of my business.

Edited January 19, 2005 by kat

[JemJem]

In the case that 'alanw' wrote here and in other similar cases, I think that as long as all the parties involved are happy, there should be no problem. Bisexuality is a fact of life and it is always here to stay. I wil repeat the thing I have written in the forum at least a couple of times before : I feel that for MOST of us humans, there is at least SOME degree of bisexuality....of course many people (both the ones identifying themselves as gay and also the ones identifying themselves as straight) would not be willing to admit this for various reasons.

I myself feel that in some ways I am bisexual but in terms of 'wanting to sleep with someone' and 'wanting to form a long-term relationship', I would definitely want a man...so I guess I would most likely be labelled as 'gay' not as 'bisexual'. I mean, after all, 'finding someone sexy' and 'wanting to sleep with them' are very different.

However...one thing I wanna add....I don't see why bisexuality should be more common in Thailand than in most other countries. Well I guess it is ADMITTED and SEEN OPENLY than in many other countries so that could mislead some to think it is more common in Thailand.

Cheers.

Jem

[PeaceBlondie]

Well, I wrote in haste and apparently we can't edit our posts in this forum. Anyway, I'm not in love with longterm monogamous relationships in the first place. So if boyfriend said he also had a girlfriend, I'd think about it.

[ChrisP]

^^

PeaceBlondie.. you should be able to edit something that you post here..

Seems that "kat" did....

Let me know if you can't.

ChrisP