runner Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 I have girlfriends that I sleep with but a lot of the time I don't give them any money. As soon as the demands for money crop up, I have to dump them. Is this wrong? It's just that I'm not exactly rich. I feel I'm a deadbeat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
patklang Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 1/ you should only have 1 gf 2/ how can they be gf if you are worried about paying them 3/ you sound about 8 years old Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moonrakers Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 What a chav. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moonrakers Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 The sad thing is that the OP is unlikely to be a troll, after looking at his profile and previous posts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GuestHouse Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Would you be asking this question in relation to girlfriends you've had or might have in your own country? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
runner Posted March 28, 2009 Author Share Posted March 28, 2009 Would you be asking this question in relation to girlfriends you've had or might have in your own country? I've never had a gf in my own country. But I find that most Thai ladies will ask for money after you've stayed with them. I'm okay with giving them some money, but they ask for crazy money sometimes. After all, I left the US because the girls are too expensive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tijnebijn Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Would you be asking this question in relation to girlfriends you've had or might have in your own country? If he could he probably wasn't here was he ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GuestHouse Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Would you be asking this question in relation to girlfriends you've had or might have in your own country? I've never had a gf in my own country. But I find that most Thai ladies will ask for money after you've stayed with them. I'm okay with giving them some money, but they ask for crazy money sometimes. After all, I left the US because the girls are too expensive. You mean you left on someone else's assertion that the girls were too expensive.... Have you considered that you were perhaps doing American women a favour by departing? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WorldwideALOHA Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 (edited) Don't worry. If you say no, they will leave you. If they don't leave, then you either have one of three things: 1. A very clever and dedicated con artist who will fleece you in the long run 2. A hideous beast 3. An incurable STD However, you may find that diamond in the rough and luck out. Aloha Edited March 28, 2009 by WorldwideALOHA Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RakJungTorlae Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Would you be asking this question in relation to girlfriends you've had or might have in your own country? I've never had a gf in my own country. But I find that most Thai ladies will ask for money after you've stayed with them. I'm okay with giving them some money, but they ask for crazy money sometimes. After all, I left the US because the girls are too expensive. Sorry I tried to reply BUT I am allergic to retards. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moonrakers Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 (edited) Would you be asking this question in relation to girlfriends you've had or might have in your own country? I've never had a gf in my own country. But I find that most Thai ladies will ask for money after you've stayed with them. I'm okay with giving them some money, but they ask for crazy money sometimes. After all, I left the US because the girls are too expensive. You mean you left on someone else's assertion that the girls were too expensive.... Have you considered that you were perhaps doing American women a favour by departing? Succint as always GH. Head, Nail and hammer. How much do they charge in the US anyway? Does one get a discount for having a personality? Edited March 28, 2009 by Moonrakers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DP25 Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Depends on the person. For you, it may be wrong to not give money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabum Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 I have girlfriends that I sleep with but a lot of the time I don't give them any money. As soon as the demands for money crop up, I have to dump them. Is this wrong? It's just that I'm not exactly rich. I feel I'm a deadbeat. This all demands on several factors: How elderly you are How hideously ugly you are How bald you are How fat and grotesque you are How horrible a human being you are How terrible at sex you are.... Well if you are an old fat sweaty nasty looking bastage then yes you should be paying and you are a deadbeat. If you're young and handsome then no you never should pay and yes you should dump them, if they beg and beg to come back and you liked them then let them come back, they won't ask again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moonrakers Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Depends on the person. For you, it may be wrong to not give money. That's the second time you've made me laugh this week. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndyBlueEyes Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 If a girl is better looking than you then you should give them money. If they are equal looking to them then no money is necessary. If you are much better looking than them then they should at least take you out to a restaurant or buy you something nice as a token of appreciation for a merci <deleted>. Since you say that you never had a gf in your own country, it appears that you must be such a charmer that it might be wise to keep a big stash of cash to give to the girls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
t.s Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 is it wrong to ask or answer stupid questions? -will my company pay my salary into 2 bank accounts? - what is the average thai salary? -is this my ass or a hole in the ground? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colino Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Easy answer Yes Whats happing to this site lately ?? Colino Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
runner Posted March 28, 2009 Author Share Posted March 28, 2009 I have girlfriends that I sleep with but a lot of the time I don't give them any money. As soon as the demands for money crop up, I have to dump them. Is this wrong? It's just that I'm not exactly rich. I feel I'm a deadbeat. This all demands on several factors: How elderly you are How hideously ugly you are How bald you are How fat and grotesque you are How horrible a human being you are How terrible at sex you are.... Well if you are an old fat sweaty nasty looking bastage then yes you should be paying and you are a deadbeat. If you're young and handsome then no you never should pay and yes you should dump them, if they beg and beg to come back and you liked them then let them come back, they won't ask again. I'm 28 and not fat or ugly. Besides, I don't think appearances is very relevant when it comes to this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yabaaaa Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 1/ you should only have 1 gf unless they can too have multiple b/f's/g/f's2/ how can they be gf if you are worried about paying them, does having a girlfriend require payment then?......I dont think so 3/ you sound about 8 years old.........6 i think? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lucifer Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Would you be asking this question in relation to girlfriends you've had or might have in your own country? I've never had a gf in my own country. But I find that most Thai ladies will ask for money after you've stayed with them. I'm okay with giving them some money, but they ask for crazy money sometimes. After all, I left the US because the girls are too expensive. You mean you left on someone else's assertion that the girls were too expensive.... Have you considered that you were perhaps doing American women a favour by departing? I think so too. Now do all us a favour, and leave Thailand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
waza Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 I have girlfriends that I sleep with but a lot of the time I don't give them any money. As soon as the demands for money crop up, I have to dump them. Is this wrong? It's just that I'm not exactly rich. I feel I'm a deadbeat. No, I think you are right. The deadbeats are the women who expect you to support them. There is no way I would employ someone to be my girlfriend, no matter which country I am in. But it does says a lot about those who disagree with this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
runner Posted March 28, 2009 Author Share Posted March 28, 2009 Would you be asking this question in relation to girlfriends you've had or might have in your own country? I've never had a gf in my own country. But I find that most Thai ladies will ask for money after you've stayed with them. I'm okay with giving them some money, but they ask for crazy money sometimes. After all, I left the US because the girls are too expensive. You mean you left on someone else's assertion that the girls were too expensive.... Have you considered that you were perhaps doing American women a favour by departing? Hmm. Well, they're not getting my cash. So I think they should be missing my business. I think so too. Now do all us a favour, and leave Thailand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barrybike Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 is it wrong to be an asshol_e.......... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabum Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 I have girlfriends that I sleep with but a lot of the time I don't give them any money. As soon as the demands for money crop up, I have to dump them. Is this wrong? It's just that I'm not exactly rich. I feel I'm a deadbeat. This all demands on several factors: How elderly you are How hideously ugly you are How bald you are How fat and grotesque you are How horrible a human being you are How terrible at sex you are.... Well if you are an old fat sweaty nasty looking bastage then yes you should be paying and you are a deadbeat. If you're young and handsome then no you never should pay and yes you should dump them, if they beg and beg to come back and you liked them then let them come back, they won't ask again. I'm 28 and not fat or ugly. Besides, I don't think appearances is very relevant when it comes to this. Of course appearance is relevant, this is THAILAND, it is common for young hot girls to "date" older ugly men (Thai and falang) and ask for money, rent, gifts etc.. so YES its totally relevant, however they dont get much out of young handsome men and they are with them out of attraction not money so YES YES YES its relevant, but sometimes they try anyway from falangs because the word is out we all pay and are stupid. Ok if you are 28 and decent looking then when a girl asks for money (assuming this is a regular gf or gig) then you should demonstrate taking offence at the very least and give the hint that you won't be buying squat, I actually dump their ass and let them beg to come back but thats just me. Only somewhat bad/naughty girls ask anyway, any of my gigs that have real jobs never dream of asking me for anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BEDBANDIT Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 if you take a working girl / bar girl then you should pay !!! i don't care if you think your good looking, your not ,you just seem like a better option .. looks wont pay her bills !!! and your not good looking ( like me - joke ) if your a falang ..... Thai like thai .......sure they put up with /can love a falang but its not because hes good looking ! i had a mate like you ,he thought he was a good looking young swedish lad ...... he didn't pay , thought he shouldn't have too he took the same girl twice , and on the second time , when he didn't offer any money ......he paid in a different kind of way later .....it was not a pretty site , alot of blood i do understand your point thou , why should i , a good looking 38 year old , pay the same amount as the fat ugly guy , buy maybe hes pays more ,some older people over here have alot more cash to throw around , and cash is king !!!! ( today (3.00pm) i saw a guy buy 20 tequila shots for 2 girls) . in a nutshell ...... you should always offer some money ....if its that kind of girl ...........don't be a cheap charlie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sabum Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 if you take a working girl / bar girl then you should pay !!! i don't care if you think your good looking, your not ,you just seem like a better option .. looks wont pay her bills !!!and your not good looking ( like me - joke ) if your a falang ..... Thai like thai .......sure they put up with /can love a falang but its not because hes good looking ! i had a mate like you ,he thought he was a good looking young swedish lad ...... he didn't pay , thought he shouldn't have too he took the same girl twice , and on the second time , when he didn't offer any money ......he paid in a different kind of way later .....it was not a pretty site , alot of blood i do understand your point thou , why should i , a good looking 38 year old , pay the same amount as the fat ugly guy , buy maybe hes pays more ,some older people over here have alot more cash to throw around , and cash is king !!!! ( today (3.00pm) i saw a guy buy 20 tequila shots for 2 girls) . in a nutshell ...... you should always offer some money ....if its that kind of girl ...........don't be a cheap charlie Bottom line no I was not talking about bargirls and neither was the op since he said they were girlfriends, if you take a bar girl and refuse to pay you are stealing and risking your life, unless it was agreed upon before hand that you were not going to pay, this does happen.... an extreme example is I had a handsome 19 year old friend.... half the bargirls wanted to go with him for free, it was really quite annoying. But other than that, Thais don't like a handsome falangs looks? lol Is that seriously what you think? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
t.s Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 if you take a working girl / bar girl then you should pay !!! i don't care if you think your good looking, your not ,you just seem like a better option .. looks wont pay her bills !!!and your not good looking ( like me - joke ) if your a falang ..... Thai like thai .......sure they put up with /can love a falang but its not because hes good looking ! i had a mate like you ,he thought he was a good looking young swedish lad ...... he didn't pay , thought he shouldn't have too he took the same girl twice , and on the second time , when he didn't offer any money ......he paid in a different kind of way later .....it was not a pretty site , alot of blood i do understand your point thou , why should i , a good looking 38 year old , pay the same amount as the fat ugly guy , buy maybe hes pays more ,some older people over here have alot more cash to throw around , and cash is king !!!! ( today (3.00pm) i saw a guy buy 20 tequila shots for 2 girls) . in a nutshell ...... you should always offer some money ....if its that kind of girl ...........don't be a cheap charlie im glad my thailand is not your thailand. your seems depressing. you are sad. sad, sad, sad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BEDBANDIT Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 (edited) did you guys look at the OP profile before you commented on what i said ..... his other posts , he sounds like a cheap charlie to me oh, i never said looks don't count , they might be GF now ..... but how did he meet them ....... hes not said ....... Edited March 28, 2009 by BEDBANDIT Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BEDBANDIT Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 if you take a working girl / bar girl then you should pay !!! i don't care if you think your good looking, your not ,you just seem like a better option .. looks wont pay her bills !!!and your not good looking ( like me - joke ) if your a falang ..... Thai like thai .......sure they put up with /can love a falang but its not because hes good looking ! i had a mate like you ,he thought he was a good looking young swedish lad ...... he didn't pay , thought he shouldn't have too he took the same girl twice , and on the second time , when he didn't offer any money ......he paid in a different kind of way later .....it was not a pretty site , alot of blood i do understand your point thou , why should i , a good looking 38 year old , pay the same amount as the fat ugly guy , buy maybe hes pays more ,some older people over here have alot more cash to throw around , and cash is king !!!! ( today (3.00pm) i saw a guy buy 20 tequila shots for 2 girls) . in a nutshell ...... you should always offer some money ....if its that kind of girl ...........don't be a cheap charlie im glad my thailand is not your thailand. your seems depressing. you are sad. sad, sad, sad. please explain why you think my Thailand is sad ..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassienie Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 (edited) I have girlfriends that I sleep with but a lot of the time I don't give them any money. As soon as the demands for money crop up, I have to dump them. Is this wrong? It's just that I'm not exactly rich. I feel I'm a deadbeat. Ahhhh SHAME. OK, next thread, this one is cracking me up. Edited March 28, 2009 by sassienie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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