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It is my girlfriends daughter's 15 birthday in a few weeks when I will be meeting her for the first time. What would be an acceptable gift to get this girl in that it is not too pricy and that I don't come across as mean. Cheers.

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mobile phone?

I agree but if max is not at the cutting edge of mobile technology he coud make a massive faux pa by buying the wrong sort..lets face it max she is 15 and a woman, you are never going to please her..best thing cash, and a small token gift, she can choose her ownt then...mind you I hear that perfume is a goody, but then again which flavour? ask her mum perhaps.

A mobile for a 15 year old Thai girl ?

Please dont further encourage the bloody materialism in the Thai society.

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mobile phone?

I agree but if max is not at the cutting edge of mobile technology he coud make a massive faux pa by buying the wrong sort..lets face it max she is 15 and a woman, you are never going to please her..best thing cash, and a small token gift, she can choose her ownt then...mind you I hear that perfume is a goody, but then again which flavour? ask her mum perhaps.

Thanks for the replies guys. I think cash is the way to go. How much though?

A mobile for a 15 year old Thai girl ?

Please dont further encourage the bloody materialism in the Thai society.

Erm you don't know much about Thai girls do you.

3000bt bt is a good amount, bit more if you are feeling generous. you can buy a reasonable mobile for that give her more and she will like you better guaranteed :o

Give her gold (as appose to money) A gold trinket works out as almost face value in cash. But she gets to wear it.

mobile phones, perfume, cash, gold...all encourages the worst in an adolescent on the threshhold of adulthood...

I say prepare her a bowl of cold oatmeal without milk and stand over her with a bludgeon until she finishes it...

:o Tutsi in true form...

I like the gold idea best, it will also give her face, perhaps not as much short term face as a new mobile would but more of a long term thing. JMHO...

mobile phones, perfume, cash, gold...all encourages the worst in an adolescent on the threshhold of adulthood...

I say prepare her a bowl of cold oatmeal without milk and stand over her with a bludgeon until she finishes it...

You could make her wear hair shirts and give her a sound thrashing whilst quoting scripture from the bible...for that authentic Victorian experience, a birthday gift and history lesson rolled into one!

It is my girlfriends daughter's 15 birthday in a few weeks when I will be meeting her for the first time.  What would be an acceptable gift to get this girl in that it is not too pricy and that I don't come across as mean.  Cheers.

Condoms :o

I think gold or a phone will be the most pleasing to her. a nice perfume (quality import) is always a winner for any girl or woman.

mobile phones, perfume, cash, gold...all encourages the worst in an adolescent on the threshhold of adulthood...

I say prepare her a bowl of cold oatmeal without milk and stand over her with a bludgeon until she finishes it...

You could make her wear hair shirts and give her a sound thrashing whilst quoting scripture from the bible...for that authentic Victorian experience, a birthday gift and history lesson rolled into one!

:D:o:D

I say prepare her a bowl of cold oatmeal without milk and stand over her with a bludgeon until she finishes it...

See Tutsi's ad in the classifieds under "Babysitters".

cv

lets face it tho, if u buy her gold shes only going to "loose" it, then find a mobile in the back of a taxi! :o

Gether a gift card from central for 3,000 baht. She cant complain about that...gees shes only15.....send her to Swensens ...........!

lets face it tho, if u buy her gold shes only going to "loose" it, then find a mobile in the back of a taxi!  :o

so much synicism in one so young!! :D

Well if you've got money to spend a top of the line mobile will put you in her good books forever! But as a first gift that might be a bit OTT, I like the small gold chain idea, nothing to chunky and flashy. Gold's the way to go!

'I Looooooove gooooooold!'

To quote Goldmember :o:D

Whatever is she going to do with two mobile phones? :o

Whatever is she going to do with two mobile phones?  :o

It will give her more room for her bells, cuddly toys, flashing things and heart stickers

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Arriving in BKK 24 March. Ok I am now thinking gold is the way to go.

A mobile for a 15 year old Thai girl ?

Please dont further encourage the bloody materialism in the Thai society.

Why not? ET could have done with one. No I suggest a voucher from a top BKK store. Then she can get what she wants and you know the money won't go elsewhere.

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The voucher for a top BKK shop also sounds good. As she lives 3hrs away from BKK by bus would this piss her off - having to go to BKK to use it. Have to be very careful in my choice here - see want to come across generous but not as some rich farang fool.

Which I am not! Farang and fool yes but rich no.

All ladies love gold and I am sure that a 15 years old is no different.

A one baht chain (just under half a troy ounce) would cost you about 8,000 baht.

Because she is 15 years old I would not suggest buying her less than this in terms of weight....if she was younger it would be OK to buy a half baht chain.

Good luck with your first meeting. :o

Gold will due. Nix the mobile - too bloody pricey for what the teenager would want.

Forget mobiles and gold.....

You dont know her, why dont you ask her Mum, find out what she likes and then buy according to your budget.

A CD player maybe an idea.....with some cash for her to buy her fav music.

Wait till you get there and take her shopping at the local market, that way she can pick out some clothes she likes and you control the budget.

If you give her cash, seal it an envelope with a card....dont just hand her the cash...and something from 500 to a 1000 baht will be enough.

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