Relationship With Thai Girl - Is It Necessary?

[Turok]

Since I always question why many farang men find it so improtant to have thai girlfriends, I would like to know why these men go to great lengths to secure a lasting relationship with a girl in a country where the customs are so different and yet sex is so readily available everywhere.

I am just curious cause after reading some of the topics lately in this section I would be so turned off and afraid in persuing any type of intimate realtionship with a thai girl other than the pay for play type that lasts a few hours.

Topics like..

1. Where can I find a decent girl?

2. Marrying Thai girl?

etc.... There are more

Why do single men get to Thaialnd and after a few orgasms fall head over heels for these women? Do they lose their way? Please point out why these girls are so special that we should marry them or at least be invovled with them and then inherit all of the other crap that comes with it. Wouldn't it be simpler to be single and free?

[devildog683]

this could apply to any country, even your own

why do we decide to marry someone? i would say its different case-by-case, but i know i never had the intention to marry so early in life. But i met my wife 2 years ago (not in a bar BTW) and just knew she was the one.......its something thats hard to explain to anyone who has never had the experience.

[britmaveric]

Try examining the OP before making any judgements about any farang in relationships which happen to be thai. Translated the OP's might reside under a bridge.

Edited April 14, 2005 by britmaveric

[siamesekitty]

I actually see your point on this, Turok. The question does come to mind sometimes when it's a case of someone coming here and saying "I want to marry a Thai girl. Where can I find some good ones?". I mean, how can you be sure that a Thai girl will be perfect for you?

On the other hand, maybe it's like when you say "I like long-haired brunettes". Doesn't really make logical sense, but it's just your own personal preference. People would think you're crazy to be spending your life searching for long-haired brunettes, but hey, if it makes you happy..

BUT, if someone finds a wonderful woman who is just right for him and happens to be Thai, don't say that the relationship is bound to fail JUST BECAUSE SHE IS THAI. As in any country, there are many caring, smart, honest women here that you can have great long-term relationships with.

By the way, thank you this time for not including the grossly racist comments that would offend anybody (Thai girl or not) reading it, as in your previous posts ("You have one of those "good girls." The only one in Thailand. I wouldn't trust any of them!") Such statements only reflect a limited exposure to the rest of Thai society, and you actually make good points without them! (though the comments here are kinda on the borderline )

[devildog683]

maybe i misunderstood the original post

if you are asking why do some men say "I want to go to Thailand and find a Thai girl/wife-to-be." I would say that its because they heard the GOOD side of stories instead of the negative thats always there, and yes some do rush into it foolishly and blindly.......

[toklong]

I always thought life would be simpler being single and free...And I always wanted

my own Island.But a life or Island would be very boring and lonely without anyone

to share it with.Having a realtionship with a lady in which her customs and culture

are so different is intriguing,exotic,stimulating,and a challenge to keep it together.

This is what makes it so attractive.

[bkkmadness]

You know what I think, I think my gf's customs and culture is not so different from my own.

Gf

Buddhist

Polite

Likes going out

Likes watching a film indoors

Loves her family

etc.

Me

no religion - believe that if you do right, you get right.

Polite

Likes going out

Likes watching a film indoors

Love my family

etc.

whats so different between the way our Thai gfs live their lives and the way we do? I think we are a pretty compatible bunch, and the world over people hope, desire and dream for the same things.

I read in a previous post of Turoks that he wouldn't trust any Thai woman, which makes him a f.ucking racist t.wat in my book. He must of fallen for some girl that hurt him pretty bad.

Edited April 14, 2005 by bkkmadness

[Boon Mee]

I read in a previous post of Turoks that he wouldn't trust any Thai woman, which makes him a f.ucking racist t.wat in my book.  He must of fallen for some girl that hurt him pretty bad.

Probably...

[cdnvic]

I read in a previous post of Turoks that he wouldn't trust any Thai woman, which makes him a f.ucking racist t.wat in my book.  He must of fallen for some girl that hurt him pretty bad.

Probably...

Or someone who looked awfully like a girl.......

cv

[bkkmadness]

some one check his previous posts to see if he mentions those "untrustworthy thai girls with their big hands and hairy arms"

[Harmonica]

Since I always question why many farang men find it so improtant to have thai girlfriends, I would like to know why these men go to great lengths to secure a lasting relationship with a girl in a country where the customs are so different and yet sex is so readily available everywhere.

I am just curious cause after reading some of the topics lately in this section I would be so turned off and afraid in persuing any type of intimate realtionship with a thai girl other than the pay for play type that lasts a few hours. 

Topics like..

1.  Where can I find a decent girl?

2.  Marrying Thai girl?

etc....  There are more

Why do single men get to Thaialnd and after a few orgasms fall head over heels for these women?  Do they lose their way?  Please point out why these girls are so special that we should marry them or at least be invovled with them and then inherit all of the other crap that comes with it.  Wouldn't it be simpler to be single and free?

OK Turok, you've been stuck on this subject for quite a while -- it really is quite simple. Here's my take:

Because they know how to take care of a man!

When a Thai woman loves you (and this excludes in one fell swoop all the scammers) it is sheer poetry to behold.

They are the most beautiful women in the world.

They are physically very delicate, exotic, soft, silky and exhilarting to the touch! Ultra-feminine.

So many of them come from poor families, have no education and no real shot in life -- when they meet a man who can get past the initial sex and still be interested in them, all they want is to be just given a chance -- a chance to make you a very happy man.

I love, admire and respect their religious beliefs and actually find all of it quite compelling.

They are very good conversationalists and the fact that the very simplest of things that we do, can quite often have them in stitches, is an added bonus.

I have left SEX out of this (for the most part, anyway), because as you imply, what else do they have to offer when it is so readily available?

They've got plenty to offer!

And in case you're wondering -- my gal does not lie to me, cook up stories, demand money for her family, steal from me etc. -- neither does her family.

That's my take, amigo.

[devildog683]

Since I always question why many farang men find it so improtant to have thai girlfriends, I would like to know why these men go to great lengths to secure a lasting relationship with a girl in a country where the customs are so different and yet sex is so readily available everywhere.

I am just curious cause after reading some of the topics lately in this section I would be so turned off and afraid in persuing any type of intimate realtionship with a thai girl other than the pay for play type that lasts a few hours. 

Topics like..

1.  Where can I find a decent girl?

2.  Marrying Thai girl?

etc....  There are more

Why do single men get to Thaialnd and after a few orgasms fall head over heels for these women?  Do they lose their way?  Please point out why these girls are so special that we should marry them or at least be invovled with them and then inherit all of the other crap that comes with it.  Wouldn't it be simpler to be single and free?

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

OK Turok, you've been stuck on this subject for quite a while -- it really is quite simple. Here's my take:

Because they know how to take care of a man!

When a Thai woman loves you (and this excludes in one fell swoop all the scammers) it is sheer poetry to behold.

They are the most beautiful women in the world.

They are physically very delicate, exotic, soft, silky and exhilarting to the touch! Ultra-feminine.

So many of them come from poor families, have no education and no real shot in life -- when they meet a man who can get past the initial sex and still be interested in them, all they want is to be just given a chance -- a chance to make you a very happy man.

I love, admire and respect their religious beliefs and actually find all of it quite compelling.

They are very good conversationalists and the fact that the very simplest of things that we do, can quite often have them in stitches, is an added bonus.

I have left SEX out of this (for the most part, anyway), because as you imply, what else do they have to offer when it is so readily available?

They've got plenty to offer!

And in case you're wondering -- my gal does not lie to me, cook up stories, demand money for her family, steal from me etc. -- neither does her family.

That's my take, amigo.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

thats beautiful, brought a tear to my eyes

so true, couldnt say it better

[Turok]

OK Turok, you've been stuck on this subject for quite a while -- it really is quite simple. Here's my take:

Because they know how to take care of a man! And a woman from another country doesn't? Come on dude.... U are reaching here.... Yes, u love it cause she will service you sexually regualrly as long as you keep her in the financialloop

When a Thai woman loves you (and this excludes in one fell swoop all the scammers) it is sheer poetry to behold. And a woman from another country doesn't. Seriously... sheer poetry... Get away from Cosmo and Vogue...

They are the most beautiful women in the world. This i will disagree with and I think others will also...

They are physically very delicate, exotic, soft, silky and exhilarting to the touch! Ultra-feminine. So all the other women in the world af hard, plain, rough, and boring to your touch? And other women are too masculine for you?

So many of them come from poor families, have no education and no real shot in life -- when they meet a man who can get past the initial sex and still be interested in them, all they want is to be just given a chance -- a chance to make you a very happy man. Yes, and will check you out to see if you can support the family. Gosh, I'd rather be with a rich woman than struggle through this crap with some out in the bush Thai girl. Their lot in life is not my concern nor my problem. So I should play the knight who saves her?

I love, admire and respect their religious beliefs and actually find all of it quite compelling. Yes, because its easy for you to see what is really missing from your life. The life you turned away from.

They are very good conversationalists and the fact that the very simplest of things that we do, can quite often have them in stitches, is an added bonus. Conversationalists? Get real.... Unless its about rice, fruit and chicken there isnt much to talk about. Oh yea... if you want to torture yourself you can talk about Thai soap operas

I have left SEX out of this (for the most part, anyway), because as you imply, what else do they have to offer when it is so readily available? This is one area that you should elaborate on.

They've got plenty to offer! And other women in the world don't live up to the Thais? Geez....

And in case you're wondering -- my gal does not lie to me, cook up stories, demand money for her family, steal from me etc. -- neither does her family. Talk to me in a year. Lets see where you are at....

[chonabot]

Turok , heres 3 questions for you , try and answer one.

1) Why do you care?

2)Why do you care?

3) Why do you care?

Edited April 15, 2005 by chonabot

[chonabot]

And in case you're wondering -- my gal does not lie to me, cook up stories, demand money for her family, steal from me etc. -- neither does her family.  Talk to me in a year.  Lets see where you are at....

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I've been with the same lady for near on ten , wanna talk about the above attributes ?

Turok , what is your fascination with Farang/Thai relationships?

If you don't approve , just move on. Obviously you have different tastes , that's cool , but you're becoming repetitive with this detritus, really.

Edited April 15, 2005 by chonabot

[RamdomChances]

Conversationalists? Get real.... Unless its about rice, fruit and chicken there isnt much to talk about.

This is simply not true we usually talk about cows,hay,peanuts and maize.

Anyway I'm happy I hope you are as well....each to their own

[devildog683]

its obvious turok has either never been in true love or got burned bad when he thought he was. every retort he has given is a stereotypical reply you can find in numerous books written on this matter. its obvious what thai women he has been with to judge them like this.

[kreon]

Since I always question why many farang men find it so improtant to have thai girlfriends, I would like to know why these men go to great lengths to secure a lasting relationship with a girl in a country where the customs are so different and yet sex is so readily available everywhere.

I am just curious cause after reading some of the topics lately in this section I would be so turned off and afraid in persuing any type of intimate realtionship with a thai girl other than the pay for play type that lasts a few hours. 

Topics like..

1.  Where can I find a decent girl?

2.  Marrying Thai girl?

etc....  There are more

Why do single men get to Thaialnd and after a few orgasms fall head over heels for these women?  Do they lose their way?  Please point out why these girls are so special that we should marry them or at least be invovled with them and then inherit all of the other crap that comes with it.  Wouldn't it be simpler to be single and free?

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

i dont know either...hence i stay single and free

there are so many gorgeous uni-students here, so why spoil all that fun, i could never stop loving them

Edited April 15, 2005 by kreon

[chonabot]

I've just had a look at the kids other postings , yes I'm bored....

They consist of this particular subject or.................the grown up world of.......................Play Station 2 Vs Xbox Vs Gamecube

Puzzle solved, he's a teenager who was robbed by a katoey whilst hanging out in a Games shop in Buriram......or Blackpool........

http://www.thaivisa.com/forum/index.php?ac...luser&mid=17397

....enjoy , he's a very intersting read , if you're about 6 1/2....

Edited April 15, 2005 by chonabot

[devildog683]

Yes, u love it cause she will service you sexually regualrly as long as you keep her in the financialloop

Yes, and will check you out to see if you can support the family.  Gosh, I'd rather be with a rich woman than struggle through this crap with some out in the bush Thai girl.  Their lot in life is not my concern nor my problem.  So I should play the knight who saves her?

Get real....  Unless its about rice, fruit and chicken there isnt much to talk about.  Oh yea... if you want to torture yourself you can talk about Thai soap operas

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

my case in point

[devildog683]

I've just had a look at the kids other postings , yes I'm bored....

They consist of this particular subject or.................the grown up world of.......................Play Station 2 Vs Xbox Vs Gamecube

Puzzle solved, he's a teenager who got robbed by a katoey whilst hanging out in a Games shop in Buriram......or Blackpool........

http://www.thaivisa.com/forum/index.php?ac...luser&mid=17397

....enjoy , he's a very intersting read , if you're about 6 1/2....

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

he obviously has never experienced the good side of being in a thai relationship thats for sure

[DJ Pat]

Topics like..

1.  Where can I find a decent girl?

2.  Marrying Thai girl?

etc....  There are more

Why do single men get to Thaialnd and after a few orgasms fall head over heels for these women?  Do they lose their way?  Please point out why these girls are so special that we should marry them or at least be invovled with them and then inherit all of the other crap that comes with it.  Wouldn't it be simpler to be single and free?

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Great question, I often wonder about that myself. They become addicted, you see them walking down the street holding hands with these ladies...makes me cringe.

[Harmonica]

OK Turok, you've been stuck on this subject for quite a while -- it really is quite simple. Here's my take:

Because they know how to take care of a man! And a woman from another country doesn't?  Come on dude.... U are reaching here.... Yes, u love it cause she will service you sexually regualrly as long as you keep her in the financialloop

When a Thai woman loves you (and this excludes in one fell swoop all the scammers) it is sheer poetry to behold. And a woman from another country doesn't.  Seriously...  sheer poetry...  Get away from Cosmo and Vogue...

They are the most beautiful women in the world.  This i will disagree with and I think others will also...   

They are physically very delicate, exotic, soft, silky and exhilarting to the  touch!  Ultra-feminine.  So all the other women in the world af hard, plain, rough, and boring to your touch?  And other women are too masculine for you?

So many of them come from poor families, have no education and no real shot in life -- when they meet a man who can get past the initial sex and still be interested in them, all they want is to be just given a chance -- a chance to make you a very happy man.  Yes, and will check you out to see if you can support the family.  Gosh, I'd rather be with a rich woman than struggle through this crap with some out in the bush Thai girl.  Their lot in life is not my concern nor my problem.  So I should play the knight who saves her?

I love, admire and respect their religious beliefs and actually find all of it quite compelling.  Yes, because its easy for you to see what is really missing from your life.  The life you turned away from.

They are very good conversationalists and the fact that the very simplest of things that we do, can quite often have them in stitches,  is an added bonus.  Conversationalists?  Get real....  Unless its about rice, fruit and chicken there isnt much to talk about.  Oh yea... if you want to torture yourself you can talk about Thai soap operas

I have left SEX out of this (for the most part, anyway), because as you imply, what else do they have to offer when it is so readily available?  This is one area that you should elaborate on.

They've got plenty to offer!  And other women in the world don't live up to the Thais?  Geez.... 

And in case you're wondering -- my gal does not lie to me, cook up stories, demand money for her family, steal from me etc. -- neither does her family.  Talk to me in a year.  Lets see where you are at....

Fair enough -- that's a reasonable statement or requirement -- but I don't think you understand, Turok -- there were 3 or 4 fellows who said similar things to me about 5 years ago, when I first met this girl -- they all said, "in a year or two you will think very differently" -- but here's the thing; I've been with her for almost 5 years and it has steadily gotten better and better.

Does that blow your theory or would you like me to report back to you after another 5?

[Harmonica]

And in case you're wondering -- my gal does not lie to me, cook up stories, demand money for her family, steal from me etc. -- neither does her family.  Talk to me in a year.  Lets see where you are at....

I've been with the same lady for near on ten , wanna talk about the above attributes ?

Turok , what is your fascination with Farang/Thai relationships?

If you don't approve , just move on. Obviously you have different tastes , that's cool , but you're becoming repetitive with this detritus, really.

Concur!

[Turok]

Hey all those video games are fun! And what better way for some of you older gents to entertain your "granddaughter"girlfriends by getting her a gaming unit. While you waiting for the Vitamin V to kick in she can go a few rounds with MArio. I recommend the Gamecube.

Anyways, as you can see some of you guys get quite proetetcive of your little Isaan girlfriends. Hey thats cool. Glad you can pull those reltionship types away from the crowd of "single and loving it" type girls. MAkes it easier to sift through the girls and find the other type. You guys can have them! Yuck!!

It really is an ugly site to see the farangs walking hand in hand with their thai ladies espceially in a place that frowns on it. Why do you do it? This isnt the USA! Its enjoyable to see some of you get so riled up over these girls! I do strike a nerve.

[devildog683]

I do strike a nerve.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

guess you accomplished what you came to do, because you obviously dont intend to present a sensible arguement

[ThaiPauly]

Hey all those video games are fun!  And what better way for some of you older gents to entertain your "granddaughter"girlfriends by getting her a gaming unit.  While you waiting for the Vitamin V to kick in she can go a few rounds with MArio.  I recommend the Gamecube. 

Anyways, as you can see some of you guys get quite proetetcive of your little Isaan girlfriends.  Hey thats cool.  Glad you can pull those reltionship types away from the crowd of "single and loving it" type girls.  MAkes it easier to sift through the girls and find the other type.  You guys can have them!  Yuck!!

It really is an ugly site to see the farangs walking hand in hand with their thai ladies espceially in a place that frowns on it.  Why do you do it?  This isnt the USA!  Its enjoyable to see some of you get so riled up over these girls!  I do strike a nerve.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Now you are becoming really BORING as well as CONFRONTATIONAL. Plesae leave the Kingdom now (and take your silly XBox or whatever it is with you)

[gburns57au]

I actually have had a thing for asian women since I was a teenager, took me nearly 20 years to finally start doing something about it....

Why Thai...because that was where I went first and after learning the lingo, I dont see the point in dating a Chinese or Indonesian girl.

So for me it is the realisation of a long time desire.

[devildog683]

It really is an ugly site to see the farangs walking hand in hand with their thai ladies espceially in a place that frowns on it.  Why do you do it?  This isnt the USA!

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

not all places frown on it,.......also putting your arm around her shoulders (not her waist) is looked on as perfectly fine where my wife is from, its looked at as love/friendship, whereas putting your arm around her waist is basically a precursor to getting a room and boning her

[Harmonica]

Hey all those video games are fun!  And what better way for some of you older gents to entertain your "granddaughter"girlfriends by getting her a gaming unit.  While you waiting for the Vitamin V to kick in she can go a few rounds with MArio.  I recommend the Gamecube. 

Anyways, as you can see some of you guys get quite proetetcive of your little Isaan girlfriends.  Hey thats cool.  Glad you can pull those reltionship types away from the crowd of "single and loving it" type girls.  MAkes it easier to sift through the girls and find the other type.  You guys can have them!  Yuck!!

It really is an ugly site to see the farangs walking hand in hand with their thai ladies espceially in a place that frowns on it.  Why do you do it?  This isnt the USA!  Its enjoyable to see some of you get so riled up over these girls!  I do strike a nerve.

Hehehehe

And what's going to happen to you when your western woman gets you in court, takes the kids, the cars, the bank balances, the house etc., and leaves you with just your underwear & your thumb up your ass?

Post here and I'll be happy to send you the "Eddie Murphy Live" video/DVD, wherein he yells ..... HALF! .... only in your case and esp. considering how things have changed -- it could be 90%+.

Headlines : Turok moves to & becomes Turkey!

But on a more serious note, how much has that Thai girl taken you for? And I'm not just talking about money!

Well?