issanpaul Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 Hi all, Does any member here have a list of reasons/criteria how my Thai Wife ca divorce me in my absense? I got email from her saying she has met another farang and s going to ampur tomorrow to divorce me,? I last seen my wife over 1 year ago but was in daily contact with her up until i just get this email, she has changed her telephone number also so i cant contact her, she met him on internet apparatly and he fly next week to see her , shit. what can i do? please help thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheLaughingMan Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 You last saw your wife over a year ago and she wants a divorce and you are... surprised? You want advice on how to stop her from divorcing you? What kind of help exactly did you want? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nonthaburial Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 ouch .... hard to give you answers but I would suggest making your way back to Thailand before he gets there is one way. Also i think you should be prepared to accept that she is in the roaming mode and could happen again and again. You dont tell us much but do you have children and property in Thailand ? Not very helpful I know but wish you well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NADTATIDA1 Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 Did you have financial problems? Not sending her any money? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
p_brownstone Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 Your wife cannot get a Divorce at the Amphur unless you are physically there and sign that you agree to the Divorce. If you are not there, the only way she can arrange a Divorce is through Court action. Patrick Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarahwise83 Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donnyboy Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 saw her 1 year ago? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiangmaibruce Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 go to google.com and type in thailand civil and commercial code divorce you will find a list of criteria by which she can go to court and divorce you ... this includes things like lack of financial support, insanity, etc. many thai law firms' web sites also have pages that list this info Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Travel2003 Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 To OP. Didnt your wife contact you regarding a divorce 10 months ago? According to your own started thread back then. Are you denying her the divorce? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gotlost Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 This place continues to amaze me with the intelligent level of the farang. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Travel2003 Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 This place continues to amaze me with the intelligent level of the farang. I guess you are correct. Some of us are stupid, some are smarter. I like to believe I pass as a regular person whom once in a while makes stupid mistakes. How about you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mario2008 Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 She can not get a divorce at the amphur, that can only when both spouses agree. She will have to go to court to get a divorce based on abandonment, which she in all likelihood will get. It seems she wants to divorce and will get it. In that case the best you can do might be to agree to a divorce, to limit the costs. During the divorce you can also make an agreement about the split of property etc. If she wants a quick divorce you will have a better bargaining position. There is a pinned topic on family law, including divorce, in the family section. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thongkorn Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 saw her 1 year ago? I saw her only a week ago, Now I find that she has a husband as well as finding some guy of the internet, Thats it i am not sending anymore money to her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dave111223 Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 To OP.Didnt your wife contact you regarding a divorce 10 months ago? According to your own started thread back then. Are you denying her the divorce? Link to that topic: http://www.thaivisa.com/forum/Divorce-t262856.html OP said 10 months ago: my wife has contacted me via email and friend and has requested a divorce,i sure dont have a problem with this, Now all of a sudden 10 months later; you haven't seen her for 1 year and she's met someone else and you're trying to stop the divorce...? And you claim to have been in daily contact with your wife...so for the last 10 months after getting the initial divorce email you still emailed her every day...? Despite both wanting a divorce...? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a2396 Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 Another one bites the dust. She's going to let him off "scott free"? He wouldn't be no stinkin' Troll would he? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigWheelMan Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 Another one bites the dust. She's going to let him off "scott free"? He wouldn't be no stinkin' Troll would he? He`s one of the stately trolls of old ThaiVisa. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheLaughingMan Posted March 10, 2010 Share Posted March 10, 2010 saw her 1 year ago? I saw her only a week ago, Now I find that she has a husband as well as finding some guy of the internet, Thats it i am not sending anymore money to her. Who are you? The op? Trolls gone wild, order the DVD on amazon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
issanpaul Posted March 11, 2010 Author Share Posted March 11, 2010 You last saw your wife over a year ago and she wants a divorce and you are... surprised? You want advice on how to stop her from divorcing you? What kind of help exactly did you want? was easy question thanks anyway Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
issanpaul Posted March 11, 2010 Author Share Posted March 11, 2010 ouch .... hard to give you answers but I would suggest making your way back to Thailand before he gets there is one way. Also i think you should be prepared to accept that she is in the roaming mode and could happen again and again. You dont tell us much but do you have children and property in Thailand ?Not very helpful I know but wish you well Hi thanks for reply, dont have property with her or children, have property previous wife (deceased) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
issanpaul Posted March 11, 2010 Author Share Posted March 11, 2010 Did you have financial problems?Not sending her any money? Thanks reply, yes had financial problems last 3 months because was in hospital, but am ok now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
issanpaul Posted March 11, 2010 Author Share Posted March 11, 2010 Your wife cannot get a Divorce at the Amphur unless you are physically there and sign that you agree to the Divorce.If you are not there, the only way she can arrange a Divorce is through Court action. Patrick thanks for reply and input Patrick Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theoldgit Posted March 11, 2010 Share Posted March 11, 2010 Yes, unless you both attend the amphur she has to file for divorce through the courts using specific grounds. I posted the grounds some time ago. http://www.thaivisa.com/forum/post-a87458-...ivorce.pdf.html Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
issanpaul Posted March 11, 2010 Author Share Posted March 11, 2010 good luck! thankyou Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
issanpaul Posted March 11, 2010 Author Share Posted March 11, 2010 saw her 1 year ago? ur not helpfull dont post in my thread thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
issanpaul Posted March 11, 2010 Author Share Posted March 11, 2010 go to google.com and type in thailand civil and commercial code divorceyou will find a list of criteria by which she can go to court and divorce you ... this includes things like lack of financial support, insanity, etc. many thai law firms' web sites also have pages that list this info Thanks bruce Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
issanpaul Posted March 11, 2010 Author Share Posted March 11, 2010 To OP.Didnt your wife contact you regarding a divorce 10 months ago? According to your own started thread back then. Are you denying her the divorce? yes but we got back together and everything seem all ok until now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
issanpaul Posted March 11, 2010 Author Share Posted March 11, 2010 This place continues to amaze me with the intelligent level of the farang. what is your problem? hope you never need advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
issanpaul Posted March 11, 2010 Author Share Posted March 11, 2010 This place continues to amaze me with the intelligent level of the farang. I guess you are correct. Some of us are stupid, some are smarter. I like to believe I pass as a regular person whom once in a while makes stupid mistakes. How about you? Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NADTATIDA1 Posted March 11, 2010 Share Posted March 11, 2010 I just think you were not clear about things after re-posting the same stuff 9 months later,are you going thruogh with the divorce? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
issanpaul Posted March 11, 2010 Author Share Posted March 11, 2010 She can not get a divorce at the amphur, that can only when both spouses agree. She will have to go to court to get a divorce based on abandonment, which she in all likelihood will get.It seems she wants to divorce and will get it. In that case the best you can do might be to agree to a divorce, to limit the costs. During the divorce you can also make an agreement about the split of property etc. If she wants a quick divorce you will have a better bargaining position. There is a pinned topic on family law, including divorce, in the family section. Thankyou very much informative reply Mod Mario, much apppreciated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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