Thats not a Girlfriend, thats a Hooker - plain and simple, plenty of others where that comes from. A favorite tactic is for them to pay for lunch, making you think they are ‘self sufficient’ then they get their hooks into you - been there, done that. Had a Thai “Girlfriend” bartender, I regularly visited for about a year, thought ‘she was the one’ one of the male managers told me she was single but had a kid to support, turns out that guy was her husband and the kid was his as well…she would pop into my bungalow in old Na Glua for daytime romps, always excuses why she couldn't move in with me…..….dunno how money I spent on her in a year, it was a lot, but that took the wind out of my sail on trusting Thai Chicks in Pattaya for a looong time. Rent not Own is my mantra these days. Peace