C'mon!

In Bedlam, we're all (more or less) mature adults. Why shouldn't a thread on Bg's be allowed. Exactly as mentioned above, We Bedlam-ers aren't likely to start flame wars and such.

Why do we ned a ten page thread discussing the rights and wrongs?

Either do or die. (get busy living, or get busy dying)

Or are we allowed to talk about everything under the sun except bargirls....?

I thought there was no need to be politically correct here.

Just honourable people.

Kayo.

As p1p indicated, we can discuss BG's so long as it's done in a 'tasteful' (my word) manner.

I've just discovered Bedlam. So, my question is (and this seemed the best thread to ask), do whatever rules apply to bargirls, also apply to barboys?

thanks; just wondering.

I wanted 'it' ten times as often as he could share 'it' with me.

This was your quote from last week PeaceBlondie. Is 'it' a euphemism for backdoor shenanigans.

If yes, then I think you should definitely write about it here.

I wanted 'it' ten times as often as he could share 'it' with me.

This was your quote from last week PeaceBlondie. Is 'it' a euphemism for backdoor shenanigans.

If yes, then I think you should definitely write about it here.

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oh dear..

totster

I wanted 'it' ten times as often as he could share 'it' with me.

This was your quote from last week PeaceBlondie. Is 'it' a euphemism for backdoor shenanigans.

If yes, then I think you should definitely write about it here.

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oh dear..

totster

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:D

I wanted 'it' ten times as often as he could share 'it' with me.

This was your quote from last week PeaceBlondie. Is 'it' a euphemism for backdoor shenanigans.

If yes, then I think you should definitely write about it here.

Oh my God...

I wanted 'it' ten times as often as he could share 'it' with me.

This was your quote from last week PeaceBlondie. Is 'it' a euphemism for backdoor shenanigans.

If yes, then I think you should definitely write about it here.

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Oh my God...

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Hmmm... What are backdoor Shenanigans???

(he innocently enquired )

I wanted 'it' ten times as often as he could share 'it' with me.

This was your quote from last week PeaceBlondie. Is 'it' a euphemism for backdoor shenanigans.

If yes, then I think you should definitely write about it here.

Oh my God...

Hmmm... What are backdoor Shenanigans???

(he innocently enquired )

You must be joking!

Does a 'Turd-Burgler' bring anything to mind?

You must be joking!

Does a 'Turd-Burgler' bring anything to mind?

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Didn't take long for this BG thread to degenerate ...

totster

Keep it going, Cleaver d1ck comments and degenerating threads are the ideal way to ensure Bedlam is closed. Denying access to all other sensible posters with interesting topics to discuss. At minimum it will guarantee to bring moderation into here.

Is this what we want??

Keep it going, Cleaver d1ck comments and degenerating threads are the ideal way to ensure Bedlam is closed. Denying access to all other sensible posters with interesting topics to discuss. At minimum it will guarantee to bring moderation into here.

Is this what we want??

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Do the political flame wars that we often see in Bedlam count as degenerating threads..?

totster

The Moog was the only one who answered my question, although p1p seems to be suggesting that Bedlam is in danger if we discuss - careful now, close your eyes, you immature juveniles -SEX.

And to answer all your inquiring minds that want to know, my use of 'it' didn't specifically refer to 'backdoor shenanigans' as you so euphemistically and adolescently referred to them. 'It' also referred to oral activities, fondling, kissing and hugging. In case you didn't know it, there are homosexual male couples who never do backdoor. However, there are heterosexual couples who enjoy anal sex.

Okay children, you may open your eyes again.

Point: Boon Mee, in post #32 on this thread, mentioned that we could discuss bargirls if we do it tastefully. My subsequent post was tasteful, and the referenced quote from earlier in the week merely said 'it'. I was not the one who got titillated by the idea and tittered on like schoolboys titter about t1ts.

So, may we discuss barboys if we do it tastefully, not like 11-year olds in the toilet?

Edited July 5, 200521 yr by PeaceBlondie

And to answer all your inquiring minds that want to know, my use of  'it' didn't specifically refer to 'backdoor shenanigans' as you so euphemistically and adolescently referred to them.  'It' also referred to oral activities, fondling, kissing and hugging.  In case you didn't know it, there are homosexual male couples who never do backdoor.  However, there are heterosexual couples who enjoy anal sex.

Okay children, you may open your eyes again. 

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Cheers PeaceBlondie for clearing that up....

totster

My last post was referring not to sex per se but more to the, perhaps homophobic, references to "back door shenanigans" or "turd burglar". These are immature flames designed to cause offence and should not appear here. We should all be sufficiently adult to leave this kind of language elsewhere.

'It' also referred to oral activities, fondling, kissing and hugging. In case you didn't know it, there are homosexual male couples who never do backdoor. However, there are heterosexual couples who enjoy anal sex.

So one might take out a barboy, (since this topic is all about Barboys), and not give him one up the Tradesman's Entrance?

....isn't that a waste of money?

If one barfines someone, presumably one wants to do vile things to them, not just have a light salad lunch, a game of tennis and shopping in Gaysorn Plaza.

Edited July 5, 200521 yr by The_Moog

If one barfines someone, presumably one wants to do vile things to them, not just have a light salad lunch, a game of tennis and shopping in Gaysorn Plaza.

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Dont judge others by your own standards, Moog me old boy...

Oh and play nicely, i can see this thread magically disappearing else.

In the regular Forum today....hot topics include

'Puppies' by Thomas

....and

'Kitten / Scratching post - where to buy?' by Beanster1

In the regular Forum today....hot topics include

'Puppies' by Thomas

....and

'Kitten / Scratching post - where to buy?' by Beanster1

...and the ever popular 'Where did my Smilies go?'

'It' also referred to oral activities, fondling, kissing and hugging. In case you didn't know it, there are homosexual male couples who never do backdoor. However, there are heterosexual couples who enjoy anal sex.

So one might take out a barboy, (since this topic is all about Barboys), and not give him one up the Tradesman's Entrance?

....isn't that a waste of money?

If one barfines someone, presumably one wants to do vile things to them, not just have a light salad lunch, a game of tennis and shopping in Gaysorn Plaza.

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Do you think having sex is a vile thing?

Do you think having sex is a vile thing?

Only if its done properly.

First of all, thanks to p1p.

'It' also referred to oral activities, fondling, kissing and hugging. In case you didn't know it, there are homosexual male couples who never do backdoor. However, there are heterosexual couples who enjoy anal sex.

So one might take out a barboy, (since this topic is all about Barboys), and not give him one up the Tradesman's Entrance?

....isn't that a waste of money?

If one barfines someone, presumably one wants to do vile things to them, not just have a light salad lunch, a game of tennis and shopping in Gaysorn Plaza.

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Let me try the hetero analogy. If a man barfines a bargirl, does he presumably want to do vile things to her? What's vile, with a barperson? What's 'proper' with a barperson? Is whatever's proper with a bargirl, proper with a barboy, allowing for the difference in anatomical equipment?

To clarify terms here, 'bargirl' refers to a young adult woman, and 'barboy' refers to a young adult man. Some men barfine a young man with no intention of either one of them - doing what? Arai nah, como? What, you say? I've been gay for 20 years, and it never ceases to amaze me that while we have 2 or 3 standard terms for anal intercourse, the straight guys (especially the guys with obvious or subtle homophobic tendencies) have a dozen more terms for it. Before tonight, I'd never heard 'Tradesman's Entrance' although the meaning is obvious. Were you a tradesman? Did you ever sing to your bargirl or wife, "I just wanna be your backdoor man?"

And yes, I have taken a barboy to the zoo, shopping at Central, home to Mom & Dad, lunch and dinner. Do the men just utilize their female rental unit and return her to the storage area? Up to you, Mr. Farang.

I'm not trying to be a troll; it started as a fairly reasonable question. To restate it, if there can be talk in Bedlam about bargirls, can there be similar talk about barboys? Please note that I'm not making as many ridiculous, scatalogical, schoolboy comments about bargirls as was already made about barboys.

do vile things to her

Bare sweaty bellies slapping together.

Teeth gnawing at mottled buttocks.

Tongues going in places that tongues shouldn't.

With a Bargirl, that would be considered a 'result'

Then she goes back to the Depot.

Edited July 5, 200521 yr by The_Moog

do vile things to her

Bare sweaty bellies slapping together.

Teeth gnawing at mottled buttocks.

Tongues going in places that tongues shouldn't.

With a Bargirl, that would be considered a 'result'

Then she goes back to the Depot.

Perhaps more illustrative: "Bare hairy sweaty bellys slapping together"?

...not quite the narritive we're looking for...

Edited July 5, 200521 yr by Boon Mee

Thai men are hairy in weird places - like satyrs.

Hairy up to their knees, then smooth thighs.

Anyway....ahem.

I am on Peace Blondies side. I want to hear about unspeakable things.

I'm less interested in his trips to the zoo, or the usual theme on the Gay Forum, which is usually giant introspective monologues about 'why my boyfriend is being a pain in the ass this week'

ps Erratum; I just remembered that Pan and other goat-humans are hairy the other way round. Hairy thighs and smooth shins.

Edited July 5, 200521 yr by The_Moog

Thai men are hairy in weird places - like satyrs.

Hairy up to their knees, then smooth thighs.

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Enlighten us as to how you came by this peice of information...?

Thai men are hairy in weird places - like satyrs.

Hairy up to their knees, then smooth thighs.

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Enlighten us as to how you came by this peice of information...?

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Does he/it have to ... ?

totster

Thai men are hairy in weird places - like satyrs.

Hairy up to their knees, then smooth thighs.

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Enlighten us as to how you came by this peice of information...?

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Does he/it have to ... ?

totster

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He really shouldn´t.

Let´s keep it cool folks.

Agreed, that the gay forum is usually full of threads about attempts at long-term relationships with sulking Thai young men whom their farang lovers just don't understand. Of course, that never happens with straight farang men and their sulking Thai young women, does it?

I apologize if I intruded into Bedlam 1.5 days ago with a bad attitude. I had just gotten mercilessly flamed on another forum by a homophobe, and just wanted to see where I could make reasonably normal comments, such as about rental units.

Please carry on. I shall try to leave y'all alone now.