donut42day Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 Hi all, Looking for help for reporting crime in thai. What happen was that my daughter got "molested" by a local bike Taxis rider. I was away from thai(I am not Thai citizen) and neither am i familiar with local police system. Currently my wife had bought my daughter to hospital for check up and later will make a police report. Might engage a laywer if necessary. Hopefully somebody would give advise on how to bring this "brutal" to justice!! dam_n sick brutal . Any other authority can i approach?? Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkkjames Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 The locals take a very dim view of this kind of thing and I understand handle it accordingly - did you contact the police? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donut42day Posted January 5, 2011 Author Share Posted January 5, 2011 The locals take a very dim view of this kind of thing and I understand handle it accordingly - did you contact the police? Will contact police after the checkup done. Thanks for the reply. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkkjames Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 The locals take a very dim view of this kind of thing and I understand handle it accordingly - did you contact the police? Will contact police after the checkup done. Thanks for the reply. Best of luck to you and your daughter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donut42day Posted January 5, 2011 Author Share Posted January 5, 2011 Thanks bkkjames .... i sure need it.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkkjames Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 Thanks bkkjames .... i sure need it.. I can only imagine how you are feeling mate - if it were me I wouldn't be so cool about it but in this case let the locals 'take care' of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donut42day Posted January 5, 2011 Author Share Posted January 5, 2011 i m currently oversea ... can't do much. Worse is my daughter merely 6 year old. I m worry tat the police report end up no action taken. " tats what i heard" inefficient ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkkjames Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 i m currently oversea ... can't do much. Worse is my daughter merely 6 year old. I m worry tat the police report end up no action taken. " tats what i heard" inefficient ! is your Mrs here I assume? Get her on the case immediately. Better a Thai take it up with the authorities anyways. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geriatrickid Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 (edited) Child and or Youth Protection Bureau in your nearest city. if you are not located near one, then contact the overseeing ministry for a referral (The Bureau comes under this ministry) Ministry of Social Development and Human Security 1034 Krungkasem Rd., Klongmahanak, Pomprabsattrupai, Bangkok 10100 Thailand. tel.;+662-659-6399 the ministry's website in english (or click the Thai flag for the Thai section) http://www.m-society.go.th/en/index.php Edited January 5, 2011 by Lite Beer E Mail removed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
likewise Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 You should not wait to go to the police, first step is police and hospital if you wait too long the cops will start asking questions why you waited to file a complaint. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JurgenG Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 File a complain with the police as soon as possible. Don't believe what some people may say, police can be very efficient in Thailand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mussen Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 Like the others have said, don't delay in taking action, and don't wait for advice from others. Have the Mother of your daughter take it up with the highest authority possible as quick as possible, not just the local village chief (not sure if they are in a village but using that as an example). Quick contact with a good lawyer also. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geriatrickid Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 No intent to be condescending, but this might do better in the women's or family section since it is the woman of the household that usually has to deal with these things and I'm sure some of TVF's ladies know what to do. As an aside, don't get excited or make a big thing out of it when speaking to the child (unknown age) but stay calm. If everyone is freaking out, the kid will pick up on the anxiety. The key is to remain calm and stress that if inappropriate actions occurred, the child is not to blame and that the adult was in the wrong. Whatever, happens will ensure no one else is harmed by the pervert.. You probably know that already, but just a reminder. I wish you all the best, and for what it's worth, sorry to learn of this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donut42day Posted January 5, 2011 Author Share Posted January 5, 2011 Thanks all, Had advise my wife to contact police first. But she got worry no evidence... therefore she insist for check up before police. thanks geriatrickid for the "Child and or Youth Protection Bureau" info. Will advise my wife on this. I waiting for her call oso. Very worry... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 Thanks all, Had advise my wife to contact police first. But she got worry no evidence... therefore she insist for check up before police. thanks geriatrickid for the "Child and or Youth Protection Bureau" info. Will advise my wife on this. I waiting for her call oso. Very worry... The wife should really go to the BiB now and tell them what happened and that she is getting a medical report. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donut42day Posted January 5, 2011 Author Share Posted January 5, 2011 No intent to be condescending, but this might do better in the women's or family section since it is the woman of the household that usually has to deal with these things and I'm sure some of TVF's ladies know what to do. As an aside, don't get excited or make a big thing out of it when speaking to the child (unknown age) but stay calm. If everyone is freaking out, the kid will pick up on the anxiety. The key is to remain calm and stress that if inappropriate actions occurred, the child is not to blame and that the adult was in the wrong. Whatever, happens will ensure no one else is harmed by the pervert.. You probably know that already, but just a reminder. I wish you all the best, and for what it's worth, sorry to learn of this. Thanks geriatrickid .... a good point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pacificperson Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 I am not sure about Thailand, but in most cases the doctors seeing your daughter will file a police report. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donut42day Posted January 5, 2011 Author Share Posted January 5, 2011 Latest update from my wife. My daughter had finish her checkup & was told that a department under childcare is there to takeover the case. I assume its the "Child and or Youth Protection Bureau". Had remind my wife for the police report & laywer if necessary. transam what the " BiB"? . My wife & child are both in Trang (southern part). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nawtier Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 how did this taxi guy get access to your daughter ?? alone I would assume ?? And if you do not mind, but without the graphics...what level of molestation are we talking here ?? Being overseas must be hard when something like this happens....i would be going crazy. I have a 5yo daughter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donut42day Posted January 5, 2011 Author Share Posted January 5, 2011 how did this taxi guy get access to your daughter ?? alone I would assume ?? And if you do not mind, but without the graphics...what level of molestation are we talking here ?? Being overseas must be hard when something like this happens....i would be going crazy. I have a 5yo daughter. My daughter is 6 yr old. The pervert(Bike taxis) is not a stranger. My wife was busy at that time and ask this "bike taxis" to fetch my daughter back from school. From what my wife told me, the pervert did not immediately return but bought my child to meet up his friends. When my child return, she cry & describe the whole incident. What happen was that the pervert put his finger into her vagina. The pervert only halt when she was in pain & cried out. He even warn my daughter not to say anything about it. My wife did a check and found that her vagina had blood. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 Latest update from my wife. My daughter had finish her checkup & was told that a department under childcare is there to takeover the case. I assume its the "Child and or Youth Protection Bureau". Had remind my wife for the police report & laywer if necessary. transam what the " BiB"? . My wife & child are both in Trang (southern part). BiB, boys in brown, police. Sorry to read the latest details and l am sitting here fuming. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkkjames Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 Keep us updated on the progress - hopefully they get the lot of them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
random Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 how did this taxi guy get access to your daughter ?? alone I would assume ?? And if you do not mind, but without the graphics...what level of molestation are we talking here ?? Being overseas must be hard when something like this happens....i would be going crazy. I have a 5yo daughter. My daughter is 6 yr old. The pervert(Bike taxis) is not a stranger. My wife was busy at that time and ask this "bike taxis" to fetch my daughter back from school. From what my wife told me, the pervert did not immediately return but bought my child to meet up his friends. When my child return, she cry & describe the whole incident. What happen was that the pervert put his finger into her vagina. The pervert only halt when she was in pain & cried out. He even warn my daughter not to say anything about it. My wife did a check and found that her vagina had blood. Some legal systems will class that as rape, not sure about thailand though whether it has to be the penis inserted or other object/penis. maybe someone else can clear that up in relation to Thai law. Hopefully them lazy bastards will deal with this matter properly, and if not hopefully the locals will deal with it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donut42day Posted January 5, 2011 Author Share Posted January 5, 2011 Keep us updated on the progress - hopefully they get the lot of them. Yeah...i hope the BiB nail this pervert behind bar for a long period. Will wait for my wife update when she is free. Feel terrible for not able to attend nor comfort my daughter now. Hope she will forget this incident years later. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 wow, i normally would say that no matter what you cant have vigilante justice, but fukc I would be tempted to donate 50,000bht to the local hit man and deal with this scum in the fastest way possible. Sidjameson if law cannot resolve this matter , then likely a "donation" is unavoidable. I hope. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chunky1 Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 Take him fishing on Xmas morning (or Wednesday morning). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 Take him fishing on Xmas morning (or Wednesday morning). Good idea, anyone need an anchor. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nawtier Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 (edited) yeah....certainly not a nice incident and hope he gets what he deserves in more way than one. Only positive is that hopefully she is at an age that she will forget about it later in life and have no real recollection of it, although 6yo is kind of borderline i guess. Best wishes to you and wife for dealing with it. having a girl one year under that age, it does worry me endlessly this sort of thing. I know what I would be doing if the same thing had happened to us without hesitation. Edited January 5, 2011 by Nawtier Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forethat Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 (edited) Being a father of a girl myself, I feel deeply about this matter. I would seek professional advice on how to support your daughter in the best way possible. This is a case where I wouldn't trust the Thai machinery - not said they dont have the resources and skills required to deal with this. Edited January 5, 2011 by craigt3365 Derogatory remarks removed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heng Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 Hard not to recommend something illegal in these circumstances. So I won't since that's against the rules. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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