Lickey Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 After near 6 years, nearly 5 in Thailand, seems my mrs is still insanely jealous if i smile or wave at a girl who comes to the salon, or i know them from the market or just walking in our small town, its ok for her to chat with fellas i dont know, but she always tells me afterwards who they are, so no problem for me, Does your mrs/gf take a dim view of you smiling chatting with other girls? Cheers, Lickey.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moonrakers Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 Grow a pair Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
craigt3365 Posted March 9, 2011 Share Posted March 9, 2011 How about we move this over to the pub for a lively discussion? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mstribling Posted March 9, 2011 Share Posted March 9, 2011 Thais are odd with this. For them jealousy is the same as validating their love. I used to think they were protecting their money, but now I think their just crazy. The best way to deal with it is to ignore it. Don't change a thing. I've found they get pissed if you don't get jealous as well. Myself? Impossible to make jealous. I live on frickin' Thailand! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carmine Posted March 9, 2011 Share Posted March 9, 2011 (edited) They are very protective over the bank balance. They generally are less protective is their bloke is skint. Only joking, its a love thing. Edited March 9, 2011 by carmine Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bunta71 Posted March 9, 2011 Share Posted March 9, 2011 I have a friend in Chiang Mai whose wife does all the driving and will not allow him to look out the side windows. I told him to take his balls out of her purse and put them in his pants where they belong. She did not like hearing that... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boater Posted March 9, 2011 Share Posted March 9, 2011 I have a friend in Chiang Mai whose wife does all the driving and will not allow him to look out the side windows. I told him to take his balls out of her purse and put them in his pants where they belong. She did not like hearing that... oh dear .......... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
F1fanatic Posted March 9, 2011 Share Posted March 9, 2011 But its easy to deal with. Make it clear that you will behave as you like and if she doesn't like it she can 'go away'... As long as you truly mean it (so that she realises - accept or give up your money), she will become a) v accepting of the situation cut your d..k off if she's the aggressive type or c) go for a divorce settlement (if she's got a b/f anyway). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slapout Posted March 9, 2011 Share Posted March 9, 2011 As middle of the road does not seem an option, the OP should visualize the other extreme and accept this is way of some. "I do not give a good g.d da.n what you do, flirt, talk, die , leave, up to you." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeavyDrinker Posted March 9, 2011 Share Posted March 9, 2011 It's a question of respect. I simply don't give other women the 'glad eye' when I'm out with my wife as it's disrespecting her no matter how hot the other woman may be. She knows I do find some other women attractive. It would be naive for her not to think that - it's just human nature. It's not acting on that attraction that takes real balls. I do sweat, stammer and bumble in the presence of beauty at times when we are out but I never flirt. After a long time married, she can always 'sense' when I find a woman attractive yet says nothing. Apart from a gentle bit of piss-taking she says nothing because she knows that I don't want to wake up next to anyone else..and she's right. At the end of the day if your relationship is based on a solid foundation then she will be secure enough not to react. If you find your other half reacting all the time you are in a pretty weak relationship and have issues which must be addressed. I wish you well but it sounds pretty grim after 5 years if you're still having such issues. Maybe the thing you should be asking yourself is: 'would I still be with a woman from my own country/culture after so long if she behaved like this'? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
monkeystrong Posted March 9, 2011 Share Posted March 9, 2011 My ex had a special pair of sunglasses that the lenes were actual painted were I was unable to see out of them. She simply lead me around by my hand when ever we were out. And as mentioned earlier she also had my nuts in her purse were, If she thought I could see another women she would just simply give them a good squeeze.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katana Posted March 9, 2011 Share Posted March 9, 2011 I seem to remember one poster on here, when out and about and caught ogling a Thai girl by his better half, used to apparently deflect things by saying he was just wondering if the girl was a katoey or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mstribling Posted March 10, 2011 Share Posted March 10, 2011 It's a question of respect. I simply don't give other women the 'glad eye' when I'm out with my wife as it's disrespecting her no matter how hot the other woman may be. She knows I do find some other women attractive. It would be naive for her not to think that - it's just human nature. It's not acting on that attraction that takes real balls. I do sweat, stammer and bumble in the presence of beauty at times when we are out but I never flirt. After a long time married, she can always 'sense' when I find a woman attractive yet says nothing. Apart from a gentle bit of piss-taking she says nothing because she knows that I don't want to wake up next to anyone else..and she's right. At the end of the day if your relationship is based on a solid foundation then she will be secure enough not to react. If you find your other half reacting all the time you are in a pretty weak relationship and have issues which must be addressed. I wish you well but it sounds pretty grim after 5 years if you're still having such issues. Maybe the thing you should be asking yourself is: 'would I still be with a woman from my own country/culture after so long if she behaved like this'? You forgot to add 'if she were a smokin' hot sex freak' I'm just sayin'... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onnut Posted March 10, 2011 Share Posted March 10, 2011 I seem to remember one poster on here, when out and about and caught ogling a Thai girl by his better half, used to apparently deflect things by saying he was just wondering if the girl was a katoey or not. That was me! Lol. It still works after 8 years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moonrakers Posted March 10, 2011 Share Posted March 10, 2011 I seem to remember one poster on here, when out and about and caught ogling a Thai girl by his better half, used to apparently deflect things by saying he was just wondering if the girl was a katoey or not. I had once had a Filipino GF who would even accuse me of looking at the katoeys. Needles to say, that relationship didn't last long. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
billd766 Posted March 11, 2011 Share Posted March 11, 2011 It just saves my wife having to think of an excuse for a headache. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lickey Posted March 11, 2011 Author Share Posted March 11, 2011 Sorry folks, i suppose i should come clean now, i have no problems with my mrs about jealousy ect, i posted for a new fella who seems intent on how far he can push his thai girl, hes known her about a year, and a total of 2 months together, hes a great bloke, and shes a real thai beauty, ive tried to tell him to calm things down if he wants to keep her, hes done all the right things with the family ect, but this teasing could be the undoing of the relationship, Thanks for all your posts, Lickey.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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