infinity11 Posted March 14, 2013 Share Posted March 14, 2013 Not sure if this one is going to fly here but hope it is ok to try:I have noticed that pattaya gals basically do not call or come over just/only to sleep and/or for companionship, especially if there is no money involved.They would rather sleep alone or in squalor than in a decent room, or be alone or with their buds, unless it is a business proposition.Very different indeed from bangkok. I do see that many people are in pattaya out of desperation so i guess they HOLD OUT for the baht.Any tricks or ideas to bypass this business model and mentality and please for god sakes be civil here!!! This is not so much about being kineo (cheap) but more about companionship.Thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stoneyboy Posted March 14, 2013 Share Posted March 14, 2013 Mmmmmmm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post meatballs Posted March 14, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 14, 2013 I think not paying a lady is stealing in a way. You know and I know that they are in it for the money. What lady intentionally sleeps with a man for nothing?? 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted March 14, 2013 Share Posted March 14, 2013 The term 'pattaya gals' is interesting. Is the OP referring to ladies who were born in Pattaya ... or those ladies who are on a temporary working assignment there at the bequest of their Boss? . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OMGImInPattaya Posted March 14, 2013 Share Posted March 14, 2013 Get a life! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post mad mary Posted March 14, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 14, 2013 Rohypnol ? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
norrona Posted March 14, 2013 Share Posted March 14, 2013 perhaps OP you are 'boring' to them.... I can't say in my time as a single man living and working in Pattaya that I have been short of female company...in fact I had to be quite rude to get them to leave my house and very selective on who had my actual number and not my pay as you go throw away one... married man now so can't comment of late....but I had a great time with all the girls I met on a social network site, majority of them were BKK ladies and were up for installation if it was there! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThaidDown Posted March 14, 2013 Share Posted March 14, 2013 Lets cut to the chase here.....op wants to know how to get freebies in Pattaya. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
candypants Posted March 14, 2013 Share Posted March 14, 2013 The term 'pattaya gals' is interesting. Is the OP referring to ladies who were born in Pattaya ... or those ladies who are on a temporary working assignment there at the bequest of their Boss? . oh come off it, unlss you are thick you know exactly what he means. why even bother writing such a disingenuous bit of nonsense? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rgs2001uk Posted March 14, 2013 Share Posted March 14, 2013 I think not paying a lady is stealing in a way. You know and I know that they are in it for the money. What lady intentionally sleeps with a man for nothing?? Suggest you change the circle of friends you keep. Or maybe change location, sounds like you have been in Pattaya too long. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SparklingCascades Posted March 14, 2013 Share Posted March 14, 2013 Pattaya is a brothel and so men pay. For a girl to hang out for FREE one needs to be of 'natural' interest to her. Have something in common. Otherwise the only common denominator becomes the baht. No money, no honey. Some might add that having a nice car helps, also making time to cluck around, do restaurants/outings/beach scene, maybe even a nice house (can't say I have one but I have my space in my parents villa), get-together's with other friends, definitely a nice gym-toned body..........My farang friends say that in Thailand run of the mill middle-aged men usually pay either in cash or when taking a live-in partner Try not to sound like a cheap-charlie. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted March 15, 2013 Share Posted March 15, 2013 Plenty stories on the other, monger-specific forums of guys who 'live' in Pattaya having no problems with giks calling them up at all hours, asking to come over for a chat, watch a movie, nap with maybe some dancing lessons. In the same way, the OP probably has a head-start over the Pattaya lads when it comes to acquiring a freebie companion in Bangkok. Arguably there are two different 'business models' in Bangkok and Pattaya but which one is more adept at 'polishing a turd' is still open to conjecture. If the OP is telling the ladies he is from Bangkok, maybe that initiates a different game plan on their part, ie. newbie munter in town; get what you can; keep moving. Maybe, with experience and local knowledge, he may be able to pass himself off as a 'local' and have all the questionably free rumpy pumpy company that is available. Regarding the ladies chosing their relative squalor over the OP's more palatial digs; if he offered them the room but took himself back to Bangkok, I reckon they would be over in a jiffy. With their girlfriends. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
infinity11 Posted March 15, 2013 Author Share Posted March 15, 2013 Pleasantly surprised by the responses, thanks folks. Even got in a few chuckles. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Potosi Posted March 15, 2013 Share Posted March 15, 2013 Paying her is the politest way to tell her to get out now. Companionship? Who's after this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meatballs Posted March 15, 2013 Share Posted March 15, 2013 Paying her is the politest way to tell her to get out now. Companionship? Who's after this? You can get a freebie every single day here in Thailand without much difficulty. But the girls are almost certainly looking for cash or a relationship after the one night stand. You can lose them the next day but you will be looking over your shoulder all the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackPuddingBertha Posted March 16, 2013 Share Posted March 16, 2013 "“I don't pay them for sex. I pay them to leave.” Charlie Sheen. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poanoi Posted March 16, 2013 Share Posted March 16, 2013 you will not have a problem if you try out girls your own age Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackPuddingBertha Posted March 16, 2013 Share Posted March 16, 2013 you will not have a problem if you try out girls your own age Girls my age should be put in a zoo. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chuckd Posted March 16, 2013 Share Posted March 16, 2013 "This is not so much about being kineo (cheap) but more about companionship." Have you considered a puppy? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rijb Posted March 16, 2013 Share Posted March 16, 2013 "This is not so much about being kineo (cheap) but more about companionship." Have you considered a puppy? But, he might want to think about the age difference... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattayadingo Posted March 16, 2013 Share Posted March 16, 2013 you will not have a problem if you try out girls your own age Girls my age should be put in a zoo. Women my age are usually mummified. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prospero Posted March 16, 2013 Share Posted March 16, 2013 I find no problem striking up relationships with Thai girls who share my interest in Bach Cantatas and Abstract Expressionist Art. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
infinity11 Posted March 16, 2013 Author Share Posted March 16, 2013 I find no problem striking up relationships with Thai girls who share my interest in Bach Cantatas and Abstract Expressionist Art. Both of them? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lemoncake Posted March 16, 2013 Share Posted March 16, 2013 I think not paying a lady is stealing in a way. You know and I know that they are in it for the money. What lady intentionally sleeps with a man for nothing?? lady who actually likes the man and not his wallet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lemoncake Posted March 16, 2013 Share Posted March 16, 2013 The whole culture of the "service" has changed over the years, and BKK is not different in Pattaya. Pattaya is generally more busy in that scene, so by staying with someone she does miss out on potential income, while in BKK during low seasons, it is really low, so they can afford to have a good night sleep and a nice meal. Also keep in mind, those in Pattaya are still looking for a sponsor, while the ones in BKK, many already have sponsor or a few , so money is not really a huge problem. Being nice to look at, fit, friendly and fun also helps, as "gals" are only human and also like to spend some time with someone they might actually like and find attractive Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PomRakBKK Posted March 17, 2013 Share Posted March 17, 2013 Maybe its not the girls, its you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ayayay Posted March 17, 2013 Share Posted March 17, 2013 perhaps OP you are 'boring' to them.... I can't say in my time as a single man living and working in Pattaya that I have been short of female company...in fact I had to be quite rude to get them to leave my house and very selective on who had my actual number and not my pay as you go throw away one... married man now so can't comment of late....but I had a great time with all the girls I met on a social network site, majority of them were BKK ladies and were up for installation if it was there! And you never ever opened the wallet? you are a "very hansom man" indeed! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mr.buffalo Posted March 17, 2013 Share Posted March 17, 2013 I found that the McDonalds in Bangkok is about 40baht cheaper than Pattaya. Only difference for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
breadbin Posted March 17, 2013 Share Posted March 17, 2013 Maybe op the women just don't want you for free? Think about that. Maybe if they did they would be really desperate! Get over it mate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
infinity11 Posted March 18, 2013 Author Share Posted March 18, 2013 I take back my last comment/post. Too good to be true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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