I Need Help To Write A Letter In Thai

[happy chatter]

I have been in a relationship with a thai girl for the last 14 months, lately our relationship is not going so well to do with personal and private

times between us to my complete satisfaction.

I travel back and forth from australia to see her every couple of months. She is living in a village in Isan and speaks some english but

she is unable to read english. It has come to the point between us now where I have to tell her to correct some of her attitude and conduct

with me or she will lose me. I bought the house she is living in and recently paid for some extensions to it, paid off her motor bike, and

I regularly send her supporting money.I really dont want to break it off with her if it can be avoided but I am at the cross roads with it all.

I tried to discuss it with her in person last month when i was there however she is really hot tempered and i said things the wrong way and

she lost her cool with me, not giving me a chance to correct what i said before it ended in an all out war. Then the 4 year old kid she

is looking after for her sister started to cry and carry on with a tantrum which intertupted our whole conversation, so I left the house and went

into town and stayed at a hotel that night and came back to australia the next day. We still communicate often on the phone and i say

nothing more to her about any of it. Hence why I want to put it in writting simply so she understands and email it to her.

I have composed a short straight to the point letter to have her see my point of view over some things. However I cannot write thai script

and i really do need help from some understanding person who can translate the letter into thai for me. I really do love this girl very much

and I am a little embarrased about posting this request on TV. But I am hoping that there is someone who perhaps has a wife or GF who

understands english or perhaps a native speaking thai friend likewise who can assist me.I do not know of anyone personally

who is able to help me.

I have tried translating it by google and many other online translators but none of them are accurate enough with what I have written.

[AdamRich]

There is no way this post could be real. If I have learned anything from several years of coming to Thailand, reading the web, and reading books like Money Number One, then it is NEVER buy anything in anyone else's name that you don't have a problem giving away.

I don't think she will mind losing you. You have already set her up for life. It will be like losing a lottery ticket after you have claimed your cash prize.

[happy chatter]

There is no way this post could be real. If I have learned anything from several years of coming to Thailand, reading the web, and reading books like Money Number One, then it is NEVER buy anything in anyone else's name that you don't have a problem giving away. I don't think she will mind losing you. You have already set her up for life. It will be like losing a lottery ticket after you have claimed your cash prize.

regretably this post is very real, there is a whole lot more behind it all than I intend to divulge on this site. As for you saying she wont mind losing me ! dont be too sure about that. She has no income whatsoever, very little education and looking after her sisters 4 year old, her sister has flown the coop 6 months ago and abandond the kid.no one knows her whereabouts and she does not communicate with any of the family.It is a small family living in a small village and no one has any work or income. I am the sole supporter. I am also paying the fees for sending the kid to kindergarden type of school

[benalibina]

There is no way this post could be real. If I have learned anything from several years of coming to Thailand, reading the web, and reading books like Money Number One, then it is NEVER buy anything in anyone else's name that you don't have a problem giving away. I don't think she will mind losing you. You have already set her up for life. It will be like losing a lottery ticket after you have claimed your cash prize.

There is no way this post could be real. If I have learned anything from several years of coming to Thailand, reading the web, and reading books like Money Number One, then it is NEVER buy anything in anyone else's name that you don't have a problem giving away. I don't think she will mind losing you. You have already set her up for life. It will be like losing a lottery ticket after you have claimed your cash prize.

What a stupid comment. The guy asks for help on a translation. Not for his actions, wether good, bad, clever or stupid, to be questioned.

[happy chatter]

There is no way this post could be real. If I have learned anything from several years of coming to Thailand, reading the web, and reading books like Money Number One, then it is NEVER buy anything in anyone else's name that you don't have a problem giving away. I don't think she will mind losing you. You have already set her up for life. It will be like losing a lottery ticket after you have claimed your cash prize.

>There is no way this post could be real. If I have learned anything from several years of coming to Thailand, reading the web, and reading books like Money Number One, then it is NEVER buy anything in anyone else's name that you don't have a problem giving away. I don't think she will mind losing you. You have already set her up for life. It will be like losing a lottery ticket after you have claimed your cash prize.

What a stupid comment. The guy asks for help on a translation. Not for his actions, wether good, bad, clever or stupid, to be questioned.

thank you,

[soi41]

Maybe your GF lost her cool with you, because you according to another post has a boyfriend!

Before seeking help/advice here at least get your stories straight!

[metisdead]

Moved to the Thai Language forum for better answers.

[happy chatter]

Maybe your GF lost her cool with you, because you according to another post has a boyfriend!

Before seeking help/advice here at least get your stories straight!

my story is straight dont concern yourself about that , but so you are better informed without making asumptions regarding my preferences in certain areas, NO i do not have a boyfriend as you infered, That particular posting to do with english class or lessons for a male friend. THE MALE FRIEND HAPPENS TO BE MY GFS BROTHER.. I hope now you undertstand. next time you get your facts straight before making wild assumptions about me .

[Murf]

The sisters kid and the girlfriends brother... Where have i heard that one before??

[AdamRich]

There is no way this post could be real. If I have learned anything from several years of coming to Thailand, reading the web, and reading books like Money Number One, then it is NEVER buy anything in anyone else's name that you don't have a problem giving away. I don't think she will mind losing you. You have already set her up for life. It will be like losing a lottery ticket after you have claimed your cash prize.

As for you saying she wont mind losing me ! dont be too sure about that. She has no income whatsoever, very little education. I am the sole supporter. I am also paying the fees for sending the kid to kindergarden type of school

Makes for one hell of a mate. Guys come over here and lose their damn minds. They actually volunteer to have their lives run into the ground, then have the nerve to talk about western women and money. Just like that film that someone recommended recently, "My Thai Bride." I downloaded it and watched it. The girl is out right telling the farang husband that she does not love him after he has built her a house and started a pig farm. And he has the nerve to say yes she says that but I don't believe her. Then has to go and ask her for some of HIS money back so he can get a ticket back home to England because he is officially destitute.

The stories are endless, but they usually have the same m.o. and turn out the same. Guy can't get a girl in his own country for whatever reason (couldn't be a financial reason judging from the way they throw money out to Thai women). Guy comes to Thailand and overlooks all of the available, educated women who are doing something for themselves and DON'T require financial assistance, and instead meets an uneducated, unemployed chick without a pot to piss in to fall in love with. He becomes the provider for her AND her family. His money runs out or he has outlived his usefulness, then they don't want anything else to do with him. I guess it's just too easy to learn from others' mistakes. Each person's experience is their own best teacher. Good luck though man.

[happy chatter]

There is no way this post could be real. If I have learned anything from several years of coming to Thailand, reading the web, and reading books like Money Number One, then it is NEVER buy anything in anyone else's name that you don't have a problem giving away. I don't think she will mind losing you. You have already set her up for life. It will be like losing a lottery ticket after you have claimed your cash prize.

As for you saying she wont mind losing me ! dont be too sure about that. She has no income whatsoever, very little education. I am the sole supporter. I am also paying the fees for sending the kid to kindergarden type of school

Makes for one hell of a mate. Guys come over here and lose their damn minds. They actually volunteer to have their lives run into the ground, then have the nerve to talk about western women and money. Just like that film that someone recommended recently, "My Thai Bride." I downloaded it and watched it. The girl is out right telling the farang husband that she does not love him after he has built her a house and started a pig farm. And he has the nerve to say yes she says that but I don't believe her. Then has to go and ask her for some of HIS money back so he can get a ticket back home to England because he is officially destitute.

The stories are endless, but they usually have the same m.o. and turn out the same. Guy can't get a girl in his own country for whatever reason (couldn't be a financial reason judging from the way they throw money out to Thai women). Guy comes to Thailand and overlooks all of the available, educated women who are doing something for themselves and DON'T require financial assistance, and instead meets an uneducated, unemployed chick without a pot to piss in to fall in love with. He becomes the provider for her AND her family. His money runs out or he has outlived his usefulness, then they don't want anything else to do with him. I guess it's just too easy to learn from others' mistakes. Each person's experience is their own best teacher. Good luck though man.

your point well taken. I have on many occasions questioned my own mind if in fact I am being manipulated in this relationship and will end up becoming just another one of the sad stories of broken hearts that seems to be rampant in this country. I made no secret of the fact in my posting that my relationship with this girl apears to be going downhill fast ( not from my side of it but in fact from much of the conduct and attitude lately from her towards me over certain issues ) Hence why I intend to put my concerns and disatisfaction in writting and in a way that she can fully understand, hopefully by doing so it will have the effect of her seeing my side of things. Several times when I have attempted to discuss it with her in person it always has ended in in a hostile arguement which only confuses me more as to where I actually do stand and whether or not I am only her personal ATM. One thing for certain is that I do not intend to bankrupt myself and doing a swan dive from a high apartment building. Time will tell if I am only a real sucker or a true lover.

[Will2011]

WHY ARE YOU POSTING THE SAME TOPIC TWICE?

Here is my comment I wrote in the other topic:

When I read a few sentences of your post, I saw some keywords that lead me to say "red flags" there.

What do you want me to say? If you don't tell your story, how can we help you? Your first mistake as a smart person is not learning the language. But instead of blaming, I should point out there are many translation agencies ready to help you.

But, if you really want to help yourself, move on and get rid of unnecessary complications.

[Rimmer]

Please do not cross the same topic to multiple forums. As you already have this topic running here this topic is

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